Thoughts on a Sugar Baby

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

Curious what others think about it.
Every College in the US has dozens of women advertising to be a Sugar Baby.

To me it seems like the perfect relationship, if you can afford it.

I haven't had sex in several years and I'm not willing to put myself out there until I get to a certain size.

You don't have to worry about a girl embarrassing you in front of anyone about your size because they don't want anyone to know what they do. So your both on more even boundries.

You also don't have to deal with a relationship, just set the day of the week up and your set.

I've seen a beautiful busty blonde who is the captain of her college cheerleading team advertise.

You spend money dating, this is just a bit more money your spending, but your getting exactly what you want.

Or should I just spend several more years home strangling the chicken...lol

[18x13goalreached Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 18x13goalreached]

iv'e known guys who do it and they say its pretty good deal

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Just another form of pro, lot of it out there in one form or another.

[VirgilD5to6 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close VirgilD5to6]

That's for people who have low self-esteem, don't want to invest in dating, are shy, insecure, and just really busy (even if you are busy you can always find a way to date). And talking about dating, it can be hookups or jus casual. No need for serious relationships.
As for the size, well, sugar baby won't laugh at you BUT will talk about you to her friends and mock you in a way.

I also was in a low place where was very insecure and low-self esteem and got to the point to think about it, but I am very young. And even escorts were in my mind, but that got out of my head. I invested in myself, got the confidence back, and back into dating world. So far I am loving it, and despite my size and having a preE , I don't really care because there are tons of girls I haven't met yet.

Bottom line, if you got the money, and you care way too much what other people think, go for it!!!

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

My thinking is that if it's going to help you get to a healthier place in your head then do it.

Just don't end up a PLM (Pathetic Loser Mongerer) - the guys who fall in love and start shelling out money or favors to some girl they are already paying for play. I've known sugar babies who've bankrupted multiple guys. Some of these girls are pure sharks and follow the scent of insecure dudes.

"Prepago" is a type of women where you pay up front. Literally "Pre-paid." Where as most of us end up in the normal "Postpago" relationship - or "Paying after." LOL

Just make sure you both go into the situation knowing what to expect and are happy with what you're getting out of it. And really get out of that pay for play situation or it can easily become a crutch preventing you from real progress.

[Jabs Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jabs]

Most of the older men in my life say that Pay to Play is the way to go. Especially considering the type of contemporary women there are in the dating pool right now. You save alot of time and emotions by just using your pockets.

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

My thinking is that if it's going to help you get to a healthier place in your head then do it.

Just don't end up a PLM (Pathetic Loser Mongerer) - the guys who fall in love and start shelling out money or favors to some girl they are already paying for play. I've known sugar babies who've bankrupted multiple guys. Some of these girls are pure sharks and follow the scent of insecure dudes.

"Prepago" is a type of women where you pay up front. Literally "Pre-paid." Where as most of us end up in the normal "Postpago" relationship - or "Paying after." LOL

Just make sure you both go into the situation knowing what to expect and are happy with what you're getting out of it. And really get out of that pay for play situation or it can easily become a crutch preventing you from real progress.

Ya I'd have the strangement set up front. If she started staying from it I'd just go find another.
They are a dime a dozen.

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

Most of the older men in my life say that Pay to Play is the way to go. Especially considering the type of contemporary women there are in the dating pool right now. You save alot of time and emotions by just using your pockets.

I feel like I would Save a headache by not dating and just window shop for what I want. I just wouldn't be saving as much right now for retirement if I spent it on pay for play.

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

Ya I'd have the strangement set up front. If she started staying from it I'd just go find another.
They are a dime a dozen.

Arrangement

[arlos Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close arlos]

I haven't had sex in several years and I'm not willing to put myself out there until I get to a certain size.

I started at 4.5 inches erect with maybe an inch and a half flaccid hang length. I was pretty insecure about having sex back because I knew I was smaller than most other guys.

I felt like I had to really take my bedroom game up a notch to level the playing field. Over the years I got some good experience, skills, and even some gains - I feel confident having sex now.

The point is to get out there now. Flirt and have sex.

Trust me, that practice, experience, and confidence is going to pay off.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

If any guy doesn't go out, date, have fun, meet girls regardless of his dick size he is simply wasting time in life that he'll never get back. They get mad at me for using the word stupid so I'll just say its dumb!

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Go out and date and don't think for a minute that sugar babies don't talk about things, many share notes

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

I started at 4.5 inches erect with maybe an inch and a half flaccid hang length. I was pretty insecure about having sex back because I knew I was smaller than most other guys.

I felt like I had to really take my bedroom game up a notch to level the playing field. Over the years I got some good experience, skills, and even some gains - I feel confident having sex now.

The point is to get out there now. Flirt and have sex.

Trust me, that practice, experience, and confidence is going to pay off.

I'm a natural and had two women tell their friends it was the best they ever had. I do not need experience, I just need to stop the looks I get when I pull down my pants.

I've made some gains but it's going to take a couple of years of hanging to get me at the confidence level I want to be at.

In the meantime I have a good career job with good pay.

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

If any guy doesn't go out, date, have fun, meet girls regardless of his dick size he is simply wasting time in life that he'll never get back. They get mad at me for using the word stupid so I'll just say its dumb!

Yes I've wasted a lot of my life because of this issue. At my size a woman can push you up off her and grab your dick and say "is that supposed to satisfy me". It's happened!

I have my own bad experiences that I deal with. More putting myself out there would have given me more bad experiences. You have to take the good with the bad.

I'd rather be kicked in my balls, it heals.

In a year or two I should be good.
In the meantime thinking sugar baby.

[Uxorious101 Member Find all posts View Profile Close Uxorious101]

Go out and date and don't think for a minute that sugar babies don't talk about things, many share notes

She wouldn't be in my circle of friends do any friends she would talk to don't know me.

It would be like me showing a pic of her and giving her a score 1 - 10.

He's never going to tell her or her friends and her friend is never going to tell me or my friends.