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    I have had many past relationships and quite a few bad experiences with a women calling me small and word getting around ( i am just over 7 inches long and quite thick ) so i know its bullshit but the funny thing is either i am really cursed with bad luck or women out there are that petty.

    I have blatantly noticed almost every girl i have EVER known bring penis size and length into play every damn time ( increased insecurity of females? no real power? who knows) out clubbing, drinking or at parties you hear this stuff, you know what they say about people drinking they tend to feed out whats really on their minds. My sisters bf at the time giggling at a family dinner at hes big size, my close female friend saying how hung her last ex was, out clubbing a girl openly put her arm out and said he was this long, facebook pics of a friend going surfing with a clearly huge cock 10 comments by women, my friend with hes girl saying how he hates going bald she replying ooh hun atleast you have a big one. Mind you many times i hear this are at dinners when they are spoken in private or i overhear but the list goes on. In a relationship if you end badly the girl will 90% of the time attack your manhood ( yeah cheap shot but thats morality of women ) and if your well endowed then shel let it go.

    I dated a girl who phoned her ex moments after we had sex and she no joke stated he had a small cock and i was so much bigger. I just stood there infront of her thinking what a bitch and i felt bad for the guy funny thing was she didnt pull that when we broke up but i bet if she didnt pull it infront of me first she would of. Time and time again every girl i have ever dated will inflict that pain on me or her ex doesnt matter, it always happens. Is this world really this fucked up? might just be where i am living at the moment.

    Anyway i am currently in a long term relationship and guess what.. my gf has started almost daily mind fucking me playing that i have a small cock. I beleive it stemed from a few celebrity nude pics and media. Here it goes again!! shes a 5 foot asian which ads insult to injury.. is this world really this fucked i cannot escape this.

    I actually want to never date women again and live life as a monk.
    beachbay
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    Last edited by beachbay; 10-18-2013, 06:40 AM.

  • #2
    damn man its sounds like you are meeting the wrong women.

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    • #3
      I can tell you are frustrated, and I am sorry you feel like that right now. There isn't anything more emasculating than feeling inadequate downstairs.

      Size aside, where are finding all these shallow girls? Shit! You need a better circle of friends. I doubt anything I say will make you feel better, but girls really have no clue about "size". Not at all. I think you are overly sensitive, and that's understandable because I used to be too. It's laughable when you say one girl held out her arm and said some dude was that long. That shit is hilarious! The girls are just talking smack. You should have looked at her and said "he's only that long? hahaha". Roll with it, buddy.

      If you current girlfriend is seriously calling you small, you need to talk to her. Girls have WAY more insecurities than guys. Seriously have a heart to heart. I know for a fact every girl is self-conscious and worries that her tits are too small, or her butt is too big, or her hair isn't shiny, or her skin has zits, etc, etc, etc ... Once she understands she is hurting your feelings she will stop. In the unbelievably rare circumstance she continues to hurt you, on purpose, get the fuck out of that relationship. You don't want to live the rest of your life being belittled. No one does.

      One last thing ... porn is the primary source of male (and female) insecurities. If either of you are looking at porn, stop it.
      "with great EQ, comes great responsibility"

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      • #4
        I'm sure the vets on this forum will flick you in the head so ill leave the tough talking for them.

        You are a magnet for these types of broken women. So there's something broken in you. Find out what it is. Deal with it. Then comes out of the gates new and improved.

        Any female ( do not call them ladies or women) that would use these tactics on any man is an embarrassment to my gender. They are broken so deep. It's very sad and clearly nobody cared enough about them.

        Ditch the current GF. You make her sick for some reason. She should make you sick. I'm sick up in here!!!

        We attract what we are.
        islander
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        Last edited by islander; 10-18-2013, 05:08 PM.
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        • #5
          Originally posted by NCGUY1972 View Post
          damn man its sounds like you are meeting the wrong women.
          True dat! Never had any girl i was with pull this sort of stuff (that i know of) most have been very nice and I had to check to make sure they weren't just stroking my ego. I'm similar in size to you and even the more 'experienced' girls said I was big...and only one had had bigger. Where do you hang out man??
          MySword
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          Last edited by MySword; 10-18-2013, 07:27 AM.
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          • #6
            Originally posted by beachbay View Post
            I have had many past relationships and quite a few bad experiences with a women calling me small and word getting around ( i am just over 7 inches long and quite thick ) so i know its bullshit but the funny thing is either i am really cursed with bad luck or women out there are that petty.

            I have blatantly noticed almost every girl i have EVER known bring penis size and length into play every damn time ( increased insecurity of females? no real power? who knows) out clubbing, drinking or at parties you hear this stuff, you know what they say about people drinking they tend to feed out whats really on their minds. My sisters bf at the time giggling at a family dinner at hes big size, my close female friend saying how hung her last ex was, out clubbing a girl openly put her arm out and said he was this long, facebook pics of a friend going surfing with a clearly huge cock 10 comments by women, my friend with hes girl saying how he hates going bald she replying ooh hun atleast you have a big one. Mind you many times i hear this are at dinners when they are spoken in private or i overhear but the list goes on. In a relationship if you end badly the girl will 90% of the time attack your manhood ( yeah cheap shot but thats morality of women ) and if your well endowed then shel let it go.

            I dated a girl who phoned her ex moments after we had sex and she no joke stated he had a small cock and i was so much bigger. I just stood there infront of her thinking what a bitch and i felt bad for the guy funny thing was she didnt pull that when we broke up but i bet if she didnt pull it infront of me first she would of. Time and time again every girl i have ever dated will inflict that pain on me or her ex doesnt matter, it always happens. Is this world really this fucked up? might just be where i am living at the moment.

