A hypothesis on Ex's with Big Ding-dongs

[Appleman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Appleman]

The threads started here with guys freaking out on insecurity about having a woman who always say that her ex was bigger than you just attracted my attention and I have a hypothesis as to why the probability that her Ex was bigger than you are.

1. Guys who date, have relationships and sex are confident. Confidence in guys come from the belief that they will be able to satisfy the lady in question. Satisfying a woman, many naive men think it calls for a big penis. The cultural stereotypes that a small penis will not satisfy a woman makes men who think they are small to avoid dating and sex. Porn has made this even worse. Thus the dating scene is left more open to guys that are packing and hence girls naturally fall for them due to their confidence. Confident guys also happen to be the alpha males who get more attention than less confident guys.
2. Guys who grow physically faster also reach puberty earlier, thus their testosterone is abundant at an early age. This makes them have larger physical features than their peers and begin dating early. The probability that their dongs will be bigger is also high, but that is not a guarantee biologically.
3. Guys with bigger physique are naturally confident due to their sense of security, They also engage more in physical activities e.g. games and this promotes even more growth. I think their penis is not left out. Due to their sense of security, they easily convince women for a lay. Some ends up being Casanovas and thus lay many women than less confident guys. By the time a woman is dumped and willing to settle for less (or better if lucky), the guys that are less confident can now catch up.
4. Girls who have had sex with around 5 to 10 men, the probability of her having had a bigger guy than you rises. The higher the number of Ex's, the higher the probability for her having had a larger Ex. Sometimes the situation is even more unfair, a girl will lay only one guy before you and it turns out that he was bigger than you. (Point number 1).

What more theories do you have?
fortunately PE will help some of us grow past this hypothesis, you know what I mean.

HYPOTHESIS: theory needing investigation: a tentative explanation for a phenomenon, used as a basis for further investigation
assumption: a statement that is assumed to be true for the sake of argument

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Nice theory but most ex's are not bigger than their current one.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

I'm the EX with the big ding dong.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

When we mature, what are body's look like and when we start dating have zero to do with dick size, the bigger ex comes down to women ( some ) saying stupid shit and guys being head cases in these cases. Maybe the ex wore bigger shoes, had a longer nose or fatter fingers, was taller or darker. Just more theories at have been proven wrong. Some of the most confident men in the world are packing tootsie rolls

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

When we mature, what are body's look like and when we start dating have zero to do with dick size, the bigger ex comes down to women ( some ) saying stupid shit and guys being head cases in these cases. Maybe the ex wore bigger shoes, had a longer nose or fatter fingers, was taller or darker. Just more theories at have been proven wrong. Some of the most confident men in the world are packing tootsie rolls

That's cause the guys are trying to play it off! I will act like a badass and no one will knows that they have a small dick. Or at least noone will say anything.

It's like those damn little yippy dogs always biting someone and the big dog wanting to be a lap dog.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

New girl friend; Oh honey I love you so much.
New boy friend; I love you too dear.
New girl friend; Did I ever tell you my ex had a bigger dick than you?
New boy friend; did I ever tell you my ex had bigger boobs and a tighter pussy than you?
New girl friend; Oh I just really love you
New boy friend; I love you to honey!

I guess that's what makes good lasting relationships!

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

The threads started here with guys freaking out on insecurity about having a woman who always say that her ex was bigger than you just attracted my attention and I have a hypothesis as to why the probability that her Ex was bigger than you are.

1. Guys who date, have relationships and sex are confident. Confidence in guys come from the belief that they will be able to satisfy the lady in question. Satisfying a woman, many naive men think it calls for a big penis. The cultural stereotypes that a small penis will not satisfy a woman makes men who think they are small to avoid dating and sex. Porn has made this even worse. Thus the dating scene is left more open to guys that are packing and hence girls naturally fall for them due to their confidence. Confident guys also happen to be the alpha males who get more attention than less confident guys.
2. Guys who grow physically faster also reach puberty earlier, thus their testosterone is abundant at an early age. This makes them have larger physical features than their peers and begin dating early. The probability that their dongs will be bigger is also high, but that is not a guarantee biologically.
3. Guys with bigger physique are naturally confident due to their sense of security, They also engage more in physical activities e.g. games and this promotes even more growth. I think their penis is not left out. Due to their sense of security, they easily convince women for a lay. Some ends up being Casanovas and thus lay many women than less confident guys. By the time a woman is dumped and willing to settle for less (or better if lucky), the guys that are less confident can now catch up.
4. Girls who have had sex with around 5 to 10 men, the probability of her having had a bigger guy than you rises. The higher the number of Ex's, the higher the probability for her having had a larger Ex. Sometimes the situation is even more unfair, a girl will lay only one guy before you and it turns out that he was bigger than you. (Point number 1).

