Hey peeps,
I really need some help from you. So, first of all I struggle with preE and fighting it. I want to know how to be confident and not insecure when you can't satisfy a woman by intercourse? I feel like giving up on dating because of this.
I hooked up last night (first date), had an amazing time, gave her a lot of pleasure BUT 5-10 minutes of intercourse (each lasted like 2 minutes) which were slow and hard thrusts. I could go for a 3-4 rounds but was a bit hard to get erection, and wasn't able to use a condom so thanks to the preE training, I am learning the pull-out method. She was very understanding and kind, but I was like "Naah, it can't be. I have a good stamina, but this....". The morning we had another one in the shower, but then again, about 15-20 hard and slow thrusts and had to pull out and cum. I was again insecure and was telling her like "naah its not ok, i know you wanna be f**** hard. I really need to take care of this stress" but she kept insisting its okay and to trust her and to relax since sex is about having fun. That I was too stressed. When I walked her off, I showed a bad insecure vibe like in a lighthearted way "I hope you had fun. Not sure if I should believe you, but from my perspective you did". I had like a bit of sad face with a smirk.
I would really appreciate any advice on this matter.
Also, do you think the woman will take that as a bad sign and will not want to see me again? I mean she had a hell of a great time (got a lot of oral from me, bdsm stuff, etc) high energy vibe, she was very satisfied especially how I treated her, showed me some naughty photos of hers, said next time she will bring one of her costumes.
Thanks upfront!
Cheers
I really need some help from you. So, first of all I struggle with preE and fighting it. I want to know how to be confident and not insecure when you can't satisfy a woman by intercourse? I feel like giving up on dating because of this.
I hooked up last night (first date), had an amazing time, gave her a lot of pleasure BUT 5-10 minutes of intercourse (each lasted like 2 minutes) which were slow and hard thrusts. I could go for a 3-4 rounds but was a bit hard to get erection, and wasn't able to use a condom so thanks to the preE training, I am learning the pull-out method. She was very understanding and kind, but I was like "Naah, it can't be. I have a good stamina, but this....". The morning we had another one in the shower, but then again, about 15-20 hard and slow thrusts and had to pull out and cum. I was again insecure and was telling her like "naah its not ok, i know you wanna be f**** hard. I really need to take care of this stress" but she kept insisting its okay and to trust her and to relax since sex is about having fun. That I was too stressed. When I walked her off, I showed a bad insecure vibe like in a lighthearted way "I hope you had fun. Not sure if I should believe you, but from my perspective you did". I had like a bit of sad face with a smirk.
I would really appreciate any advice on this matter.
Also, do you think the woman will take that as a bad sign and will not want to see me again? I mean she had a hell of a great time (got a lot of oral from me, bdsm stuff, etc) high energy vibe, she was very satisfied especially how I treated her, showed me some naughty photos of hers, said next time she will bring one of her costumes.
Thanks upfront!
Cheers
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