Bottom line, there are no trust issues in my relationship with my girlfriend. Cheating, past or present, is not an issue. According to her, I am the best lover she has ever known at 7" length and average girth. She told me she has only been with one guy before college (we are both rising sophomores), but he was 9 inches in length and was "huge and hurt me".
We have been hooking up consistently since first semester of freshman year and are now monogamous going into our sophomore year. She has claimed that I have had sex with more people than she has, but she has had more one-night-stands during college, including one with my good friend at school.
Would anyone else be bothered by the mental images of the girl they love being BANGED so casually by random guys in a hedonistic college environment? And what does this activity say about her personality/character?
I truly enjoy being with her and value our relationship, but I can't stop picturing her doing slutty stuff BEFORE WE EVER MET, and I feel like I cannot take any pride in being with her because she has surrendered herself too easily in the past.
Can anyone offer past experience/insight into my situation? We both are in love but I cannot stop thinking about her SLUTTY PAST.
We have been hooking up consistently since first semester of freshman year and are now monogamous going into our sophomore year. She has claimed that I have had sex with more people than she has, but she has had more one-night-stands during college, including one with my good friend at school.
Would anyone else be bothered by the mental images of the girl they love being BANGED so casually by random guys in a hedonistic college environment? And what does this activity say about her personality/character?
I truly enjoy being with her and value our relationship, but I can't stop picturing her doing slutty stuff BEFORE WE EVER MET, and I feel like I cannot take any pride in being with her because she has surrendered herself too easily in the past.
Can anyone offer past experience/insight into my situation? We both are in love but I cannot stop thinking about her SLUTTY PAST.
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