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[n1sm Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close n1sm]

So after almost a month of pe with my new extender, my live in gf finds it in my sock drawer.

She thinks i hid it from her ect. Needless to say now she thinks I'm cheating on her BC she thinks my penis is perfect and it barely fits as is(her words not mine)...

Was I wrong not telling her I was into pe and using this device? My goals are fairly lofty and could be misconstrued to be selfish, easily....

Has anyone's wife or fiancee had this reaction before? How can I convince her that a few more inches is cool, hip and needed???

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

So after almost a month of pe with my new extender, my live in gf finds it in my sock drawer.

She thinks i hid it from her ect. Needless to say now she thinks I'm cheating on her BC she thinks my penis is perfect and it barely fits as is(her words not mine)...

Was I wrong not telling her I was into pe and using this device? My goals are fairly lofty and could be misconstrued to be selfish, easily....

Has anyone's wife or fiancee had this reaction before? How can I convince her that a few more inches is cool, hip and needed???

I think it depends on the girl...............my gf knows about it and her only words for me were "don't get too big because it's already big as it is......".....I have no intention of stopping so........but I don't think you were wrong for not telling her. You choosing to do PE is for you and her and not because you have intentions of cheating. Either she understands that or she doesn't....

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Explain you are doing the PEGym for your penis health and that some enlargement is a side effect of it. My husband started this journey to deal with his ED and ended up getting the size enlargement. Just remember we ladies all have a stretch point and even though some ladies can stretch to fit just about anything, some can not. So if you are serious about your girl maybe you guys need to have a conversation about your goals. I love helping my husband with the routine and that is another option to suggest even though that makes it harder for you to keep the erection level down.

[cro3686 Member Find all posts View Profile Close cro3686]

My wife doesn't about my jelqing exercises. But I know she'd say the same thing to me. I think it depends on the woman. I'm doing this to better my sex life with my spouse. I'm not telling her about it because I like her to be surprised.

[namsokiek Banned Find all posts View Profile Close namsokiek]

Someone suggested asking, "if you could make your breasts bigger, would you?"

I think it really depends on her personal outlook to determine if that question would carry any weight. However, you could always ask, "If you found out you could change something about yourself (eye color, height, body shape, etc) would you do it?" Everyone has something they wouldn't mind changing.

This is something most folks could understand.

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

If she's a keeper, have her read the thousands of posts here by men trying to improve themselves physically, mentally and emotionally. The words of others may help! Like MrBigDick said,"it depends on the girl".

[Qarzan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qarzan]

No, you didn't do anything wrong. It's kind of strange that she thinks you're cheating. Do you mean cheating as in infidelity and adultery? Or cheating as in not being fair?

[n1sm Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close n1sm]

I'm doing this to better my sex life with my spouse. I'm not telling her about it because I like her to be surprised.

Precisely why i didn't tell her. I figured it'd be a pleasant surprise to have higher eq erections and be able to go all night like an animal. She thinks I'm cheating and want to impress someone else.

I mean it'd be different if i was out at clubs but I'm a homebody that moved out of state to be with her. I sit around playing xbox 360 instead of going out and meeting lots of people. She has no idea what my priorities are it seems.

Qarzan she thinks im stepping out on her. it's like "WTF MAN?"

[CLOSEDDennyA Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close CLOSEDDennyA]

Precisely why i didn't tell her. I figured it'd be a pleasant surprise to have higher eq erections and be able to go all night like an animal. She thinks I'm cheating and want to impress someone else.

I mean it'd be different if i was out at clubs but I'm a homebody that moved out of state to be with her. I sit around playing xbox 360 instead of going out and meeting lots of people. She has no idea what my priorities are it seems.

Qarzan she thinks im stepping out on her. it's like "WTF MAN?"

Women don't understand the extent of our hangup on dick size...you need to help her understand how it makes us feel like we're being better men for our women whether they like it or not..

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

Not sure why she thinks you are cheating on her? I could see if she thought you are a perv or something.

Eitherway, the more open and honest you are with your gf/wife the better the relationship and the less worry you both will have. Open up. Tell her everything. You will be pleasantly surprised. Most women are great partners and she may even help you out with your penis exercises ta boot! Listen to what MrsLooking4more says. I'm one of her biggest fans.

[n1sm Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close n1sm]

i tried explaining to her but she was uber upset that i "HID" something from her. If i wanted to hid something from her though she would never found out. I just don't understand her logic.

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

First off, the sock drawer is the worst place in the world to hide stuff ... but you know that now. Second, she's just mad you are hiding stuff. Totally understandable. Let her cool off, then tell her you want to be open and honest from this point on. She'll be all yours once again!!

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

i tried explaining to her but she was uber upset that i "HID" something from her. If i wanted to hid something from her though she would never found out. I just don't understand her logic.

Ok, I'm sorry, but she's pissed off because you "HID" your enlargement exercises from her? I'm sorry bro but that's lame as fuck. You're trying to better YOURSELF and the sex life the TWO OF YOU can have. It sounds to me like she's got some serious insecurities if she's getting THAT bent over an extender? How long have you been going with her and how well do you know her and hold old is she? Yes, there's a reason I'm asking these questions.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

Just change her focus, tell her you started doing the exercises to get a better erection and for your penis health and you did not tell her because you wanted to surprise her and wanted to see if she would notice the difference. Emphasize that you were going to tell her all along, you were just waiting until positive physical indicators manifested themselves to show you the workouts do work. Educate her to the facts, I will think she will be reasonable (I was elated to know my husband will go through so much work to improve his Penis health and our love life. I think all of you members that do this deserves Kudos (high praise) for your dedication).

If that doesn't chill her, I would have to say you guys have to work on trust since this should not be such a big deal. You just started and have not cemented, so most of your Physical indicators will revert if you leave it alone, which I gather is not what you want. Good luck!

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So after almost a month of pe with my new extender, my live in gf finds it in my sock drawer.

She thinks i hid it from her ect. Needless to say now she thinks I'm cheating on her BC she thinks my penis is perfect and it barely fits as is(her words not mine)...

Was I wrong not telling her I was into pe and using this device? My goals are fairly lofty and could be misconstrued to be selfish, easily....

Has anyone's wife or fiancee had this reaction before? How can I convince her that a few more inches is cool, hip and needed???

Gezz some women count masturbation as cheating.