Craziest thing ever happened last night..

**needhelp** · 03-23-2012

Im speechless about what transpired last night. Tuesday and Wednesday nights I dont know why but I started thinking about this girl I used to talk to about a year ago.

Heres a short background of her: I met her like February of last year at school. We talked for a little while then she wanted us to be exclusive. Because she was graduating that May and moving 8 hours away in June I didnt want to get involved with a long distance relationship. This was the girl I technically lost my virginity to. I also had some serious porn induced ED back then and could never maintain/get an erection with her. The ED was possibly another reason why I didnt want to get exclusive because I would have to tell her the truth about it and it was too embarassing.

Alright so anyways Tuesday and Wednesday nights I just started randomly thinking about how now that my ED is cured how great it would be if we could take care of our unfinished business. This girl had been in my mind all night both of those nights. So just think about my reaction last night. I was sitting at my friends house drinking about to go out to the bars when at about 11:30 I get a text from my roommate saying "Brittany G(not her real name) is with us right now on the way downtown lol!" I just sat in shock for a good 5-10 minutes. I am still speechless about it. Mind=blown.

But I ended up meeting with them, she spent the night with me and we took care of our unfinished business lol.

**second lensman** · 03-23-2012

Well done! I had a similar experience about 45 years ago in college. Unforgettable.

**ronnierokk** · 03-25-2012

Have you ever watched the movie The Secret?

That explains everything.

What we really want will come to us, all we have to do is focus on it.

**needhelp** · 03-25-2012

I have not seen it. But I did forget how much I liked her. Its crazy how something like this happens a little over half a year before I graduate.

**Hopeful&dedicated** · 03-25-2012

Stories like this freak me out. Anyway, go get her and good luck. If you are still thinking about here that much after a year has passed there must be something special there.

**BigO** · 03-25-2012

Hey man, some things are meant to be. Keep in touch with her. Glad you had a great time with some one you actually like. Great story.

**needhelp** · 03-26-2012

Yea Im not sure what to think now. She was going to a concert with her friends Friday so I let her be, but then I texted her twice Saturday night and didnt get a response then I texted her last night just to let her know it was great seeing her and I look forward to the next time I get to. She hasnt responded so I dont know what to do. I just remember talking with her about our last break and she was upset that I never kept in touch then, but Im not gonna keep checking on her if she never responds.

**KungFuJoe** · 03-26-2012

If you really like the girl, don't give up and don't hold back. Don't hide your feelings for her. Let it all out. If she shoots you down and shatters your heart, so be it. But a shattered heart is nothing compared to the regret you will feel if you let her pass you by again.

**needhelp** · 03-27-2012

Idk, sometimes I feel like I might overthink some things. While seeing her did bring back the feelings I had for her, it also reminded me how crazy she is. I dont remember any certain events but she is just crazy. Everything we talked about had to be about us and one second she would be pissed and the next she would be happy to see me. I also remembered when we were having sex she wanted me to cum inside her. I thought that was weird considering I hadnt seen her in 8-9 months. And she didnt say it just once, she said it a few times. The only thing running through my head at that point was a call 2 weeks later from her saying shes pregnant and just like that Id be trapped for life.

So thats pretty much the way I feel about her. Im not worried about her shooting me down and shattering my heart because it wouldnt happen. Id say the last 3-4 times weve seen each other shes been trying to get me to try the long distance thing so thats not an issue.

The main thing that Im worried about is this: yes I want to keep in touch for the potential of something down the road, but I dont want to spill my heart out to her because if I tell her how I feel she's gonna automatically think we're together. Im worried that time will go by and I'd lose feelings for her if I dont see her, or potentially meet another girl that I like more than her. Then how would I explain to her after telling her how much she means to me and how I feel about her, that I found another girl and won't be talking to her anymore?? <--that is the dilemma my friends

**needhelp** · 03-27-2012

Originally Posted by ItWasWritten

Huge red flag right there. Damn, thank God you didn't do it. Trapped for life is exactly what you would have been. After reading that I think you should be extremely careful and cautious with this chick.

Hell yea man I was real cautious. I lost my erection thinking about it lol.

I also had some serious porn induced ED back then and could never maintain/get an erection with her. The ED was possibly another reason why I didnt want to get exclusive because I would have to tell her the truth about it and it was too embarassing.

Now that I think about it, this might have been a blessing in disguise. If I could have maintained an erection back then I would have probably came inside her.