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    Hey there - I'm looking for advice from married guys or guys in long term relationships - I haven't told my partner I'm doing PE, and I don't know how to talk about it without sounding like I have an unhealthy dick obsession, lol.
    START: May 10 2012
    BPEL: 6.5in
    EG: 5 1/8in

    July 10 2012
    BPEL: 7 1/8in
    EG: 5 3/8

    GOAL: 7.5 x 6in by May 2013!

    ULTIMATE GOAL: Rock hard 8.5 x 6in forever:)

  • #2
    Letting your ladies know about PE

    Told Wife About PE Exercises


    Just tell her it's for penis health, because that's what it pretty much does, a long with some girth and length gains.

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    • #3
      I will definitely tell my girl about PE when the results are noticable. That way, there is no way she will argue about it and call it weird. She can crearly see the results.
      The best sound in the whole world is my wife.... having an orgasm!!!!

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      • #4
        For me, I am not telling. I love my wife and share a lot with her, but not everything. There is no need for her to know from my point of view.

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        • #5
          Do not start off by saying since you wont keggle..........
          Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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          • #6
            I only told my girlfriend because I felt like sharing it after we were "together" for about a month and only when the topic of her seeeing me naked came up. There isn't a need to, but if you want to all you can do is talk about it seriously. I think it is just like exercising to lose weight or build muscle, no big deal really.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by BigO View Post
              Do not start off by saying since you wont keggle..........
              BAHAHAHA yea, do NOT do that
              "Know the rules well, so that you may properly break them" - The Dalai Lama
              Do not criticize the seed for not yet being a tree.
              Character is destiny - Sigmund Freud
              As long as I have breath in my lungs, I will make this happen

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              • #8
                id probably just say i do dick workouts or something to help keep it harder for you

                itd be much more strange if you pump/hang/all the fancy stuff but hell i dont think its a serious thing
                No porn period as of 3/13/15 had a minor relapse after 6 months+
                Practicing relaxation and hoping to improve erection quality!

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                • #9
                  I am married and happily at that for a while and can say that before you contemplate on PE, tell your wife about how you feel about it because her opinions of your shlong is more than likely not the same as yours. Take this with all heart, it is her that feels you inside her and not you. So she may not want it any longer if you already hit bottom or not too much more thicker if she already feels a lot of friction. She loves you for you and not your penis size. Now, you can negotiate on PE which is what I did with my wife before engaging in PE to where there was a point of length and girth I should not cross that she would not feel discomfort during intercourse.

                  Should you tell her about PE, yes; but before you start. That's right! BEFORE YOU START! There should be no secrets in a marriage or long term relationship.
                  Begin 7/25/2011:
                  NBPEL 7, BPEL 7.2, MEG 5.6, BEG 6

                  Current 12/05/2014:
                  FL 5.25, FG 5.2
                  NBPEL 7.8, BPEL 8.1, UEG 5.75, MEG 6.25, BEG 6.7

                  Long:
                  UEG:MEG 6.5

                  https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...henewuser.html

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                  • #10
                    OP there are a few threads about this but if you were mine what I would want is this:

                    You sitting in a chair or on the bed in my eye shot. Naked and doing a kegel. If I saw my man doing that I would have no choice but to go over there and let it hit me in the face or something lol Then I would ask what it was and then he gets to make me really feel great because he will explain that he found these exercises to keep his region healthy and hopefully hard for years to come. I would feel very special, cared for and horny as hell seeing that kegel action lol Good luck!
                    The Dick is the Best Toy Ever!

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by BigO View Post
                      Do not start off by saying since you wont keggle..........
                      This is very good advice haha
                      "whether you think you can, or you think you can't, either way you're right" --- Henry Ford

                      Start: 2/19/12
                      7 x 4 3/4 MEG

                      Current:
                      BPEL - 7 1/4"
                      MEG - 4 3/4"
                      BEG - 5 1/2"

                      Goal:
                      7 3/4 x 6
                      And a nice, meaty, "Oh My", flaccid Trouser Snake.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by islander View Post
                        OP there are a few threads about this but if you were mine what I would want is this:

                        You sitting in a chair or on the bed in my eye shot. Naked and doing a kegel. If I saw my man doing that I would have no choice but to go over there and let it hit me in the face or something lol Then I would ask what it was and then he gets to make me really feel great because he will explain that he found these exercises to keep his region healthy and hopefully hard for years to come. I would feel very special, cared for and horny as hell seeing that kegel action lol Good luck!
                        Always nice to get your opinion, welcome back Islander.
                        Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before

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                        • #13
                          ^ Thank you Big Boy. Just chiming in while I kill some time before my vacation
                          The Dick is the Best Toy Ever!

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by thenewdude View Post
                            I am married and happily at that for a while and can say that before you contemplate on PE, tell your wife about how you feel about it because her opinions of your shlong is more than likely not the same as yours. Take this with all heart, it is her that feels you inside her and not you. So she may not want it any longer if you already hit bottom or not too much more thicker if she already feels a lot of friction. She loves you for you and not your penis size. Now, you can negotiate on PE which is what I did with my wife before engaging in PE to where there was a point of length and girth I should not cross that she would not feel discomfort during intercourse.

                            Should you tell her about PE, yes; but before you start. That's right! BEFORE YOU START! There should be no secrets in a marriage or long term relationship.
                            I agree with you, thenewdude.
                            I told my wife about what I was learning through this site, and she was fine with it. She can tell I've gotten bigger and harder since doing these exorcises, and has told me several times she's more than happy with the size I'm at now which is 6.5 X 5.5
                            though I would like to get another half inch in both categories.

                            Pleasing my wife, sexually and in all the other things in life is my main goal.

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                            • #15
                              I was going to a very conservative Christian college in 2008. I had a girlfriend there. I began doing PE exercises in the dorm. Well, I was caught (details don't matter) and brought before the leadership of the college. They told me how evil what I was doing was and said I couldn't do it anymore. Well, eventually, I told the girl that I had to go see the bigwigs and even told her why. She freaked, and not in a good way. She begged me never to do it again. Initially, I agreed, but I missed PE sorely and began to ask myself what right she had to tell me what to do with my own body. She doesn't have any right at all! So I resumed PE. It contributed to the end of things between us, but it was for the better. She was very critical and controlling, and I doubt very much that I could have been happy with her long-term. As the years have lengthened, I have realized more and more how arrogant not only she, but also the college leadership was to try and intrude into such a personal area of my life. Assholes!

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