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Hey folks, I wanted to share some insight on sexting... I just literally learned the term this week but I've been doing it since I had a phone.
I'm a writer, by trade, it's how I make a living. I don't write romance novels, although I've been told many times that I should, but I do text girls that I'm with and I want to share with you all how amazingly important/seductive/sexy/influential a small text, or a long one can be.
First, a story. Huddle around the fire kids.
When I went on a business trip for 3 days, all I could do was text, due to the limitations of long distance plans, etc. etc. and because I didn't even want to call her on the phone, primarily because I wanted her to miss my voice, my touch and my sensuality while I was gone, yes ladies, I'm evil, I know.
So, I texted her. I texted her how I missed her, and when I mean missed her, I WENT INTO FINE DETAILS ABOUT HER, usually things she is always insecure about, and how I loved them, and wished I could touch them, kiss them, etc. I'd message her that I missed her smell, her taste, and the little things that made her, her. Then , at night, I'd text her some very naughty things... well, not naughty, but sexy. About how I missed her taste, and if I was with her, what I'd do, in very explicit detail.
If you don't know how to go into detail, there are tons of literature you can use to find out, I've never really read sex stories before, I've just really used my own mind and what I really would be doing, but... I have the vocabulary as well to accentuate some things and elaborate and give details that some might not think of, so I suggest you do a bit of research and learn how to get them going.
I did this every night, during the day after the first night, she would tell me she couldn't concentrate at work, and when they say things like this, it means for god sake don't stop, to the point where she literally had to go to the washroom at work to relieve herself.
We're talking a woman that has only been with 1 other man, other than myself, shy, cute, you'd think not at all the sexual type if you looked at her, going into the bathroom at work to masturbate...... due to my texts.
When I finally came home, it was in the morning, I called, for the first time. All I did was moan into the phone and say I missed you, and I'll be waiting at your place tonight, then instantly hung up, didn't answer the phone or one text until a few hours later, after she was constantly texting me that isn't fair, you can't do this to me, etc. etc. etc.
I texted mid day that I couldn't wait to taste her in my mouth, or something along those lines, and that I missed it more than anything.
When she got home, I was cooking, and I ended up giving up half way into it. We went upstairs and kissed and cuddled for at least 30 minutes, but I wasn't counting, some petting, and then I started to go down stairs, and waited a good 15-20 minutes before I even touched her vagina with my mouth. I played with her quite a bit, maybe 15 minutes and always stopped before she was going to orgasm, asking if she missed my cock, which by far is the best term to use for your member, in my opinion.... and dirty talking about how bad she wanted me, literally to the point where on the first thrust, slowly in, she came to orgasm.
None of that could have been possible without the power of texting.
I would go to parties and just as we walked through the door, I'd have a text prepared for her, hit send and watch as her jaw slowly parted and she breathed out at what I wrote, then I would not pay attention to her for the entire night, only give her smirks and smiles from time to time.... needless to say, I'd always leave first from the parties.
When my spouse left for work, it would be the first thing I'd text, especially if we didn't fool around in the morning.
The reason why texting is so powerful, because they read it with THEIR mind. THEIR little voice. THEIR tone. You can say hot things, and be sexy and it will drive her nuts... but nothing can make a woman more aroused than herself. Her own imagination, her own tone, her own way of reading what you've said.
If you don't or haven't put this into practice, I highly recommend it. The lust for desire is the most powerful way to get into a woman's mind and let her let herself go.
I'd be interested in some other stories, so post here if you'd like. If you want examples, I can easily write something up.
I know that I always use a woman's fantasy to my advantage. And I don't do it all the time, it's a 1-2 times a week thing to keep things interesting. I had one girlfriend who really wanted to have sex in public all the time, but was very afraid to do that, so I sexted her when she'd go shopping, a scenario that if I was with her, what we'd do. If you give them something they've always wanted in a fantasy form, they will eventually open up to the experience or if they already are, want it more frequently.
The same goes for women, I've had random texts about getting a blow job in the middle of the day and want to leave work early. The power of text is a wonderful thing and I hope you all put it into practice with your cuddlies right now... at the end of reading this.... even if they are sitting in bed beside you. Use it as a tool of foreplay, see how long you both can read the text before giving in and kissing and sucking, fucking one another.... it's a lovely thing.
