To be afraid of being cheated on?
With my recent week long time in the mental hospital I had time to think on a bunch of things and this was one of the things I kept thinking about this, my only relationship, and a sex crazy trip I was going to go on.
The entire time though I figured out that she may not have loved me as much as I loved her and that I won't be going on that trip, mostly because of lack of money, but the one thing I couldn't figure out is this fear of being cheated on, I still can't figure this out. I have never been cheated on, not in my only relationship, but the very thought of finding it out or seeing the person I care about cheating on me before my eyes drives me up a wall. The thought of being 2nd like that is one of the few things that I actually fear. This thought was always in the back of my mind in my relationship, but I knew she would never do that and I don't want to know even if she did.
The thing is I have no idea why. I can't imagine this being normal and I know this is something that is not only holding me back in dating and relationships, but also with myself and being afraid to ask someone out and be constantly thinking this. I have to get past this way of thinking so I can not be tripping over this, especially when I am not in a relationship nor even dating.
With my recent week long time in the mental hospital I had time to think on a bunch of things and this was one of the things I kept thinking about this, my only relationship, and a sex crazy trip I was going to go on.
The entire time though I figured out that she may not have loved me as much as I loved her and that I won't be going on that trip, mostly because of lack of money, but the one thing I couldn't figure out is this fear of being cheated on, I still can't figure this out. I have never been cheated on, not in my only relationship, but the very thought of finding it out or seeing the person I care about cheating on me before my eyes drives me up a wall. The thought of being 2nd like that is one of the few things that I actually fear. This thought was always in the back of my mind in my relationship, but I knew she would never do that and I don't want to know even if she did.
The thing is I have no idea why. I can't imagine this being normal and I know this is something that is not only holding me back in dating and relationships, but also with myself and being afraid to ask someone out and be constantly thinking this. I have to get past this way of thinking so I can not be tripping over this, especially when I am not in a relationship nor even dating.
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