So there's this woman that I've known for a few years that I was formerly in a student/staff member relationship with. She's going to try and come visit me next week. If she can visit, we are going to be having sex. She's 50 and still pretty decent looking for her age IMO. What can I expect? her age doesn't really bug me, but don't a lot of older women have dryness problems? It won't be the end of the world if some lube is needed, but it would be nice to have a "natural" experience. I am slightly disappointed that she wants to use condoms. In my opinion, risk of pregnancy is almost nil, but she says she hasn't hit menopause yet and believes she can still possibly get pregnant so wants to be safe. :-/ Any young men had sex with an older woman? What's it like? Also, this would be my first time having sex.
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Sex with older women is pretty freakin awesome. They don't have as many hangups as girls in their twenties do and the ones that like anal will more than likely let you do it. Dryness isn't a major problem either. They do get wet, but it doesn't last long. So get a $2 pillow pack of lube and use it as necessary.Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael
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Sometimes they are more delicate. They can bruise easier and don't bend as easily. Do not let this stop you, just giving a reminder so she comes back. i thrusted too hard and almost ruined a good thing.
Make her purr like a kitten.PE is a lot like sex. First you have to find your technique, rotate your routine, and then plan on it taking a while. Then you will find satisfaction.
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Hey Fellas,
Let's get a few things straight about sex with an "older woman" shall we?
1) There are plenty of women in their 40's, 50's and beyond that are more than just "decent looking", they are downright sexy and beautiful.
2) Yes, vaginal dryness can occur AFTER menopause, when a women's estrogen levels start to taper off, but dryness is not simply an age issue...plenty of women of various ages and for various reasons can suffer from vaginal dryness. Also, contrary to a popular belief, vaginal "wetness" is NOT an indication of arousal in women. Some women get very wet, others very little which is why a good lover will always have lube available whenever he/she engages in partnered sex.
3) Like TheGreatDivider already mentioned, women in their 40's and beyond are far more likely to be in tune with their sexuality and far less sexually-inhibited. In short, they tend to like sex...a lot. They know what they like in bed and are comfortable enough to ask for what they want.
As this will be your first time having sexual intercourse, I would do as Wolfemother suggested and let her take the lead, she will no doubt be a kind and considerate lover and will know how to take you both to the promised land.
"Here's to you, Mrs Robinson..."Last edited by TPW; 01-01-2014, 07:53 AM.
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Sex with older women is just like sex with younger women.
There's nothing mystical or magical... You just have to have a connection in it. That said, as mentioned, after menopause, there can be an issue with drying out or dryness, so have lube handy. Other than that, my experiences have been all very good.
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I have sex with my 68 year old wife several times a week. Just be sure to generously lube your dick because dryness can be an issue. Once lubed, it slides right in.Valued Member of 12+ years at the PEGym12/'09 (start) NBP EL - 4.5, EG - 4.4
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My list of fantasy women are all in their forties and fifties. In my opinion forties are the sexiest years.Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before
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Sex with an older woman is great except when you finish they push you into an oven and then eat you...WTF?Started: 7 x 5
Current: 8 inches x 6.25 inches (whole shaft)
Goal 8.5 x 6.5
Pics. https://www.pegym.com/forums/members...8-56-46-1.html
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My wife was 22 when we started dating and sex was good. She is 38 now and sex if amazing so i cant wait to bang her when she is 45.Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than before
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