Hello,
You can skip reading this paragraph if you're busy. I am 22 and I'm finishing my last year at university. I've been spending the last year trying to improve myself. I cut out video games, politics, and porn which has made me way more productive, confident and happier. I started learning how to play the piano in my free time, and started gaining muscle and loosing fat to the point where my shoulders pop out and I have abs. I'm making good progress towards getting this job I want after college by doing well in classes and passing these preliminary tests for the job. But I am still unhappy because my romantic life is trash. I've done a few fwb before, but either I grow attached or she does, and either way I end up feeling like shit. I want someone longterm but it seems ever increasingly harder to find someone good.
My question is how do I find a quality gf and eventually wife. I recently downloaded Bumble and had like 100 matches in a few days, but none of the people I matched with seemed like quality long-term material so I ended up deleting the app. Seems like the majority of girls my age are either too promiscuous to be trusted, too far left for someone who's apolitical like me, or just not very bright/interesting. I've gone on about 6 first dates this year and not to be an asshole but all of them have left me disappointed.
1) What makes someone quality gf/wife material?
2) How and where do you find a quality girl?
You can skip reading this paragraph if you're busy. I am 22 and I'm finishing my last year at university. I've been spending the last year trying to improve myself. I cut out video games, politics, and porn which has made me way more productive, confident and happier. I started learning how to play the piano in my free time, and started gaining muscle and loosing fat to the point where my shoulders pop out and I have abs. I'm making good progress towards getting this job I want after college by doing well in classes and passing these preliminary tests for the job. But I am still unhappy because my romantic life is trash. I've done a few fwb before, but either I grow attached or she does, and either way I end up feeling like shit. I want someone longterm but it seems ever increasingly harder to find someone good.
My question is how do I find a quality gf and eventually wife. I recently downloaded Bumble and had like 100 matches in a few days, but none of the people I matched with seemed like quality long-term material so I ended up deleting the app. Seems like the majority of girls my age are either too promiscuous to be trusted, too far left for someone who's apolitical like me, or just not very bright/interesting. I've gone on about 6 first dates this year and not to be an asshole but all of them have left me disappointed.
1) What makes someone quality gf/wife material?
2) How and where do you find a quality girl?
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