Thoughts on a Sugar Baby

**Uxorious101** · 03-02-2021

Curious what others think about it.
Every College in the US has dozens of women advertising to be a Sugar Baby.

To me it seems like the perfect relationship, if you can afford it.

I haven't had sex in several years and I'm not willing to put myself out there until I get to a certain size.

You don't have to worry about a girl embarrassing you in front of anyone about your size because they don't want anyone to know what they do. So your both on more even boundries.

You also don't have to deal with a relationship, just set the day of the week up and your set.

I've seen a beautiful busty blonde who is the captain of her college cheerleading team advertise.

You spend money dating, this is just a bit more money your spending, but your getting exactly what you want.

Or should I just spend several more years home strangling the chicken...lol

**18x13goalreached** · 03-02-2021

iv'e known guys who do it and they say its pretty good deal

**Pegasus** · 03-02-2021

Just another form of pro, lot of it out there in one form or another.

**VirgilD5to6** · 03-02-2021

That's for people who have low self-esteem, don't want to invest in dating, are shy, insecure, and just really busy (even if you are busy you can always find a way to date). And talking about dating, it can be hookups or jus casual. No need for serious relationships.
As for the size, well, sugar baby won't laugh at you BUT will talk about you to her friends and mock you in a way.

I also was in a low place where was very insecure and low-self esteem and got to the point to think about it, but I am very young. And even escorts were in my mind, but that got out of my head. I invested in myself, got the confidence back, and back into dating world. So far I am loving it, and despite my size and having a preE , I don't really care because there are tons of girls I haven't met yet.

Bottom line, if you got the money, and you care way too much what other people think, go for it!!!

**arlos** · 03-06-2021

My thinking is that if it's going to help you get to a healthier place in your head then do it.

Just don't end up a PLM (Pathetic Loser Mongerer) - the guys who fall in love and start shelling out money or favors to some girl they are already paying for play. I've known sugar babies who've bankrupted multiple guys. Some of these girls are pure sharks and follow the scent of insecure dudes.

"Prepago" is a type of women where you pay up front. Literally "Pre-paid." Where as most of us end up in the normal "Postpago" relationship - or "Paying after." LOL

Just make sure you both go into the situation knowing what to expect and are happy with what you're getting out of it. And really get out of that pay for play situation or it can easily become a crutch preventing you from real progress.

**Jabs** · 03-06-2021

Most of the older men in my life say that Pay to Play is the way to go. Especially considering the type of contemporary women there are in the dating pool right now. You save alot of time and emotions by just using your pockets.

**Uxorious101** · 03-07-2021

Originally Posted by arlos

My thinking is that if it's going to help you get to a healthier place in your head then do it.

Just don't end up a PLM (Pathetic Loser Mongerer) - the guys who fall in love and start shelling out money or favors to some girl they are already paying for play. I've known sugar babies who've bankrupted multiple guys. Some of these girls are pure sharks and follow the scent of insecure dudes.

"Prepago" is a type of women where you pay up front. Literally "Pre-paid." Where as most of us end up in the normal "Postpago" relationship - or "Paying after." LOL

Just make sure you both go into the situation knowing what to expect and are happy with what you're getting out of it. And really get out of that pay for play situation or it can easily become a crutch preventing you from real progress.

Ya I'd have the strangement set up front. If she started staying from it I'd just go find another.
They are a dime a dozen.

**Uxorious101** · 03-07-2021

Originally Posted by Jabs

Most of the older men in my life say that Pay to Play is the way to go. Especially considering the type of contemporary women there are in the dating pool right now. You save alot of time and emotions by just using your pockets.

I feel like I would Save a headache by not dating and just window shop for what I want. I just wouldn't be saving as much right now for retirement if I spent it on pay for play.

**Uxorious101** · 03-07-2021

Originally Posted by Uxorious101

Ya I'd have the strangement set up front. If she started staying from it I'd just go find another.
They are a dime a dozen.

Arrangement

**arlos** · 03-07-2021

Originally Posted by Uxorious101

I haven't had sex in several years and I'm not willing to put myself out there until I get to a certain size.

I started at 4.5 inches erect with maybe an inch and a half flaccid hang length. I was pretty insecure about having sex back because I knew I was smaller than most other guys.

I felt like I had to really take my bedroom game up a notch to level the playing field. Over the years I got some good experience, skills, and even some gains - I feel confident having sex now.

The point is to get out there now. Flirt and have sex.

Trust me, that practice, experience, and confidence is going to pay off.