Me personally i dont believe you should deprive the body of it. The first time is usually dissapointing if youve been saving yourself for that special ocasion and you already know how you want things to go down. It takes time to learn technique, your own body and what works for you and throw in what works for your partner so i say why waste time when you can aquire experience?
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Too many give it away too easily to nobody special. Waiting for marriage is not completely practical with how different the dating world has become.. but waiting for someone special, someone that has love attached and trust, commitment to it shouldn't be looked down on. I think that is what the marriage things is basically a symbol of. And some people like the idea of both being on the same page the first time, sharing the special moment for the first time on the wedding night... gives the man something to look forward to huh, finally getting his hands on what was taboo.
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You have any daughters, vettez? I have two. Look at it this way, your op, would you ever explain sex to your daughter(s) that way? I sure wouldn't, my chat would line up more with alphahanger girl and Tink.
I won't ever tell them that they must save themselves for marriage, but I think waiting until a special guy comes along is the way to go. Who cares if sex the first time sucks(actually don't think my first time was all that bad), mine was special because it was shared with the guy I loved. If I just had sex with some random, I think my outlook on sex in general would have been not so great.Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
If you want love, give love.
If you want honesty, give honesty.
If you want respect, give respect.
You get in return, what you give.
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Last edited by someone_like_u; 07-29-2012, 10:11 AM.Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
If you want love, give love.
If you want honesty, give honesty.
If you want respect, give respect.
You get in return, what you give.
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Originally posted by someone_like_u View PostYou have any daughters, vettez? I have two. Look at it this way, your op, would you ever explain sex to your daughter(s) that way? I sure wouldn't, my chat would line up more with alphahanger girl and Tink.
I won't ever tell them that they must save themselves for marriage, but I think waiting until a special guy comes along is the way to go. Who cares if sex the first time sucks(actually don't think my first time was all that bad), mine was special because it was shared with the guy I loved. If I just had sex with some random, I think my outlook on sex in general would have been not so great.It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)
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Originally posted by donjelqer76 View PostI have a very high amount of respect for those with the will strong enough to wait for something special like this. It is very uncommon these days! There is nothing wrong with it so ever - if everybody was this strong mentally the world would be a different placeIt's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)
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