Need serious sex/relationship help/advice

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

Hi guys, I need serious advice on how to pick up chicks for fun times nothing serious.

1ts thing I want to clarify is my dick size. It is 7x5 and this is before I have started PE. I was with a girl and she was like WOW! now this was a suprise to me as I assumed my dick was small with only porn as a comparison. After some internet research perhaps average is maybe only 5-5.5 long 4.5-5 thick?


So, anyway ill break it up and make it simple

1. Can I get sex based on my penis size mainly? I am slim kinda skiny 5'11 140lbs and I guess average looking but athletic. I am at gym or playing sports most days per week and am well dressed.

What I mean is will girls go with me based on my size can I even lead girls on joke about my size etc to lure them or is 7x5 to small to lure girls in with and most girls dont go for guys based on their penis size anyway?


2. How and where can I meet girls and what to say? I dont like clubs or parties. But that is the place to meet drunk keen girls right? So best bet if looking for sex? What to do and how to act/say in clubs/parties? Is it wrong to expect sex but more likely a snog and phone number?

Other options? Shop workers, mall, street, library? But how to apporach and what to say? Onc again a case of getting phone numbers?

Adult websites? I am not photogenic. My face is not great and my body is skinny. However I think in person I look better or I have more ''aura'' you cant feel online so I dont know about using the net unless I can lure them with a 7x5 penis?


I think I attract decent looking girls based on my looks and dress sense. I am well educated also but between jobs/study.


3. Do girls want fun sex or are most looking to date a while firstly? Is it odd to look for casual sex.

Plus I only want cute chicks or somewhat attractive.

I have confidence in talking to girls as I know I am athletic and think my dick is at least not small but Im not socially very good tbh.

Maybe I should just use hookers if I want easy sex with cute girls?

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

You know you posted this in a relationship forum, yet what you see to be looking for is random sex than a relationship, you really want a girl to be with you just because of your dick size? Obviously you're looking for the wrong type of girl, that even if you did date, she will probably leave you for a bigger dick later, right? Why don't you use personality to pick up a nice girl and date. Unless you're not looking for that type of thing. Then yes clubs and stuff you can find many trashy girls among the normal ones that will sleep with you for your size.

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

You know you posted this in a relationship forum, yet what you see to be looking for is random sex than a relationship, you really want a girl to be with you just because of your dick size? Obviously you're looking for the wrong type of girl, that even if you did date, she will probably leave you for a bigger dick later, right? Why don't you use personality to pick up a nice girl and date. Unless you're not looking for that type of thing. Then yes clubs and stuff you can find many trashy girls among the normal ones that will sleep with you for your size.

sorry I couldnt see any other sction to post.

Let me clarify I am looking for fun sex not anythign serious. I do not want to go on dates and stuff. Maybe what I am looking for does not exist? cute girls that just want to give you blowjobs lol?

As for your last statemnet ''trashy girls among the normal ones that will sleep with you for your size'' You mean with reference to my size 7x5 or a general statement to big dicks?

I dont think 7x5 is anything special is it? but then some girls thought it was real big so Im not sure.

If I had 9 inch penis obvioulsy I would boast and try to get girls bragging but 7x5 maybe not?

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

You're above average in length and average in girth, we don't know where you live, you should go out with your friends and have fun, and if you meet someone then mission accomplished.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

No IMO you can not get a girl to have sex with you on the fly with your penis size for free.

If you mention your penis size to any girl as part of your script, game, player stuff she will not take the bait for free.

What you want doesn't exist. Casual sex does but that comes with a big price. She's banging you she's banging others.
Friends with benefits is more what I think you hope for. This is NOT easy. This is when you know someone as a friend and decide to be exclusive with each other for sex. Neither loves the other or considers the other as a keeper. It's a mature sexual relationship between friends. Usually when the two are students, recently divorced or some other road block that does not allow for either to seriously date another person.

Women do this. However it's very hard not to get emotional about it. Very hard.

Best bet is to find a girl that is much like you and in the same situation as you as far as time constraints. If she likes you after a while she may love the idea.
When it's over it's over. Never know it could end up being a real relationship.

Meet girls at places you would go to. Things you like to do.

Good luck and read the women's perceptive threads there are many posts there too.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I think they call what you're looking for hookers. Hey they may cost a buck but what the hell. If you find a nice cute girl that does all that you said in your post for free would you come back here and at least give me her name?

[somebodyelse Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close somebodyelse]

I'm gonna be forthright with you. if you're looking for cheap thrills I hear the adult websites are all the rage. I've never signed up for it, but they say PlentyOfFish is a site that is great for hookups. I dunno... there's another that one of my friends mentioned "Adult Friend Finders?" something like that. That one is supposed to be good too...

either way, if you go that route, be prepared for your "game" to suffer because it just seems like there's nothing there. You know exactly what you're getting in a meat market like that. though I do believe that you'll do well as girls like skinny guys. Do you!

If you attract women based on your looks, you should just capitalize on the girls you attract. Learn how to relax and be confident in yourself and make bold moves... that is, inviting them back to your place to play Yahtzee or something.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

I dont think girls will take the 7x5 line either, its bigger than the norm but you are talking about girls of that type, they are probably hunting the freaks like 9x6 but try it, it wont work and if it does she has issues.
where to meet them, you can do that any where. I would suggest that you try first at places YOU like, then they will have common interests with you. Good luck

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

Thanks for all the great advice guys.

To meet girls at places I like.
I never ever thought about that but that is so true.

