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    GettingOverIt
    Senior Member
    Last edited by GettingOverIt; 12-26-2020, 03:15 PM. Reason: Resolved this problem.

  • #2
    So, I am wondering a few things:

    First off, how old are you guys? Second, how many guys has she been with? Third, has she had children?

    Those answers will tell me a lot about how "sretched out" she is.

    In the meantime, women generally have no idea about inches when it comes to judging size, so I wouldn't get caught up in whether this or that size is big enough or whatever.

    Does she enjoy having sex with you?

    You've already said she climaxes with you, right?

    Sounds to me like you're overthinking the size thing a bit. My wife only wants to hear dick talk when we're in the heat of passion. Otherwise, bringing up my size or this site is guaraunteed to get a heavy eye roll.

    The idea is to enjoy sex with your partner when the opportunity arises. If you want more, ask to explore different positions, or talk honestly about ways you can create more opportunities.

    If she's feeling "stretched out" maybe she should do some vaginal weight-lifting, get some kegel balls/eggs to tone her muscles down there, etc. This isn't all about whether your cock is as big as her ex's cock or not.
    START : 2/6/2020
    BPEL : 5.875" - BaseEG : 5.25" - MSEG : 5.0"
    CURRENT : 11/18/2021
    BPEL : 7.5" - BaseEG : 5.75" - MSEG : 5.75"

    BPEL GOAL : 7.5+" - MSEG GOAL : 5.75+"

    MadYogi's PE Log

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    • #3
      Im 39 and she's 31. She's had two relationships before me that lasted 3 years each. She said the first guy was thicker and showed me with her hand, and apparently he never made her cum. The second guy was a black guy and she said he was longer and thicker than me, and he made her cum every time from the first time. She said I'm an in between in size and she never cums with me unless she plays a lot with her clit. In fact she never had to do that with him, I showed her that. So I know she's had better more relaxed way to cum with him compared to me.

      Why better? because I can see she hates having to concentrate on clit stimulation because she would prefer just getting it and orgasming... I know this cos once she said, in sex you just should cum and not have to think I have to cum. And of course, her body language during sex, looks like I'm enjoying it and she just looks like she's multitasking and then gets orgasm from clit which makes it super sore after and then she's done. It sucks cos I know she's not going to be in the mood of 'working' a second round to make herself cum. With her bigger ex, she's obviously used to him giving it to her and she can feel the attention on her and cum without expecting to or working for it.

      Whenever we watched porn together on really naughty occasions, she always said look at that pole wow, while watching a girl ride some huge porn guy. Then once to try and make me feel better, she said maybe she thought her ex looked longer and thicker because his penis was black and solid like a pole. So my penis never looked solid, or like a pole to her?

      Do you see my dilemma? How do I fix this or get over it. She's clearly not impressed with my now 7" . Obviously she loves me etc. But this issue is the point in our relationship that pushes us apart. I think sex is just a release for her most of the time and showing me she loves me still... I just need to beat this guy once and for all...

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      • #4
        The bigger dick ex is the standard way women lower male confidence,

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        • #5
          You absolutely have to find a way to get over the bigger ex thing or at least consider keeping it all in one thread.

          Please refrain from posting different titles that carry on over the same subject.
          Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
            The bigger dick ex is the standard way women lower male confidence,
            This☝️☝️☝️
            Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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            • #7
              Okay, so she's only had two other partners and she's not had vaginal child birth, so being "stretched out" is not a thing for her. She could do some of her own work with vaginal weights or jade egss or whatever to increase her own pleasure if she wants. Also, there are things like the Womanizer that are supposed to stimulate the clit without directly causing fatigue; and obviously there are huge-ass dildos you could drive her crazy with if she's truly a size queen.

              In the end I'm gonna agree with Peg and BigO, she's just talking shit, and you need to get over it and own your dick. If she truly loves you, size shouldn't be a problem. For many women, sex is just a release and doesn't have the same appeal it does for men. And you craving validation from her and obsessing over this is not going to help, just so you know.

