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OK, many of you know that a lady friend and I had been dating for the past 6 months. Well, through a series of recent events, I found out finally what a truly sick, twisted, hateful, evil, manipulative bitch I was with all these months. To give you a quick rundown of some of the things I allowed myself to fall victim to, here's a few:
1. I paid for 90% of our recent trip to Seattle because she couldn't bare to part with any of her dwindling savings. Yeah, I'm rolling in dough!
2. She borrowed my car while her car went into the shop for some work. She never bothered to offer me gas money much less fill my tank.
3. We went out for lunch on Sunday for what I thought was my Christmas lunch that she wanted to take me to yet I got stuck picking up the tab.
4. Sunday night we were supposed to hang out and instead of hanging out, she blew me off to go out with her bi polar girlfriend and her special needs adult son.
So, I stopped texting her because I had had enough and the feeling that I was being used and manipulated was overwhelming. So, Monday night she sends me this email stating that I must be really mad at her and it was OK because there was alot to think about. She then proceeded to tell me that we needed to figure out if we could "fix" this or if we should just go our separate ways. She never asked me what was wrong, why I was mad...........nothing.
I responded by telling her that I was hurt and disappointed but not mad. Mind you, in my email I was polite, courteous and nice. I never cursed at her, never said anything mean or cruel to her and just simply stated what I felt. That there was no fix for this and that I didn't think there was any point in trying to salvage this as neither of us appeared to be wanting a relationship. I told her we could remain FWB's or just friends, whatever she decided would be fine. She claimed we were in a relationship although I never officially asked her to be mine or anything else.
The email she sent me back was the most hate filled, evil, nasty, rude and disgusting thing I've ever read. She said the most unspeakable, hurtful, shitty things a woman can say. In fact, after hours of analyzing the email and really reading it, I made the determination that only a low class, white trash woman would send an email like this. She basically told me I was a horrible excuse for a man, husband and father, that I was a man-child who's mom was still wiping his ass and that I needed to read a book on how to treat a lady in a relationship. She just exploded and spewed filth, hate and viciousness. It was with this email that I made the conclusion that she is emotionally disturbed and a truly mentally sick woman.
Anyway, my sole response to this disgusting email was that I was sorry she felt about me as she did and that I never realized what a pathetic, loser, poor excuse for a man, husband and father she thought I was and I ended it with "I'm glad I now know what you truly think of me". I haven't heard from her since.
Well, this other girl that I dated earlier this year for about 4 months I had been talking to her about all of this and she agreed that this chick was fucking psycho and she needed to be gone. Well, today she took me to lunch for Christmas and she said she wanted to go shopping on Sunday and buy me a shirt for my new promotion at my job.
My question is (and perhaps this should be really obvious), do you think that the girl I dated for 4 months (yes, in that 4 month period we had sex and she gave me several blow jobs in the local Sears parking lot) still has a thing for me?? Sometimes I wonder if she still wants me back. She's not the one for me personally but she is fun to hang out with and who knows, she might be interested in a FWB situation. Thoughts??
1. I paid for 90% of our recent trip to Seattle because she couldn't bare to part with any of her dwindling savings. Yeah, I'm rolling in dough!
2. She borrowed my car while her car went into the shop for some work. She never bothered to offer me gas money much less fill my tank.
3. We went out for lunch on Sunday for what I thought was my Christmas lunch that she wanted to take me to yet I got stuck picking up the tab.
4. Sunday night we were supposed to hang out and instead of hanging out, she blew me off to go out with her bi polar girlfriend and her special needs adult son.
So, I stopped texting her because I had had enough and the feeling that I was being used and manipulated was overwhelming. So, Monday night she sends me this email stating that I must be really mad at her and it was OK because there was alot to think about. She then proceeded to tell me that we needed to figure out if we could "fix" this or if we should just go our separate ways. She never asked me what was wrong, why I was mad...........nothing.
I responded by telling her that I was hurt and disappointed but not mad. Mind you, in my email I was polite, courteous and nice. I never cursed at her, never said anything mean or cruel to her and just simply stated what I felt. That there was no fix for this and that I didn't think there was any point in trying to salvage this as neither of us appeared to be wanting a relationship. I told her we could remain FWB's or just friends, whatever she decided would be fine. She claimed we were in a relationship although I never officially asked her to be mine or anything else.
The email she sent me back was the most hate filled, evil, nasty, rude and disgusting thing I've ever read. She said the most unspeakable, hurtful, shitty things a woman can say. In fact, after hours of analyzing the email and really reading it, I made the determination that only a low class, white trash woman would send an email like this. She basically told me I was a horrible excuse for a man, husband and father, that I was a man-child who's mom was still wiping his ass and that I needed to read a book on how to treat a lady in a relationship. She just exploded and spewed filth, hate and viciousness. It was with this email that I made the conclusion that she is emotionally disturbed and a truly mentally sick woman.
Anyway, my sole response to this disgusting email was that I was sorry she felt about me as she did and that I never realized what a pathetic, loser, poor excuse for a man, husband and father she thought I was and I ended it with "I'm glad I now know what you truly think of me". I haven't heard from her since.
Well, this other girl that I dated earlier this year for about 4 months I had been talking to her about all of this and she agreed that this chick was fucking psycho and she needed to be gone. Well, today she took me to lunch for Christmas and she said she wanted to go shopping on Sunday and buy me a shirt for my new promotion at my job.
My question is (and perhaps this should be really obvious), do you think that the girl I dated for 4 months (yes, in that 4 month period we had sex and she gave me several blow jobs in the local Sears parking lot) still has a thing for me?? Sometimes I wonder if she still wants me back. She's not the one for me personally but she is fun to hang out with and who knows, she might be interested in a FWB situation. Thoughts??
). One thing I'm learning slowly is just to be honest and blunt, I'm tired of beating around the bush with girls.
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