I have a lot of trust issues with girls because my ex (who I was with for 1 year) cheated on me with some guy she met at a rave. This break up was recent. Anyways I've been getting close to another girl I've known for 2 years but I'm scared to make anything official. I don't want to move too quick, end up with another girl who will cheat on me and she also seems a bit TOO clingy. She gave me a handjob two weeks ago and I was supposed to be fingering her this week.
Here's the sad part.
Some guy (who I thought was my friend) told her I was saying things about her to him. He said I called her slag, that I don't like her and I'm using her and he told her how I told her she gave me a handjob (wrong of me to tell him). She hasn't been picking up my calls or replying to my texts and just yesterday she came to my house and gave me the stuff that I bought her. She said "I can't believe you would say those things about me" and she left. She didn't care what I had to say. I've known her way longer than this guy has (he probably knew her for a few months). I went to him and told him to tell her what he said was a lie but it turns out he wants her, although he's showing too much interest in her and I don't see it working for him.
Now my question is, how can I sort this out?
I am not using her and I can't believe she would believe what this guy says over what I say. I'm frustrated and I'm beginning to feel maybe she didn't even like me and this is her way off telling me to skadoosh. Any advice on what I can do?
Oh and also I'm turning 20 this July and she's turning 17 this December (I never did anything with her when she wasn't legal believe me lol she just went to the same school as me, it's how I met her). Is the age difference weird?
Here's the sad part.
Some guy (who I thought was my friend) told her I was saying things about her to him. He said I called her slag, that I don't like her and I'm using her and he told her how I told her she gave me a handjob (wrong of me to tell him). She hasn't been picking up my calls or replying to my texts and just yesterday she came to my house and gave me the stuff that I bought her. She said "I can't believe you would say those things about me" and she left. She didn't care what I had to say. I've known her way longer than this guy has (he probably knew her for a few months). I went to him and told him to tell her what he said was a lie but it turns out he wants her, although he's showing too much interest in her and I don't see it working for him.
Now my question is, how can I sort this out?
I am not using her and I can't believe she would believe what this guy says over what I say. I'm frustrated and I'm beginning to feel maybe she didn't even like me and this is her way off telling me to skadoosh. Any advice on what I can do?
Oh and also I'm turning 20 this July and she's turning 17 this December (I never did anything with her when she wasn't legal believe me lol she just went to the same school as me, it's how I met her). Is the age difference weird?
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