              You don't need to "beat this guy once and for all," you need to beat your own insecurities.
              madyogi
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              Member of the Month April 2020
              PEGym Hero
              Last edited by madyogi; 12-03-2020, 06:41 PM.
              START : 2/6/2020
              BPEL : 5.875" - BaseEG : 5.25" - MSEG : 5.0"
              CURRENT : 11/18/2021
              BPEL : 7.5" - BaseEG : 5.75" - MSEG : 5.75"

              BPEL GOAL : 7.5+" - MSEG GOAL : 5.75+"

              MadYogi's PE Log

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              • #8
                Here we go again.........
                Start: BPEL 6.75', EG 5.8", BPFL 4.5", FG 4.7", BPFSL 7.0"
                05/2021: BPEL 7.65”, EG 6.0”, BPFL 5.8”, FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.0"
                Goal: BPEL 8.0", EG 6.0", BPFL 5.75" FG 5.0", BPFSL 8.5"

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                • #9
                  Umm just a standard point I make in these situations . Here is a person going to som effort to knock you down . Is that really a person you want to spend the rest of your life with?

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                  • #10
                    Here's another question I would ask of you, OP: Do you ever feel your wife's cervix while fingering her?

                    I ask because I noticed you saying something on another thread about how you never bottom out (as if that's some right of passage or something), even after all the "work" you do to pull her lips apart and counteract that damned fat pad.

                    My wife has had many partners before me, I'm guessing 10, maybe 20 or more, and she had a vaginal delivery. She never complains about my size. Never did before PE, and now she acknowledges my growth, but I don't think she cares much one way or another. We both enjoy sex immensely when it happens, though it's much less important to her than to me.

                    When we're doing foreplay, I can easily find her cervix with my fingers maybe 3.5-4" deep. Yet when I'm fucking her I don't really feel her cervix like I'm bottoming out. It's not like vaginas are 7" deep or 8" deep and that's it. They're quite pliable, and they adjust to arousal quite amazingly. Chasing the bottoming out and trying to beat your wife's recollection of some ex is not going to serve you well.
                    START : 2/6/2020
                    BPEL : 5.875" - BaseEG : 5.25" - MSEG : 5.0"
                    CURRENT : 11/18/2021
                    BPEL : 7.5" - BaseEG : 5.75" - MSEG : 5.75"

                    BPEL GOAL : 7.5+" - MSEG GOAL : 5.75+"

                    MadYogi's PE Log

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                    • #11
                      Avoid discussing the topic with your wife. It will only make things worse.

                      Now, if your wife is obsessed with the dick of her ex, maybe you should reconsider your relationship.
                      Progress Log
                      Start (20/06/2020):
                      BPEL 5.9, EG 4.1
                      Current (21/10/2020): BPEL 6.3, EG 4.5

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by BigO View Post
                        You absolutely have to find a way to get over the bigger ex thing or at least consider keeping it all in one thread.

                        Please refrain from posting different titles that carry on over the same subject.
                        I apologize. It's just very frustrating. I'm trying to get over it. This has really knocked my confidence.

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                        • #13
                          Also: What is Penile Dysmorphic Disorder? How Do I Know if I Have it?
                          Progress Log
                          Start (20/06/2020):
                          BPEL 5.9, EG 4.1
                          Current (21/10/2020): BPEL 6.3, EG 4.5

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by GettingOverIt View Post
                            I apologize. It's just very frustrating. I'm trying to get over it. This has really knocked my confidence.
                            Yep works a treat thats why women do it so commonly.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by southernprince View Post
                              Avoid discussing the topic with your wife. It will only make things worse.

                              Now, if your wife is obsessed with the dick of her ex, maybe you should reconsider your relationship.
                              She's not obsessed, she just tells me she's not going to lie. I believe she's not lying. She's THE most honest person I've ever met and know.

                              Admittedly, I start these conversations and it never helps. But with my notable gains, I just thought I'd try to fish feedback since she's not said anything or noticed.

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