Ok so theres 2 girls that I like but dont know what to do and Ill give a backstory on both. For the sake of the story Ill just call them A and B.
Girl A) So I met this girl in my very first class in college as a freshman(senior now) and we also stayed in the same dorm. Ive always liked her since then. When she first got to school she had a boyfriend of like 2-3 years already who also came to the same school so we might have flirted a little but nothing too much as she was with her boyfriend. Well fast forward to right before Christmas break of sophomore year. She had broken up with her boyfriend about 3 weeks earlier and we started talking again. Anyways we go out start drinking and start making out. True feelings come out. Well this was literally the night before I went home for the break. So a month goes by and we kinda talk but not how I would think. The next semester nothing really happens we might have seen each other maybe 5 times. Junior year she gets back with her boyfriend. Im thinking shes never gonna get over him and Im not gonna waste my time. About halfway through the spring semester of junior year(Spring 2011) we start talking a little bit again. Her and her friend come hang out and we all go to a party and it was a good night. I felt like we might be going somewhere. Next weekend comes and her and her friend were gonna come back from the bars and hang out but she comes back with a dude, and when I asked her friend about it she said that she didnt like me "like that". So thats pretty much it over the summer even though we small talked from time to time. When senior year started she would always text and say she wanted to hang out but then something would always come up. In my mind Im thinking if she really wanted to hang out she would make time. One time I met her and her friends at one bar and we have a pretty good time, but later I saw her in another bar chatting it up with another guy and they end up making out. No problem with that though because we wasnt together but thats when I figured I wasnt gonna waste anymore time.
Girl B) This girl I just met over the summer on July 4th weekend. Shes 22, graduated last year, and has a pretty good job.We were just gonna be fuck buddies but we both grew feelings. In fact we started moving too fast and I had to slow it down because I wasnt ready for a relationship yet. We always talk. I dont think theres been but maybe 1 or 2 days we havent texted since I met her July 4th weekend. Ive never met a girl before who I can laugh with like I can with her and we both get along with each other really well. Last weekend she came over and I was really drunk from the football game and she told me that I basically told her she made too much money for me and was too mature for me or something like that. Its really confusing because I dont really remember much. But for some reason this whole past week she was on my mind. She told me she had started dating other guys which she told me she was going to do but she still likes me. She actually called me last night after she got done with a date because she was feeling really bad and felt that I could make her feel better. But next week I was planning to stop messing around and move things forward.
So last night is when things got interesting. Girl A and her friend planned to meet me and my friends downtown at the bars. I figured it was gonna be the same ol thing and might not see them and if I did nothing would really come of it. Well as soon as they get there her friend walks up to me and says "remind me I have to tell you something later". So about an hour later at another bar she asked me how I felt about Girl A. Now I was a little confused because I kinda had a feeling this friend liked me too so I didnt really know what to say. But I told her I liked her and have since freshman year. Then she asked how I felt about dating Girl A. This is when in my mind I was like "Fuck, now I really got a situation on my hands". So I asked her friend if she was asking because Girl A wanted to date and she said yes. So I start hanging out with Girl A making out and stuff and she ends up telling me how much she likes me and stuff. Her friend called me after I got home and pretty much said its up to me to ask her but if I do its a done deal.
I have no clue what to do guys. Has anyone been in a situation like this before? Girls or guys please feel free to answer. I really like both. I KNOW I have that connection with girl B but I dont wanna go with that and always have that "what if?" in the back of my mind. Ughhh. Any help is greatly welcome. Sorry for the long post and I appreciate you guys reading.
Girl A) So I met this girl in my very first class in college as a freshman(senior now) and we also stayed in the same dorm. Ive always liked her since then. When she first got to school she had a boyfriend of like 2-3 years already who also came to the same school so we might have flirted a little but nothing too much as she was with her boyfriend. Well fast forward to right before Christmas break of sophomore year. She had broken up with her boyfriend about 3 weeks earlier and we started talking again. Anyways we go out start drinking and start making out. True feelings come out. Well this was literally the night before I went home for the break. So a month goes by and we kinda talk but not how I would think. The next semester nothing really happens we might have seen each other maybe 5 times. Junior year she gets back with her boyfriend. Im thinking shes never gonna get over him and Im not gonna waste my time. About halfway through the spring semester of junior year(Spring 2011) we start talking a little bit again. Her and her friend come hang out and we all go to a party and it was a good night. I felt like we might be going somewhere. Next weekend comes and her and her friend were gonna come back from the bars and hang out but she comes back with a dude, and when I asked her friend about it she said that she didnt like me "like that". So thats pretty much it over the summer even though we small talked from time to time. When senior year started she would always text and say she wanted to hang out but then something would always come up. In my mind Im thinking if she really wanted to hang out she would make time. One time I met her and her friends at one bar and we have a pretty good time, but later I saw her in another bar chatting it up with another guy and they end up making out. No problem with that though because we wasnt together but thats when I figured I wasnt gonna waste anymore time.
Girl B) This girl I just met over the summer on July 4th weekend. Shes 22, graduated last year, and has a pretty good job.We were just gonna be fuck buddies but we both grew feelings. In fact we started moving too fast and I had to slow it down because I wasnt ready for a relationship yet. We always talk. I dont think theres been but maybe 1 or 2 days we havent texted since I met her July 4th weekend. Ive never met a girl before who I can laugh with like I can with her and we both get along with each other really well. Last weekend she came over and I was really drunk from the football game and she told me that I basically told her she made too much money for me and was too mature for me or something like that. Its really confusing because I dont really remember much. But for some reason this whole past week she was on my mind. She told me she had started dating other guys which she told me she was going to do but she still likes me. She actually called me last night after she got done with a date because she was feeling really bad and felt that I could make her feel better. But next week I was planning to stop messing around and move things forward.
So last night is when things got interesting. Girl A and her friend planned to meet me and my friends downtown at the bars. I figured it was gonna be the same ol thing and might not see them and if I did nothing would really come of it. Well as soon as they get there her friend walks up to me and says "remind me I have to tell you something later". So about an hour later at another bar she asked me how I felt about Girl A. Now I was a little confused because I kinda had a feeling this friend liked me too so I didnt really know what to say. But I told her I liked her and have since freshman year. Then she asked how I felt about dating Girl A. This is when in my mind I was like "Fuck, now I really got a situation on my hands". So I asked her friend if she was asking because Girl A wanted to date and she said yes. So I start hanging out with Girl A making out and stuff and she ends up telling me how much she likes me and stuff. Her friend called me after I got home and pretty much said its up to me to ask her but if I do its a done deal.
I have no clue what to do guys. Has anyone been in a situation like this before? Girls or guys please feel free to answer. I really like both. I KNOW I have that connection with girl B but I dont wanna go with that and always have that "what if?" in the back of my mind. Ughhh. Any help is greatly welcome. Sorry for the long post and I appreciate you guys reading.
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