Hey everyone, so, I fear a grave issue is arising in my relationship with my girlfriend. In the beginning, we were having sex about 4 times a week, if not more. 5 months in, were down to sex once a week, if that. I ask her many questions as to why this is the way it is now, and she simply just says, "I'm just not in the mood"
She's NEVER in the mood anymore. Last week, today, we had sex 3 times back to back to back. I came, went again. Came, went again. Came, went again. You get the idea. However, we were both at a get together and were pretty drunk. After we walked back to my place we proceeded to have sex in the shower and twice on my bed.
I know she's not cheating on me, she never would have time to. She's always working, or with my friends mom at her place (it's where she's living at the moment). I'm usually always there too, and she's showed me her phone, no suspicious texts or calls.
She claims she is still attracted to me and loves me to death, but just is "never in the mood".
I tell her every time how this makes me feel. It makes me feel unattractive, or that there's something wrong with my dick, or I just don't suffice. As some of you know, I had surgery on my dick 5 times to fix a fistula and hypospaidious. I'm very self conscious about my dick, the size, and how it looks aesthetically. She says nothing's wrong with it and she loves it, but, I just don't know.
I almost feel like the girl in this situation. She's all sweet to me and really really affectionate in the beginning of the relationship. Having sex often, going down on me often, etc.
Now? I have sex with her maybe once a week and she RARELY goes down on me. If she does, she either just licks it and doesn't even suck, or if she sucks, it lasts all but 20 seconds. I don't get it. Do I taste bad? What is it?
I precum a LOT and she always says how she doesn't like it getting in her mouth and I tell her I can't help it, I just precum enormously.
Anytime we do have sex though, she always says its really good. She says I'm incredible at going down on her. So with that being said, wouldn't you want to do something that feels incredible and is really good more often than once a week, if that? Nothing is adding up.
Anytime I try to talk to her about it now she just gets mad and asks, "why does it always have to be about sex? Why can't we just hang out and have a good time without having to have sex?" I tell her we can, and its not a problem, but if we have a great day, I'd like to make love to you at the end of it. What's the harm in that?
She says, "we don't always have to have sex! I just am not in the mood, it's always all about sex to you".
It's really not. If it was, I would have left long ago because she's not meeting my sexual needs. She's still not, but I love her so more than I love sex so yeah.
Anyways, what should I do? How can I bring it up to her again and have her be more open about it? I don't understand what's going on, but I'd like to.
If anyone women wouldn't mind commenting as well, I'd like to know what you think of this. Is she crazy? Is she a normal girl? Am I doing something wrong?
Please, anyone, help me.
- Thirdeye
She's NEVER in the mood anymore. Last week, today, we had sex 3 times back to back to back. I came, went again. Came, went again. Came, went again. You get the idea. However, we were both at a get together and were pretty drunk. After we walked back to my place we proceeded to have sex in the shower and twice on my bed.
I know she's not cheating on me, she never would have time to. She's always working, or with my friends mom at her place (it's where she's living at the moment). I'm usually always there too, and she's showed me her phone, no suspicious texts or calls.
She claims she is still attracted to me and loves me to death, but just is "never in the mood".
I tell her every time how this makes me feel. It makes me feel unattractive, or that there's something wrong with my dick, or I just don't suffice. As some of you know, I had surgery on my dick 5 times to fix a fistula and hypospaidious. I'm very self conscious about my dick, the size, and how it looks aesthetically. She says nothing's wrong with it and she loves it, but, I just don't know.
I almost feel like the girl in this situation. She's all sweet to me and really really affectionate in the beginning of the relationship. Having sex often, going down on me often, etc.
Now? I have sex with her maybe once a week and she RARELY goes down on me. If she does, she either just licks it and doesn't even suck, or if she sucks, it lasts all but 20 seconds. I don't get it. Do I taste bad? What is it?
I precum a LOT and she always says how she doesn't like it getting in her mouth and I tell her I can't help it, I just precum enormously.
Anytime we do have sex though, she always says its really good. She says I'm incredible at going down on her. So with that being said, wouldn't you want to do something that feels incredible and is really good more often than once a week, if that? Nothing is adding up.
Anytime I try to talk to her about it now she just gets mad and asks, "why does it always have to be about sex? Why can't we just hang out and have a good time without having to have sex?" I tell her we can, and its not a problem, but if we have a great day, I'd like to make love to you at the end of it. What's the harm in that?
She says, "we don't always have to have sex! I just am not in the mood, it's always all about sex to you".
It's really not. If it was, I would have left long ago because she's not meeting my sexual needs. She's still not, but I love her so more than I love sex so yeah.
Anyways, what should I do? How can I bring it up to her again and have her be more open about it? I don't understand what's going on, but I'd like to.
If anyone women wouldn't mind commenting as well, I'd like to know what you think of this. Is she crazy? Is she a normal girl? Am I doing something wrong?
Please, anyone, help me.
- Thirdeye
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