advice on what to do

**Magneto** · 01-25-2011

hey guys, just needed your thoughts and advice in a predicament im in right now. Well, i met this girl and we have been hanging out for about 4 months. We get on really well together and have an amazing time. Halfway through i found out that she has a boyfriend who she seldom sees. They have been dating for about a year but their relationship is not intimate. However, we get on great together and she always says how happy i make her feel and make her forget about the worrys in her life. She fones me for hours on a night and has often hinted at having a sexual encounter with me. Many times she has mentioned that she loves me and misses me although we see each other at work lol. She has made numerous advances but i have always dispelled them saying that i didnt want to ruin her relationship upon which she responds saying that we have more of what you would call a relationship. She has also hinted that she is trying to end it with her bf but isnt having any luck. I too have feelings for her but i have kept them surpressed.

How should i proceed?

**phil88** · 01-25-2011

well if you want sex have fun, it sounds like its guaranteed. If you want a relationship always keep in mind when she got bored with her last boyfriend she had no problems cheating.

**TINKERBELL** · 01-25-2011

Well i guess it depends on whether or not you want to be that guys who fucks other guys girlfriends.
if you are after a relationship def do not start the sexual side of things while she is still attached to someone else.

**jinstv** · 01-25-2011

Short answer? Don't proceed. It's only making the thought of her cheating easier in her mind. You're being lied to and played. Would you want to be the other guy?

J

**CUSP82** · 01-25-2011

Why not make it simple! " I would love to date you but you have a boyfriend already. If and when you break up with him I would love to ask you out"! Funny that comment that she has been trying to break up with him but she isn't having any luck. Anytime a girl wanted to break up with me I don't think it was all that hard for them. They simply said "bye".

**Editor** · 01-25-2011

Originally Posted by CUSP82

Why not make it simple! " I would love to date you but you have a boyfriend already. If and when you break up with him I would love to ask you out"! Funny that comment that she has been trying to break up with him but she isn't having any luck. Anytime a girl wanted to break up with me I don't think it was all that hard for them. They simply said "bye".

Listen to him^^^Great advice.

If you have sex with her then you'll fancy her more and get even more attached.

**closed149** · 01-25-2011

TTBB and CUSP are right.

If she really cared about you and not about "him", she should be able to prove it by leaving him for you. Personally I would be annoyed if she has said she loves you yet won't commit to you, especially after 4 months!

**WhiteCloudz** · 01-25-2011

sounds like you may have found something special...but you are much better off waiting until she is single if she is willing to break up with her boyfriend,then she could be the right girl for you...

**Magneto** · 01-25-2011

cheers guys. Im in a bit of a limbo to be honest. I realy want to get her into bed and have a relationship cos it seems to bbe just right but i think i'll wait. In the mean while let her know what shes missing out on lol.

**MrBigDick** · 01-25-2011

Originally Posted by CUSP82

Why not make it simple! " I would love to date you but you have a boyfriend already. If and when you break up with him I would love to ask you out"! Funny that comment that she has been trying to break up with him but she isn't having any luck. Anytime a girl wanted to break up with me I don't think it was all that hard for them. They simply said "bye".

EXACTLY! Excellent advice CUSP!!!!