Should i delete sex tapes/pics of ex?

[moxsum Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close moxsum]

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[lelouch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lelouch]

If there is no chance of ever getting back together(most likely not) it is always better to delete them and move on, recover from the break up and be ready for your next relationship, don't want it to keep digging back at you especially if your next relationship doesn't appreciate you looking at your ex. This is from personal experience.

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

Delete them. You know it is the right thing to do, both morally and because it will be a firm step in moving on. You'll feel sad, but better, when they are gone. So just do it.

Also, as lelouch noted, it's not a good idea to keep things like that around since you never know who might find them. I suspect there is no better way to mess up a new relationship than for your new lady -- and there will be one sometime -- finding out that you have sex pictures from a previous relationship.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Delete them. You know it is the right thing to do, both morally and because it will be a firm step in moving on. You'll feel sad, but better, when they are gone. So just do it.

Also, as lelouch noted, it's not a good idea to keep things like that around since you never know who might find them. I suspect there is no better way to mess up a new relationship than for your new lady -- and there will be one sometime -- finding out that you have sex pictures from a previous relationship.

Ditto. And not only that, if for ANY reason those photos happened to fall into the wrong hands and find themselves posted on the Internet somehow, oh boy - you'd have a mess of monumental proportions. Delete them - now!

[lelouch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lelouch]

Like *cough* edison chen's sex scandals leaked on net *cough*

But yes, it is best to delete, heck my girl doesn't like me to even have photos of myself taken at my ex's house, had to rid them too other than ridding all pictures taken with/at ex's place.

You won't even miss it to be honest, i don't even look at them despite deleting them, nothing of value is lost.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Well if you don't delete them you can always send them over to us!

[Midnight Man Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Midnight Man]

If it truly is over for good, you have to delete them. It's the best thing for both you and your ex.

Looking back at those pictures and videos will make it so much harder for you to move on. I know being with another woman is probably the furthest thing from your mind right now but if somewhere down the line, a new girlfriend discovered them, you can be pretty sure it would be the end of that relationship. I'd be upset if my girlfriend felt the need to keep any pictures of former partners, let alone something of that nature.

As GettinThereOK said, if you keep them they could fall into the wrong hands and end up on the internet. There's nothing that could undo that. I went through a very difficult breakup a few years ago. I haven't spoken to her since we finished and have no intention of ever seeing her again but I hold no grudges and wish the best for her. I'd hope that she feels the same towards me. If your intimate pictures and videos came out it would cause irreparable damage.

[moxsum Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close moxsum]

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[cameraobscura Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cameraobscura]

Way to go man!

Those pictures and videos can only cause you harm.

Delete!

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[cameraobscura Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close cameraobscura]

Good job Moxsum! Better to pick up the camera and march toward the future, than be trapped in an archival vault of old footage...

[Batwoman Moderator ReservePEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Batwoman]

You'll be glad you did this, trust me.

[Jason - PE ! Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Jason - PE !]

Well if you don't delete them you can always send them over to us!

X2. Do it for lads,send them here!

[Editor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Editor]

Yea man, just delete them. Easier to move on with life.

Good luck mate!

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

I deleted them guys!! It was tough but I know it was the right thing..

when we broke up before, I ended up looking at the pics/videos and wacking off and I think it made me miss her even more..

this time that wont be possible. plus, if we ever got back together, we would just have to make new ones .. but that probably wont happen

Very well done, Moxsum.
Very well done.