My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 15 months now and I love her to death but she's been really controlling lately and she's always getting mad at me over the tiniest things.
The whole controlling thing started probably back around 10 months ago where she would get mad at me if I hungout with these two guys who used to drink and smoke (I was the one who got them to stop). A few months later she started getting mad at me for going to my sister's track meets. Then this past summer she let me know that she hated it when I hungout with my best friend but she still tells me she doesn't mind me hanging out with him. I now know that is a huge load of BS.
This is what I think is totally ridiculous though. Around 2 weeks ago, I went over to my cousins house cuz I hadn't seen her and her husband in a long time. I had a great time just watching tv and eating pizza with them. The next day my girlfriend asks me what I did and I told her I went over there and then she freaks out on me for chosing another girl over her. I was in shock because I told her she was my cousin but then she said "I dont care, you would get so pissed off if I went and hungout with another guy." I told her I would but not if it was her cousin or other relative.
Well everything got cleared up from that but a few days ago I was with her at her house and was looking at her facebook and saw she was messaging this guy in her anatomy class and saw her say "we really need to go to [mexican restaraunt] soon ). I got really angry with that because it was the same day that I was over at my cousins house but she tells me she had no intensions of actually going with him and that I overreacted. This still bugs me and she doesn't care whatsoever.
Oh and I almost forgot. something. I told her last night my best friend and his family is taking me paintballing today for my christmas gift and I asked if she she was angry and she said "sure. gotta go. bye."
I do really care about my girlfriend but I am starting to have so many doubts and thoughts of her wanting to be with other guys. Does anybody have some advice for me?
The whole controlling thing started probably back around 10 months ago where she would get mad at me if I hungout with these two guys who used to drink and smoke (I was the one who got them to stop). A few months later she started getting mad at me for going to my sister's track meets. Then this past summer she let me know that she hated it when I hungout with my best friend but she still tells me she doesn't mind me hanging out with him. I now know that is a huge load of BS.
This is what I think is totally ridiculous though. Around 2 weeks ago, I went over to my cousins house cuz I hadn't seen her and her husband in a long time. I had a great time just watching tv and eating pizza with them. The next day my girlfriend asks me what I did and I told her I went over there and then she freaks out on me for chosing another girl over her. I was in shock because I told her she was my cousin but then she said "I dont care, you would get so pissed off if I went and hungout with another guy." I told her I would but not if it was her cousin or other relative.
Well everything got cleared up from that but a few days ago I was with her at her house and was looking at her facebook and saw she was messaging this guy in her anatomy class and saw her say "we really need to go to [mexican restaraunt] soon ). I got really angry with that because it was the same day that I was over at my cousins house but she tells me she had no intensions of actually going with him and that I overreacted. This still bugs me and she doesn't care whatsoever.
Oh and I almost forgot. something. I told her last night my best friend and his family is taking me paintballing today for my christmas gift and I asked if she she was angry and she said "sure. gotta go. bye."
I do really care about my girlfriend but I am starting to have so many doubts and thoughts of her wanting to be with other guys. Does anybody have some advice for me?
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