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- 10-11-2010 #1
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My wife is one of those "33%" who don't have vaginal orgasms. She just doesn't and claims it has always been that way. Our routine is usually either I get her off orally or she fingers herself during sex to reach orgasm. She seems hugely satisfied but I am curious can a woman with such physiology be transformed into a woman with vaginal orgasm capabilities? Should I just not worry about it or maybe try some vibration devices? I have also seen some sort of device where electrode like pads are placed on the calves and an type of current causes women to have huge orgasms (I can't recall the name of the device). I guess it boils down to my previous relation ships where past lovers would violently orgasm multiple times during sex. It makes me feel as if she is missing out..
- 10-11-2010 #2
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Actually new relationships, seem to cause more change in female orgasmic ability than other stuff imo.
- 10-11-2010 #3
My previous wife was multi-orgasmic with straight vaginal sex but my second wife only cums with clitoral stimulation and then needs a refractory period like us guys if she is going for seconds.Generalizing,I must say that a multi-orgasmic woman is probably more fun in bed because of the flexiblity of her orgasms and because she seems continually hot whereas the one-off type means you have to time it mutually .However I doubt you can transform the latter into the former easily.It is a bit like us having dry orgasms.You need years of practice and training because your body has connected one action with the other .
Has anyone heard of Vaginal Exercise Gym for women?
- 10-11-2010 #4
According to what I read in this forum and elsewhere, except kegels... and this is well recognized as a post-partum gym, but not really to improve sex. However, I might be wrong and I'd like to hear about it in this case.
I would be as interested as giveitago to hear such stories... My wife don't have problems to cum vaginally or orally but only once, and I'd love to make her cum several times, at least twice! She don't let me make her cum orally as she prefers vaginally but I'd like to do both...Il vaut mieux mobiliser son intelligence sur des conneries que mobiliser sa connerie sur des choses intelligentes.
- 10-11-2010 #5
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Would like to hear bw on this.
- 10-11-2010 #6
Well, I am not sure that I have much to add. I am not multiorgasmic and while I would like to be, I don't hold out much hope of getting there. I am usually just sooooo satisfied by the first one, and my clit gets over-sesitized.... anyway, while I can cum more than once in a session of sex, there is a definite refractory period in between. I don't mind it, however, because truthfully anything after the first orgasm is just a bonus as far as I am concerned. I don't in any way feel like I need to be multiorgasmic to have utterly fabulous sex. So I am a happy camper, one way or the other.
I have noticed, however, that I have stronger vaginal orgasms than I used to since I started doing kegels regularly. I think I also just cum more easily in general. I attribute this to better blood flow everywhere down there that I have developed from kegelling. I believe that kegels have improved my sexual responses, not just made me tighter. Kegels have not, however, turned me into a girl who automatically has orgasms from vaginal. I still (usually) need clitoral stimulation too in order to cum.
- 11-29-2010 #7
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The girl I'm currently dating is the same way in the fact that she can only get off with clitoral stimulation, so other then oral seems pretty much impossible to get her off. Something we have tried and has actually worked quite successful is bringing sex toys into the equation with things like bullets basically so she can receive the stimulation she requires to push her over the edge. Another really good option we found more recently still sort of in the experimentation stage is something called a "we-vibe" for those who have never heard of it, its a C shaped vibrator that stimulates the clit as well as the gspot simultaneously and can be worn during sex so you get to the feel the vibrations as well. Quite a cool little toy if your comfortable bringing toys into the bedroom.
- 11-29-2010 #8
I have a We-Vibe II (the newer version, which has more settings) and it is great fun!
- 11-29-2010 #9
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I knew two women who told me that Kegels, and concentrating on rhythmic contraction of their pelvic floor and vaginal muscles during vaginal intercourse really helped them achieve orgasm. Both of them seemed to need to "drive the bus" to accomplish this, however.
They had to set the angle and depth of penetration, as well as the pace, rhythm and extent of movement, and I had to follow their lead, and not get carried away and move too much for them to be able to come.
- 11-29-2010 #10
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Yeah the we-vibe 2 is apparently the one I have as well, didn't even know that there was more then one model but I looked into, and yeah I'd defiantly recommend it to people looking to spice up there sex life or who are interested in getting there partner off with vaginal stimulation if there one of the more difficult ones or even if they're not.
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