I'm a writer, by trade, it's how I make a living. I don't write romance novels, although I've been told many times that I should, but I do text girls that I'm with and I want to share with you all how amazingly important/seductive/sexy/influential a small text, or a long one can be.
First, a story. Huddle around the fire kids.
When I went on a business trip for 3 days, all I could do was text, due to the limitations of long distance plans, etc. etc. and because I didn't even want to call her on the phone, primarily because I wanted her to miss my voice, my touch and my sensuality while I was gone, yes ladies, I'm evil, I know.
So, I texted her. I texted her how I missed her, and when I mean missed her, I WENT INTO FINE DETAILS ABOUT HER, usually things she is always insecure about, and how I loved them, and wished I could touch them, kiss them, etc. I'd message her that I missed her smell, her taste, and the little things that made her, her. Then , at night, I'd text her some very naughty things... well, not naughty, but sexy. About how I missed her taste, and if I was with her, what I'd do, in very explicit detail.
If you don't know how to go into detail, there are tons of literature you can use to find out, I've never really read sex stories before, I've just really used my own mind and what I really would be doing, but... I have the vocabulary as well to accentuate some things and elaborate and give details that some might not think of, so I suggest you do a bit of research and learn how to get them going.
I did this every night, during the day after the first night, she would tell me she couldn't concentrate at work, and when they say things like this, it means for god sake don't stop, to the point where she literally had to go to the washroom at work to relieve herself.
We're talking a woman that has only been with 1 other man, other than myself, shy, cute, you'd think not at all the sexual type if you looked at her, going into the bathroom at work to masturbate...... due to my texts.
When I finally came home, it was in the morning, I called, for the first time. All I did was moan into the phone and say I missed you, and I'll be waiting at your place tonight, then instantly hung up, didn't answer the phone or one text until a few hours later, after she was constantly texting me that isn't fair, you can't do this to me, etc. etc. etc.
I texted mid day that I couldn't wait to taste her in my mouth, or something along those lines, and that I missed it more than anything.
When she got home, I was cooking, and I ended up giving up half way into it. We went upstairs and kissed and cuddled for at least 30 minutes, but I wasn't counting, some petting, and then I started to go down stairs, and waited a good 15-20 minutes before I even touched her vagina with my mouth. I played with her quite a bit, maybe 15 minutes and always stopped before she was going to orgasm, asking if she missed my cock, which by far is the best term to use for your member, in my opinion.... and dirty talking about how bad she wanted me, literally to the point where on the first thrust, slowly in, she came to orgasm.
None of that could have been possible without the power of texting.
I would go to parties and just as we walked through the door, I'd have a text prepared for her, hit send and watch as her jaw slowly parted and she breathed out at what I wrote, then I would not pay attention to her for the entire night, only give her smirks and smiles from time to time.... needless to say, I'd always leave first from the parties.
When my spouse left for work, it would be the first thing I'd text, especially if we didn't fool around in the morning.
The reason why texting is so powerful, because they read it with THEIR mind. THEIR little voice. THEIR tone. You can say hot things, and be sexy and it will drive her nuts... but nothing can make a woman more aroused than herself. Her own imagination, her own tone, her own way of reading what you've said.
If you don't or haven't put this into practice, I highly recommend it. The lust for desire is the most powerful way to get into a woman's mind and let her let herself go.
I'd be interested in some other stories, so post here if you'd like. If you want examples, I can easily write something up.
I know that I always use a woman's fantasy to my advantage. And I don't do it all the time, it's a 1-2 times a week thing to keep things interesting. I had one girlfriend who really wanted to have sex in public all the time, but was very afraid to do that, so I sexted her when she'd go shopping, a scenario that if I was with her, what we'd do. If you give them something they've always wanted in a fantasy form, they will eventually open up to the experience or if they already are, want it more frequently.
The same goes for women, I've had random texts about getting a blow job in the middle of the day and want to leave work early. The power of text is a wonderful thing and I hope you all put it into practice with your cuddlies right now... at the end of reading this.... even if they are sitting in bed beside you. Use it as a tool of foreplay, see how long you both can read the text before giving in and kissing and sucking, fucking one another.... it's a lovely thing.
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