Good morning!
I am wondering:
Men: What would I have to admit about my past or the past of my loved ones that would cause you to change your view about me OR consider leaving me all together after learning about it. Excluding gang bangs, being in porn, domestic abuse
Women: Knowing how we can easily ignore negatives about the men we love, what about their past would be deal breakers for you?
I know this broad but maybe you briefly talk about what you consider red flags, simply life mistakes, past that are over a certain number of years ago etc...
Examples: financial irresponsibility, no long term relationships (over 5 years), pot/drug use....
I really would like to evoke the ten year rule. If it happened ten years ago no need to bring it up. What do you think?
What is very interesting is judging people for things that you did or people in your life right now did or what they did is worse than what the new person has done. So look in the mirror. If you forgave others for things that are the same or worse why would you judge the new person so harshly?
Thank you!
I am wondering:
Men: What would I have to admit about my past or the past of my loved ones that would cause you to change your view about me OR consider leaving me all together after learning about it. Excluding gang bangs, being in porn, domestic abuse
Women: Knowing how we can easily ignore negatives about the men we love, what about their past would be deal breakers for you?
I know this broad but maybe you briefly talk about what you consider red flags, simply life mistakes, past that are over a certain number of years ago etc...
Examples: financial irresponsibility, no long term relationships (over 5 years), pot/drug use....
I really would like to evoke the ten year rule. If it happened ten years ago no need to bring it up. What do you think?
What is very interesting is judging people for things that you did or people in your life right now did or what they did is worse than what the new person has done. So look in the mirror. If you forgave others for things that are the same or worse why would you judge the new person so harshly?
Thank you!
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