Recently I haev gone to clubs and had the hottest of hot girls sit beside me and talk to me and start convos with me. But I hate clubs and noise etc so much I couldnt even speak to them and nothing happens. I hate the environment so its hard to be myself or operate in it.

Im not sure my interests are good for meeting girls but I will ry to go to plas of my interest which also attract others or perhaps meet some girls.

And yeh I think looking for easy sex with hot girls is dreamland stuff, many slutty girls may not be attractive either.

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

So how, when and where do you meet girls you have sex with?

Is it all mostly at night at clubs/parties etc?

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

So how, when and where do you meet girls you have sex with?

Is it all mostly at night at clubs/parties etc?

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

OK, listen up man. I've dated ALOT the past few years and I'm betting I've got 20 years on you. I'm posting this because I've read most of the posts in this thread and you're initial post left me wondering "what the fuck??"

First off, no girl who's worth your time is going to be sold based on the size of your dick. That whole thought is utterly laughable. Unless you've got a micropenis, your dick size isn't even going to register with any girl that's genuinely interested in you.

Second, if you're athletic in build and have a good personality and a job, you've won 3/4 of the battle right there. You know how many girls find guys that might have somewhat of a physique but have no job and don't do shit in a given day? TONS!

Lastly and most important, just be YOU. No one does that better than you do. Your dick size will be totally immaterial to any worthwhile woman. If all you're looking for is a good time girl who'll suck and fuck you without a commitment or even a date, as CUSP mentioned, they're called "hookers".

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

So how, when and where do you meet girls you have sex with?

Is it all mostly at night at clubs/parties etc?

IF sex is your sole goal, then you can meet them at the places you mentioned or on the local street corner.

What is your exact goal dude?

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

OK, listen up man. I've dated ALOT the past few years and I'm betting I've got 20 years on you. I'm posting this because I've read most of the posts in this thread and you're initial post left me wondering "what the fuck??"

First off, no girl who's worth your time is going to be sold based on the size of your dick. That whole thought is utterly laughable. Unless you've got a micropenis, your dick size isn't even going to register with any girl that's genuinely interested in you.

Second, if you're athletic in build and have a good personality and a job, you've won 3/4 of the battle right there. You know how many girls find guys that might have somewhat of a physique but have no job and don't do shit in a given day? TONS!

Lastly and most important, just be YOU. No one does that better than you do. Your dick size will be totally immaterial to any worthwhile woman. If all you're looking for is a good time girl who'll suck and fuck you without a commitment or even a date, as CUSP mentioned, they're called "hookers".

Thanks for advice dude. Its ironic without beign big headed I do have a lot to offer.

I have ok body bit skinny but im very fit. I have a degree from a top UK university. I am pretty funny chill guy who lives a laid back lifestyle (no hard drugs, crazy stuff, beat women up crap lol).

However, I am unemployed atm as there are no jobs right now in my field and I have some other ''problems'' atm. But I am working on it and have some interviews and stuff next week. Though I admit I am also sometimes just a real lazy bastard lol.

So yes I have decent body, ok personality and degree but no job but plenty free time lol...and I guess decent penis for what it counts?

Thing is I only wanna hang with a girl I get on with well and that looks hot and Im also a bit off a loner/intorvert hence why I was looking for what you call fcuk buddies because apart from sex im not really into hanging with girls much, id rather go play football or go out with my mates, make music, play video games etc... if you know what I mean? Im not into romantic stuff really.

If Im just having sex thats cool and then the rest off my time is mine. I guess in that case hookers are the best answer. I cant expect girls to come over to be my personal sex slave lol.

If I meet a cool and cute girl I dunno what id do, maybe I could go to cinema or zoo or for a meal now and then but tbh Id rather do other things as I mentioned.

Its a bit off a sad potin of view maybe but I just dont have urges or desire to hang with a girl, there is so much I enjoy doing that I dont care or have time for hanging with a girl. BUt I still do like sex.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

Thanks for advice dude. Its ironic without beign big headed I do have a lot to offer.

I have ok body bit skinny but im very fit. I have a degree from a top UK university. I am pretty funny chill guy who lives a laid back lifestyle (no hard drugs, crazy stuff, beat women up crap lol).

However, I am unemployed atm as there are no jobs right now in my field and I have some other ''problems'' atm. But I am working on it and have some interviews and stuff next week. Though I admit I am also sometimes just a real lazy bastard lol.

So yes I have decent body, ok personality and degree but no job but plenty free time lol...and I guess decent penis for what it counts?

Thing is I only wanna hang with a girl I get on with well and that looks hot and Im also a bit off a loner/intorvert hence why I was looking for what you call fcuk buddies because apart from sex im not really into hanging with girls much, id rather go play football or go out with my mates, make music, play video games etc... if you know what I mean? Im not into romantic stuff really.

If Im just having sex thats cool and then the rest off my time is mine. I guess in that case hookers are the best answer. I cant expect girls to come over to be my personal sex slave lol.

If I meet a cool and cute girl I dunno what id do, maybe I could go to cinema or zoo or for a meal now and then but tbh Id rather do other things as I mentioned.

Its a bit off a sad potin of view maybe but I just dont have urges or desire to hang with a girl, there is so much I enjoy doing that I dont care or have time for hanging with a girl. BUt I still do like sex.

No one says you have to hang with a girl. If you're doing stuff you like in your life and you're happy, who cares. Just enjoy being you. Hey, I don't have a gf either and I LOVE LOVE LOVE sex and anything sexual but I don't let that get me down.