Being Hot isn't enough? Your thoughts...

**Ultimate Burrito** · 05-11-2020

If you've been on the forums long enough you've likely come across a one of my detailed encounters with the ladies. Well I'm sharing this one to show that even I have flops and also get you guys's opinion.

There is this one girl that we have been friends with benefits since the beginning of this year. Her body would be a perfect 10 aside from her hair (it's very short and curly but still cute). She's mixed and has creamy skin, the perkiest tits I've ever seen, very fit and tone, no excess body fat, perfect ass and bout 5'4". She is also a straight freak! I've been teaching her some things about being in control and being dominant because I like to take turns and switch roles. She's even approached me about putting my cock in a cage, HARD PASS lol.

In spite of all that, her personality sucks. She can really make me feel like poop with some of the passive comments she makes, she fakes orgasms sometimes and then tells me she really didn't get off after I mention that I'm glad she was able to get her's, etc. So physically she is very attractive but inner qualities are not at all to me.

So here's what happened.

We had sex last Wednesday and I didn't cum through Sunday (still haven't at the time I'm typing this lol). We get together and she was supposed to have her way with me, tie me up and tease and get me off. It was horrible, I just wasn't into her enough to keep things going. Like if it's just fucking, no problem but something that requires more, no bueno. By the end I just wanted her to leave, it was so awkward and she was acting all pissy and getting mad that things weren't working well. We finally called it and cancelled any future plans.

I will admit, it really hasn't been fun with her anytime we met. I mean I enjoy how her body looks but there is no connection at all between us and it's just, meh.

So guys, have you ever met someone that was incredibly hot but things sucked because there was no connection at all besides the physical one?

**Pegasus** · 05-11-2020

Umm yes AND???

This is something most people experience and move on.

**Ultimate Burrito** · 05-11-2020

Originally Posted by Pegasus

Umm yes AND???

This is something most people experience and move on.

Yeah pretty much the case here lol. The problem is, she loves my burrito and always comes back to me and I'm always horny lol.

**madyogi** · 05-11-2020

It's been a long time, but yes, I have been there. Chemistry is about way more than "looks".

**BallsMahoney** · 05-11-2020

Please just do us monogamous married guys a solid. Put your head down, CONTINUE to plow her fields, and report the stories back to us. Enough with this mumbo-jumbo!

**Ultimate Burrito** · 05-11-2020

Originally Posted by BallsMahoney

Please just do us monogamous married guys a solid. Put your head down, CONTINUE to plow her fields, and report the stories back to us. Enough with this mumbo-jumbo!

Oh don't worry bro, I got 3 new ones in the works.

**not2big** · 05-11-2020

In my early 20s, I met a lot of hot girls, but because of my penis insecurity I never got that far.

**Party** · 05-11-2020

I wish there some women here to turn the question around. Is a big cock and good looks enough to over look personality flaws? After all there are many guys here who think that a big dick is all a woman wants, despite polls that put it well down the list. Burrito excluded obviously.

**Ultimate Burrito** · 05-11-2020

Originally Posted by Party

I wish there some women here to turn the question around. Is a big cock and good looks enough to over look personality flaws? After all there are many guys here who think that a big dick is all a woman wants, despite polls that put it well down the list. Burrito excluded obviously.

I think that being hot is enough for a one night stand or just sex, but anything that is more intimate requires a connection. People hook up with hot escorts all the time but it's just sex. So I guess it depends on the nature of the encounter lol.

**madyogi** · 05-11-2020

Originally Posted by Ultimate Burrito

I think that being hot is enough for a one night stand or just sex, but anything that is more intimate requires a connection. People hook up with hot escorts all the time but it's just sex. So I guess it depends on the nature of the encounter lol.

Yep, I think it's largely determined by the nature of the encounter.

That said, you've proven that the "connection" bits start to count when it comes to anyone with whom you have history, regardless of the long term implications. For example, you have a history with this girl in question, but you're still largely just "hooking up" for sex, not anything more long-term or intimate than that. And even given the "nature of the encounter," the history you have with her (knowing she's obnoxious or whatever) still gets in the way.

This is probably also true when assessing how important penis size is to a woman. For a "hook-up" or "one night stand," a girl is likely to want more of a "wow" factor physically, but as the "connection" bits become deeper and more important, the physical bits just become parameters in a much more complex equation.