Being Hot isn't enough? Your thoughts...

[BallsMahoney]

Been with my wife for many moons now. I often wonder if I'd get any compliments in the peen department if I was playing the field again. Before I was married, I never got any compliments or complaints. 6.25 x 4.75 seemed to do the trick, solid average. I love my wife, and would never, but I wonder what they'd say about 7.5 x 5.3, probably nothing LOL!

[madyogi]

Been with my wife for many moons now. I often wonder if I'd get any compliments in the peen department if I was playing the field again. Before I was married, I never got any compliments or complaints. 6.25 x 4.75 seemed to do the trick, solid average. I love my wife, and would never, but I wonder what they'd say about 7.5 x 5.3, probably nothing LOL!

I wonder now too, Balls. Like you, no one ever really said anything either way when I was "getting around," but bringing a woman to orgasm was never a problem, nor was having a woman "come back for more" after an initial sexcapade. For all my gushing about the value of monogamy, there are also negatives. Pros and cons on both sides, but there's no doubt "hotness" and "size" are way more important in the "hook up" scenario than the long-term scenario.

And there's no doubt I sometimes imagine what it might be like to wield my newfound weapon on the hookup battlefield again.

[PEispossible]

yeah probably last girl I saw I put up with her addiction to alcohol, and "hoped for the best"


Thing's didn't change, and enough was enough



are you two attached ?



It may take as long as a couple months to "get over her", if you were seeing one another twice a week or less, no sleepovers, it will definitely take a shorter time than a person who saw her daily


If I were in your shoes, I would just let it go. After looks go, personality is important and I guess you gotta keep dating to find a match you feel good about


If you havent found anyone and she contracts you, maybe


Two schools of thought

a. Its best to not text for at least a month, and not sleep together because itll confuse the attachment progress and delay healing time

b. Its okay to have sex, even though there is an understanding that the committed relationship between you two is over

I ponder myself which is the "best" choice

I look at it like either way it happens, ill be fine

if I want to get over her emotionally, the fastest, Id do a

what do you think which choice would be best for you?

[Ultimate Burrito]

@PEispossible, there was absolutely no emotional attachment to her, hence the whole "she's beautiful but there's no chemistry". I think this would be the third time that we have faded out of each others life but there is no remorse. Honestly I keep allowing her back in just because she is so beautiful, possibly the hottest person I've ever slept and she's a freak. Really, we had the same interests in the bedroom and both physically attracted to each other but once you got past all that, the rest was just really awkward. You shouldn't be in the bed with someone and constantly think about how you are ready for this to be over so she can leave, but sometimes the burrito speaks louder than the mind hahaha.

[Ultimate Burrito]

I wonder now too, Balls. Like you, no one ever really said anything either way when I was "getting around," but bringing a woman to orgasm was never a problem, nor was having a woman "come back for more" after an initial sexcapade. For all my gushing about the value of monogamy, there are also negatives. Pros and cons on both sides, but there's no doubt "hotness" and "size" are way more important in the "hook up" scenario than the long-term scenario.

And there's no doubt I sometimes imagine what it might be like to wield my newfound weapon on the hookup battlefield again.

Hehehe, I kinda did it different. I got married right away, started doing PE the last year or so of the marriage and then was cut lose shortly after before my gains really made a difference, then, when I turned 30 I started experience the equivalent of most guys's 20's. I just turned 32 recently and I've had more partners than the number of years alive.

Here's what I can say, the partners I remember the most and consider to have been some of the best "sex" are the ones that I had the strongest emotional connection too and best chemistry. I separate the two because I have been privileged in a couple instances having a married husband allow his wife to come to me to have some extra fun. In those cases I was careful not to have an emotional connection but there was still great chemistry.

Following that thought, I definitely consider the sex with the partners with great chemistry far superior to the ones that are "just hot". It's kinda like getting food that looks amazing but when you taste it there's no flavor vs getting a normal looking meal and the flavor knocks your socks off. Which meal will you remember the most?

Jumping back to the big dick factor with hookups... I can say that it makes a huge difference and is a game changer on the playing field. I don't end any "relationship" on a douche note. I just let it fizzle out nicely or just agree with whatever story the girl concocts. More times than not, a few weeks or month later I get a text message saying "hey" from the girl lol. Several had hooked up with another dude, he was small or couldn't last long in bed or all the above. She tells me how she misses my big fat dick and just needs a "fix". I don't always say yes, it depends on the nature of her relationship with the other dude and other circumstances but I have done it quite a few times. I've even had girls text me saying they are with someone but they wish their dick was as big as mine and it's hard to go back to "normal" dicks after having mine. <Sorry guys that have had their gf/ex gf tell them stories about the bigger ex>.

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To tie it all together, all these girls that have come back to me after the initial hookup had great chemistry with me. They weren't 10's, usually 5-7's. I just think there has to be something more, especially if you live in a smaller town. Now if I was on a business trip in a big city for a week or more it'd sure nuff be open season and who cares who they are. Just consider porn, I bet most times they only know each other for 30 minutes before it's time to film and the girl gets her money late and she's gone. I don't know if porn is a good comparison but it fit's the conditions I suppose lol. Alright, enough rambling lol.

[Party]

Hey Burrito a thought. Since you have been open with most of your lady friends about PE and we are short on female members, why not recruit them to join? This place is a lot more fun when there a few gals willing to throw their two cents in a discussion. I think what drives female members away is the unsolicited PM’s about their dick size or pics, IDK.

[Ultimate Burrito]

Hey Burrito a thought. Since you have been open with most of your lady friends about PE and we are short on female members, why not recruit them to join? This place is a lot more fun when there a few gals willing to throw their two cents in a discussion. I think what drives female members away is the unsolicited PM’s about their dick size or pics, IDK.

I did add a girl earlier this year but she didn't stay around long. Also, I'm not to keen on my identity being discovered here lol. Too many personal stories that could easily backfire on me.

[Party]

I did add a girl earlier this year but she didn't stay around long. Also, I'm not to keen on my identity being discovered here lol. Too many personal stories that could easily backfire on me.

LOL, Yes. ‘Lose lips, sink ships”. You could read a lot of different meanings in that statement I think.

[madyogi]

Following that thought, I definitely consider the sex with the partners with great chemistry far superior to the ones that are "just hot". It's kinda like getting food that looks amazing but when you taste it there's no flavor vs getting a normal looking meal and the flavor knocks your socks off. Which meal will you remember the most?

Great analogy. We recently had a Blue Apron meal, some kind of "barley bowl" with kale and mushrooms. I'm typically not a big gnarly mushroom fan, and the thing looked like a mess, but OMG it tasted fantastic. We definitely kept that recipe for future reference.

Another question for you, Burrito ... Have you ever had a girl ask you if you could teach their new b/f how to do these "exercises of yours"?

[Party]

I did add a girl earlier this year but she didn't stay around long. Also, I'm not to keen on my identity being discovered here lol. Too many personal stories that could easily backfire on me.

IDK, I gotta believe there a couple kinky ones that would love to read about your exploits and conquests including theirs. After all you are up front with each that your time with them is casual sex. And I doubt they are not sharing their “Big Dick” adventures with friends or other sites. You yourself have said word has gotten around and you are in high demand. So, What’s good for the goose.....