Letting go of PE to get a girl

[watersnake Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close watersnake]

I have been studying the art of seduction and pick up. I have come to the conclusion that PE- for me- is as severe as masturbation when it comes to pick up. It deflates sexual tension, and makes cold approaches harder and awkward. I have realized that having a big dick is just like having big money, or big biceps; it doesn't necessarily yield girls. I am posting this in this forum because this is my new path.

Being over 30, having no girlfriend, living with my mom, and pulling my cock with canning tongs.. just isnt the right path anymore. Im letting go of pe now; maybe it will come back, maybe not.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

If that is how you feel then go for it. The fact that you do PE has nothing to do with the other things you've mentioned but if you feel getting away from it helps then be at peace with your decision.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

If that is how you feel then go for it. The fact that you do PE has nothing to do with the other things you've mentioned but if you feel getting away from it helps then be at peace with your decision.

I agree with this 100%

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I agree with this 100%

So do I! Smart guy huh?????

[TeoDeles Senior Member Member of the Month July 2018 Find all posts View Profile Close TeoDeles]

If that is how you feel then go for it. The fact that you do PE has nothing to do with the other things you've mentioned but if you feel getting away from it helps then be at peace with your decision.

I agree with this BUT.... I have a better solution to keep both... your mood for sex and not losing yourself in all day PE.
Do light manual stretching for 10 mins and light jelqing for an other 10 mins 2on/1off.
With the warm up and everything its less than 30 mins of your time so your brain will not be all day in PE and your mood for sex will be inceased too.
Not to mention that you will be surprised about the EQ and possibly about the gains.

Overtraining and/or doing PE all day is causing the mentality that you feel right now.(exausted mentaly and physicly and feeling pathetic)
When you will be doing correct-effective PE with a reasonable amount of timing (20 mins to 1h) you will feel your dick and your PF refreshed instead of fatigued and this will result in higher libido-higher EQ-better gains.

This was my recomondation. You can try it for 1 month and report back if you like.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Stop porn. Stop edging/ballooning if you're addicted to it. Invest time for basic stretches and jelqs, or w/e.

If PE is taking all of your time and/or is a distraction from having a normal healthy lifestyle, then yes, a decon break should be in order for you to get things in order, for yourself.

Be well bro.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

By all means pe is not for everyone even for those it is it might not be forever .

Now my view of pua is becomes clear in this thread and I suggest you read it before going down that path.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/719...tml?highlight=

[watersnake Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close watersnake]

My new years weekend was a sloppy bout of pe/masturbation with toys and tools. I could keep progressing with pe, but it hurts my 'game'. Let this new year becometh something clean and new. Let this thread be a sporadic log of real sex. Peace be unto this house of pe.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Hurts your "game"?

Umm ok log the sex.

[Ultimate Burrito Moderator Member of the Month Oct 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Ultimate Burrito]

Not trying to sham or dis at all because I've been in the same situation a couple times. You did say you were living with your mom right?

Do you have a job bringing in a lifestyle sustaining income? (Afford rent, bills etc. without dependency)
Can you care for yourself? (cook, laundry, clean, etc.)
Do you have a reliable, independent form of transportation?
Do you have active hobbies? (Not just video games)

All these factors can hinder you way more than doing PE. Definitely living with your mom is a big deal unless you have a really really good reason and the girl has a sensitive heart.

[watersnake Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close watersnake]

These landlords suck man they flip the property to someone else before you look at it or they ask for your credit score and then scam you. My girl problems suck and pua is the only way forward im afraid

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Pua is the dark side and not effective for long term anyway .
Have a think about what Burrito said .

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

PUA is a gimmick, doesn't work for most and the ones it does work for were abe to pick up girls before.

[BreakfastSausage Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BreakfastSausage]

PUA is disingenuous, it is full of tricks and inauthenticity.

I studied it myself and one of my good buddies got into it as well. He even met up with the local, "lair," and went, "sarging," with those people (who turned out to be very weird).

My personal belief is that a woman can bring you temporary validation and happiness, but when she finds out that your life lacks purpose, meaning, drive, direction, and passion, the relationship will fall flat.

Self-improvement is about knowing your value and offering your gifts to the world.

[southernprince Senior Member Member of the Month March 2021 Find all posts View Profile Close southernprince]

You might learn a thing or two by so-called PUAs, but eventually you can only learn how to attract women by interacting with them in real life.

Also, as UB said, having your life in order is important in attracting other people.