            Anyway i am currently in a long term relationship and guess what.. my gf has started almost daily mind fucking me playing that i have a small cock. I beleive it stemed from a few celebrity nude pics and media. Here it goes again!! shes a 5 foot asian which ads insult to injury.. is this world really this fucked i cannot escape this.

            I actually want to never date women again and live life as a monk.
            sounds like you all are pretty young.

            half of the time, complaints or talking like this is just her being an asshole. it comes with the type of woman you deal with...

            Where are you guys finding these women? I haven't had any major attacks on my penis before.

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            • #7
              I often think women do this because they get away with it.

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              • #8
                HONESTLY

                It sounds like you are pissing women off. Do you have something you do on a regular basis,,,,are you controlling,,,,are you sharing the fact that you may be insecure about yourself. It is usually within ourselves that we admit guilt and screw things up. You may just have to change if the same thing keeps happening over and over because you are the common factor. I'm talking in your favor, so don't feel bad, just evaluate the situation and make it better. :-)
                Dick Whammy at your Cervix!

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Dick Whammy View Post
                  HONESTLY

                  It sounds like you are pissing women off. Do you have something you do on a regular basis,,,,are you controlling,,,,are you sharing the fact that you may be insecure about yourself. It is usually within ourselves that we admit guilt and screw things up. You may just have to change if the same thing keeps happening over and over because you are the common factor. I'm talking in your favor, so don't feel bad, just evaluate the situation and make it better. :-)
                  Great point DW! There are always two sides to the story. He needs to understand his role in this and then change/improve accordingly, otherwise it will continue.
                  "with great EQ, comes great responsibility"

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                  • #10
                    Islander's observation may hold some water - You seem to attract these types.

                    7 in is good.Are you using it properly?
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by draggin View Post
                      Size aside, where are finding all these shallow girls? Shit! You need a better circle of friends. I doubt anything I say will make you feel better, but girls really have no clue about "size". Not at all.
                      Yeah this is not my circle of friends, these are people who i have shared dinner with, gone to family functions, my next door neighbor and her girlfriends speaking out loud, girls at work. I mean all that bullshit people peddle about size doesnt matter, atleast in my country, people here tend to say things how they are. brazenly.

                      My current girlfriend was what i would of thought the least likely to take that route / comes from traditional asian background. We dont fight, soon as you see some male nudity in popular series or tabloids, Boom. comparison and shaming.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Dick Whammy View Post
                        HONESTLY

                        It sounds like you are pissing women off. Do you have something you do on a regular basis,,,,are you controlling,,,,are you sharing the fact that you may be insecure about yourself. It is usually within ourselves that we admit guilt and screw things up.
                        I consider myself like any other guy, i have never abused or demeaned a girl ever. When it comes to break up it may get heated but theres a point you say yeah i never should of dated you when she counters with well you have a small cock. how is that comparable?. I mean i dont break up with a girl and attack her body image. I like to just let it be. But in my past for her to have her last word needs to hit a man right in his soul. and thats hes self image.

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                        • #13
                          The rattle snake gives you fair warning before it strikes. These women of bad character will be giving all kind of clues - learn to read them & then avoid.
                          Vulcan
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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Dick Whammy View Post
                            HONESTLY

                            It sounds like you are pissing women off. Do you have something you do on a regular basis,,,,are you controlling,,,,are you sharing the fact that you may be insecure about yourself. It is usually within ourselves that we admit guilt and screw things up. You may just have to change if the same thing keeps happening over and over because you are the common factor. I'm talking in your favor, so don't feel bad, just evaluate the situation and make it better. :-)
                            I was just reading through the thread and was going to suggest something similar.

                            Is there something that you may be doing which brings on this behavior? Are you showing insecurities with your penis? Are you inviting jealousy and insecurity into the relationship? If you are, you are just painting a target so that when things go bad they know exactly where to attack to get the biggest response. I have to agree with Dick Whammy that by your description you almost have give thought to the notion that you are the common factor
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                            • #15
                              Sorry for the bump, but I felt the need to add in my own input.

                              I've dated girls like this before. I was actually the lucky one, with the good reputation. I had about the same sized member as you (PE is helping it grow), and I was fortunate enough to be one of the very few in my small little rural town with a decent size. I personally don't think it's big enough for my height and body build, but it's not too bad.

                              Now I'm with a girl who has only ever brought it up once, when her ex was harassing the fuck out of her she told him "Just stop bothering me, you and your small dick need to just leave me alone", and then her and I proceeded to send him a picture of my own (the stuff he was saying was extremely fucked up, to the point where we had a restraining order put on him and pressed charges, or else I would have never done this). From there on she only pokes fun, like if we're watching a movie and something is mentioned about penis size, she'll wink at me and say "His will never be like yours", but that only happens once in a blue moon.

                              Society DOES focus on Penis size, and it's honestly usually the people who say "Size doesn't matter" who end up being the ones to consistently talk about why size does matter. This is not always the case, but very often you will hear the hypocrisy. What you need to realize is the penis is your best friend, and people love to bring others down, so the easiest way is by your member.

                              Another quick little tip. If you're secure about your member, and somebody calls it "small", offer to whip it out and compare it to someone else's. 99% of the time the other person will NEVER agree. I've done it many times, and have actually compared it to other people who we're trying to act "cool". Actually did it at a party where a girl kept saying how much bigger her boyfriends was than mine, so I offered to prove her wrong if he was willing to whip it out. He said yes, pulled it out, and low and behold I was two inches longer, which was pretty funny because he always tried to act tough and now he is like a puppy.

                              Moral of my rant here is, no matter what happens, keep your confidence up and to yourself. You don't need someone to tell you through words if you have a big dick.

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