What more theories do you have?
fortunately PE will help some of us grow past this hypothesis, you know what I mean.

HYPOTHESIS: theory needing investigation: a tentative explanation for a phenomenon, used as a basis for further investigation
assumption: a statement that is assumed to be true for the sake of argument

Most say it just to hurt us!

[DaddyDick Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DaddyDick]

New girl friend; Oh honey I love you so much.
New boy friend; I love you too dear.
New girl friend; Did I ever tell you my ex had a bigger dick than you?
New boy friend; did I ever tell you my ex had bigger boobs and a tighter pussy than you?
New girl friend; Oh I just really love you
New boy friend; I love you to honey!

I guess that's what makes good lasting relationships!

Roflmao

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

New girl friend; Oh honey I love you so much.
New boy friend; I love you too dear.
New girl friend; Did I ever tell you my ex had a bigger dick than you?
New boy friend; did I ever tell you my ex had bigger boobs and a tighter pussy than you?
New girl friend; Oh I just really love you
New boy friend; I love you to honey!

I guess that's what makes good lasting relationships!

New boy friend; I love you too dear.
New girl friend; Did I ever tell you my ex had a bigger dick than you?
New boy friend; did I ever tell you my ex had bigger boobs, tighter pussy and could suck the Chrome off a Trailer Hitch!
New girl friend; Oh I just really love you
New boy friend; I love you to honey!

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

The bigger ex thing is girls playing head games and judge by the posts on this site ,it works in spades.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

Actually, I know I woman who had only been with 6-7 men in her life with 4 of them having a big penis. It happens. So, her perception of a normal size penis is what most would call big.

[CaptainJohnson Retired ModeratorSenior MemberPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CaptainJohnson]

Actually, I know I woman who had only been with 6-7 men in her life with 4 of them having a big penis. It happens. So, her perception of a normal size penis is what most would call big.

"Sometimes you roll nothing but 20's, sometimes you roll nothing but 1's."

- D&D Proverb.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

True that!

[DarthRaider Member Find all posts View Profile Close DarthRaider]

The truth is, women who talk about an ex isn't over them emotionally. It has nothing to do with you. It's a warning sign to get the hell out of there because that is a sure sign of baggage. There is some things that a girl carries emotionally that can be tolerated. That is not one of them. Nothing against her, but its a clear sign that she re-entered the dating pool too early and has some things she needs to work out. Otherwise she will be playing against your ego and pride by comparing you all the time instead of seeing you for who you truly are.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

There's the "dominance" issue to consider. While this is not exclusive to any particular sex, the dynamics are a bit different when you compare the sexes. There may also be similar dynamics involved in the way that same sex relationships function, but for the purposes of simplicity I'll keep this post about men and women.

When a woman initially sizes you up (not necessarily a direct reference to penis size ), she will assess your level of confidence- likely above all other attributes. If she detects a low level of confidence from you- especially about one particular factor, she may decide to use it to her advantage at some point in the relationship.

If you say things like "How do I compare with your previous lovers?", this will most likely be interpreted as an insecurity on your part- even if it's asked in a glib manner. This is irrespective of however large your size may be or how great a lover you are. If her personality is such that she resorts to name calling and insults in an argument, if she decides she wants to hurt you she'll know just what to say in order to accomplish maximum damage.

The best advice that can be given on this subject is to not ask these types of questions in the first place. Even if she brings it up (perhaps to test you), if you can come off as if it's not something that you're insecure about then she'll likely view you as not being insecure about it.

Even if a negative size-based comment is made to you, imagine her reaction if you were to laugh it off or ignore it instead of giving it any attention. Whatever power she thinks may have been gained by attempting to insult you would be effectively nullified.