Sex and love

[CUSP82]

Okay guys and gals; do you think it's possible to have a long term sexually satisfying realtionship without love creeping into it?

[kingofdajungle2010]

its almost impossible to do. because someone would eventually get feelings for that other person

[vulcan]

its almost impossible to do. because someone would eventually get feelings for that other person

I agree.

[maelsukr]

Okay guys and gals; do you think it's possible to have a long term sexually satisfying realtionship without love creeping into it?

Depends on the type of love . If it's just friends with benefits , possible .
If it's romantic , "I will love you forever " , maybe not .
I think there are too many "things" put in the way of people enjoying them selves with each other .
When it's not necessary . But you have society telling you different .
mael out !!!

[GTO]

its almost impossible to do. because someone would eventually get feelings for that other person

Relationships like that can only go so long without someone breaking down. I agree - I don't think it's possible ...

[Pirate]

Relationships like that can only go so long without someone breaking down. I agree - I don't think it's possible ...

Oh aye.
Love and sex reinforce each other too well.

[Batwoman]

Oh aye.
Love and sex reinforce each other too well.

I totally agree.

[Batwoman]

I'm not sure it is possible to truly love someone of the opposite sex (or whatever age/sex/relationship category constitutes the pool of people that constitute possible mates) without wanting to have sex with them. Likewise, I am not sure it is possible to have sex with someone over a long period and not have love be part of the relationship.

People may deny these feelings -- they are often inconvenient and can be quite painful sometimes -- but I believe them to hold true in most or all cases. Sometimes humans are not as complicated or cerebral as we think we are. We may decide that certain relationships should stay within certain limits, but we really don't control how we end up feeling.

I think "Friends with benefits" works, but not over the long term. Either one or both people move on to relationships with others (and the "friends" stop having a sexual relationship), or it grows to be something more.

Don't most people want a relationship that includes both love and sex?

[TINKERBELL]

I think people can have fuck buddies who they "love" and sleep with .. with out it developing to a "in love" situation.. but i also think a lot of friends with benefits or fuck buddy situation grow into a unrequited love situations. .. when people decide to do the fuck buddy or friends with benefits situation they usually go that route because one or both parties feel that the other is not what they are looking for as a "relationship partner" some element is missing.

[Katie]

It does not work. love will eventually creep in, either within the relationship, or to someone outside of it.