How to find a quality girlfriend/wife

[Pegasus]

I actually understand the OP, in that if the person you're dating spews one of your deal breakers, how much more do you need to know about that person?

OP is clearly looking to be a little conservative, and less promiscuous personality. For him, bragging on about meaningless sex might me unacceptable.

Can we not just respect him, and try not force our individual values on him?

Ahhhrgh thing is a long list of "deal breakers" or just being super with "deal breakers" is not a sign you are a reasonable and together human being

[neobne]

Is that an assumption, or have you seen that list? :P

[Pegasus]

I have read the thread and seen the reality out in life .

[SuperGuy]

I think the Op has head issues and that will make relationships difficult.

Has had or has head?

[thepowerpole]

Questions on when one finds a decent woman.

Should I ever open up? Or is there a too much opening up, so much that she will see me as unattractive after opening up?
Does being a man mean that you keep your vulnerabilities to yourself or at least the most critical ones?

[CUSP82]

Be exactly who and what you are.Phony never works.

[arlos]

Most people in their early twenties are still developing their personalities and undergoing a lot of change.

My advice to myself at OP's age would be:

1) Focus on improving yourself.
2) Don't look. Forget about it. When you interact with people it shouldn't be own your mind.
3) Socialize and make more friends in different social groups.

What I value in a partner is someone who we influence each other to be better people.