A little background first.
I am currently at a Job Corps in Utah. It's sort of like a school. We learn a trade for 8 hours a day and then live and eat here on center.
Last year, when I was working in the cafeteria, I saw this girl working there as well. Every time I made eye contact with her when I passed by, she would smile at me. I thought nothing of it thinking she was just friendly. But as the months continued, it didn't stop. She always had a smile and sometimes a wave for me. Well, this past Friday, as she was getting on the bus to go off-center (I was already seated), she flashed me the same familiar smile. I thought it was high time I at least got her name so I struck up a conversation. When the bus stopped, we each got off at our intended destinations. Mine was Barnes and Noble
Afterward, as we waited for the bus, one of the questions I asked her was what kind of books she reads. Her instant answer without hesitation or forethought was "the Bible." I was a bit surprised actually. I thought at first that she was Catholic since she is Hispanic. Nope she's a Christian, a born again Christian like me!
I think things are starting to make sense. She is drop-dead gorgeous, but I cannot remember ever seeing her with a steady boyfriend. If she is the kind of girl that I think she might be, she likely observes one of Christianity's most important rules; do not date or marry someone who is not of like faith. I am still trying to figure out if the attraction I feel for her is one-sided or mutual.
I didn't see her at all Saturday, but I saw her today. She was waiting outside of the cafeteria entrance for the place to open. She was all by herself. I went up to her and said hello, asked her how her weekend was, and said some off-handed remark about the food hopefully being good . . . and then, I walked away! Why did I walk away??? I could have asked her how long she has been here, when she became a Christian, what her trade was, or any number of other things! I guess I figured that she has guys after her left and right already and so I didn't want to pressure her. I intended to ask if I could join her when we got inside, but two guys beat me to her in line. I guess I need a bit more self-confidence than I thought!
Inside, I watched her with the guys. She smiled and laughed sometimes, but it seemed as if she focused on her plate most of the time and didn't make eye contact very often whereas with me, she makes eye contact frequently and smiles and laughs a lot. I was hoping they would get up and leave before she did, but she left first and they walked out with her. *sigh* I should have latched onto her this morning before the others could get to her. I don't think she is in a relationship with any of them. At least, I hope not. Any clues to watch for when she is with other guys would help.
I'm hoping I can sit with her tonight at dinner. Any advice would be helpful. I'm not very good at this.
Previously, dating here would have been out of the question, but now, we both know the other is Christian, and if there is a mutual attraction there, I don't want to let this opportunity slip by!
P.S. I already posted this at ************* and it devolved into a religious flame war. Let's see if we can stay on topic please!
I am currently at a Job Corps in Utah. It's sort of like a school. We learn a trade for 8 hours a day and then live and eat here on center.
Last year, when I was working in the cafeteria, I saw this girl working there as well. Every time I made eye contact with her when I passed by, she would smile at me. I thought nothing of it thinking she was just friendly. But as the months continued, it didn't stop. She always had a smile and sometimes a wave for me. Well, this past Friday, as she was getting on the bus to go off-center (I was already seated), she flashed me the same familiar smile. I thought it was high time I at least got her name so I struck up a conversation. When the bus stopped, we each got off at our intended destinations. Mine was Barnes and Noble
Afterward, as we waited for the bus, one of the questions I asked her was what kind of books she reads. Her instant answer without hesitation or forethought was "the Bible." I was a bit surprised actually. I thought at first that she was Catholic since she is Hispanic. Nope she's a Christian, a born again Christian like me!
I think things are starting to make sense. She is drop-dead gorgeous, but I cannot remember ever seeing her with a steady boyfriend. If she is the kind of girl that I think she might be, she likely observes one of Christianity's most important rules; do not date or marry someone who is not of like faith. I am still trying to figure out if the attraction I feel for her is one-sided or mutual.
I didn't see her at all Saturday, but I saw her today. She was waiting outside of the cafeteria entrance for the place to open. She was all by herself. I went up to her and said hello, asked her how her weekend was, and said some off-handed remark about the food hopefully being good . . . and then, I walked away! Why did I walk away??? I could have asked her how long she has been here, when she became a Christian, what her trade was, or any number of other things! I guess I figured that she has guys after her left and right already and so I didn't want to pressure her. I intended to ask if I could join her when we got inside, but two guys beat me to her in line. I guess I need a bit more self-confidence than I thought!
Inside, I watched her with the guys. She smiled and laughed sometimes, but it seemed as if she focused on her plate most of the time and didn't make eye contact very often whereas with me, she makes eye contact frequently and smiles and laughs a lot. I was hoping they would get up and leave before she did, but she left first and they walked out with her. *sigh* I should have latched onto her this morning before the others could get to her. I don't think she is in a relationship with any of them. At least, I hope not. Any clues to watch for when she is with other guys would help.
I'm hoping I can sit with her tonight at dinner. Any advice would be helpful. I'm not very good at this.
Previously, dating here would have been out of the question, but now, we both know the other is Christian, and if there is a mutual attraction there, I don't want to let this opportunity slip by!
P.S. I already posted this at ************* and it devolved into a religious flame war. Let's see if we can stay on topic please!
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