Sexually unsatisfied

[Littlemike16202 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Littlemike16202]

Lately my girl has been asking if she doesnt satisfy me and has been sorta upset about it and i tell her i am because i am but shes hesitant to believe me.

So i starting looking up things about men being unsatisfied and nothing came up. Across most sites ive seen its all about women being unsatisfied and it seems most women assume all they need to do is have sex with you every now and then and maybe get you off once in a while and thats all you need.

Does anyone else think that most women feel this way? My girlfriend doesnt and she cares if im satisfied

[Littlemike16202 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Littlemike16202]

My main point i guess is that it seems a bit sexist against men

[Guest Close XitemeM]

In general, women are more beautiful than men, and men are hornier than women. So we tend to get these points of view. There have been times when I've wished that my wife would treat me like the way I treat her though. What a lucky duck she is hehe

[Littlemike16202 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Littlemike16202]

Yeah you're right but it is a little unfair though

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

Because when it comes down to it, men are doing most of the work during sex, are judged, and most cases are in charge of both his and his mates orgasms. I guess some women think that when the guy has his orgasm and pretty much always does during sex that he's satisfied(and most of the time he is) but there's still a lot of women that want to please their mate by oral or manual and it's generally easier to please a guy in the bed than a woman.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

Is there anything she knows you want done that she isnt doing? Is there anything you want done your not telling her? Both of you open up share fantasies make them come true if you can!

[pterodactyl Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close pterodactyl]

What Vette said ^. Being open about what you want from her may just give her the confidence she needs to feel that she is satisfying you. Some girls like to be told what to do. It can take the pressure off.

[Brandon85 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brandon85]

I think that a lot of men enjoy as much intimacy as a woman. Yeah, there are some men that just want to plug, pump and pop. But, as I get get deeper emotionally into a relationship, sex becomes more intimate (as well as physical).

I can see why couples in long relationships would just get in there and get 'er done. The physical gratification is fulfilled and now everyone can go to sleep.

My friend was vaguely talking to me about his sex life. They have been married for just over ten years. Not short. Not long. He said he would rather beat off than have his wife fulfill her necessary sexual duties.

A lot of men have the need to feel desired as much as any woman. I will not have sex with a woman strictly for physical/sexual gratification. I derive pleasure from the need of her wanting me just as much (if not more so) as well as the physical pleasure of actual sex.

I have had a couple of girls say to me 'are you done yet?'. This phrase instantly kills my erection.

My girlfriend can tell when I am about to cum. She will whisper 'not yet, fuck me more' or 'yes, baby. fill me up'. The first phrase conveys desire as does the second phrase.

It is my opinion that when women are unsatisfied with their sex life, it is lack of emotional connection and passion. AND I believe it is the same for men.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

How about sending her here; we'll all help. No I'm not kidding. It could be a very good idea!

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

Definitely a good idea. Even women could learn from this place.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

You know Donnie;great minds think alight!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

You know Donnie; great minds do think alike!

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

You know Donnie;great minds think alight!

Indeed they do.

You know Donnie; great minds do think alike!

And yet again you are right.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

In reality, Cusp only has a little over 5000 posts, but he says everything twice just to cheat and win the gold medal in the post olympics

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

You can say that again!