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    PsychonautDude
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    Last edited by PsychonautDude; 12-02-2014, 07:29 AM.

  • #2
    Some of us, like me for example, do not cum easily from oral or manual (from a partner) stimulation. There is nothing unusual about that. Every time you masturbate you train your body to respond to that stimulation. If you are not happy with that, change the stimulation. If you grip is too tight (a common issue), focus on using a lighter grip, or your other hand, or try something like the Fleshlight.
    Pirate Diplomacy:
    The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.

    Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.

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    • #3
      Ok thanks, so you think it's possible for me to train myself to come from slow motions too? That feels really impossible to me

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      • #4
        Of course you can retrain yourself to respond to different kinds of stimulations! Is it easy? No. Does it take time and patience? Yes. The question is: how much are you willing to change it? If you want it, go for it, be patient and experiment with yourself or your lover(s).
        STATS:
        Start (Aug '10) -- BPEL 6" x 6" -- BPFSL 5.75" x 3.5"

        GOAL:
        BPEL 7.5" x 6.5"
        :rolleyes:

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        • #5
          Would edging help with this? A) Cause you stroke slowly and B) because it trains you to cum when you want?
          Starting: 10/12/10 - BPEL - 5.8, EG (midshaft) - 4.4

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          • #6
            Yes edging will help ,a lighter grip will help, also anxiety is often an issue.
            You have a mild case of delayed ejaculation read up on it.
            What is your kegel routine?

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
              Yes edging will help ,a lighter grip will help, also anxiety is often an issue.
              You have a mild case of delayed ejaculation read up on it.
              What is your kegel routine?
              Aye matie: Listen to Pegasus.
              The Man on this subject, he be.
              YARRRR!!!!!
              Pirate Diplomacy:
              The art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip.

              Remember: If done right, there is no such thing as safe sex.

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              • #8
                I use to not be able to cum from getting a blow job, then I met my wife....Maybe that is why I married her .
                My log: https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...onups-log.html

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                • #9
                  Ive never came from a blowjob alone, tried with my ex gf many times, we'd have sex and once i was nearly at the ponr id whip the condom off and let her suck me but the feeling of cumming would just go, even with her giving me a handjob took some time as well, yet when i do it myself watching porn i can cum in literally a minute, im going to stop masterbating though as much and edge every time i do.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by movinonup View Post
                    I use to not be able to cum from getting a blow job, then I met my wife....Maybe that is why I married her .

                    Ah, yes, I used to believe the same. A little later in life, I found that some talent was required on their part.

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                    • #11
                      I found that masturbating wih a condom on helps train for the big game.
                      Funny, I've been doing this for years, now I'm doing it the right way!
                      Age 18, 1998 - 5.25
                      10.2010 - BPEL - 6+
                      12.2010 - BPEL - 6.6
                      04.2011 - BPEL - 6.9
                      Going for length but girth is getting great.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Wynn View Post
                        I found that masturbating wih a condom on helps train for the big game.
                        That is if the big game involves condom use, no?

                        -UYN-
                        19/04/2011
                        FG: 4.25" +0.45
                        FL: 5.19" +0.69
                        EG: 4.75" +0.45
                        BPFSL: 7.69" +1.58
                        NBPEL: 7.25" +1.19
                        BPEL: 7.677"+1.757

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