Hi all, this is my first post and the main reason why I come here today is because of a serious self-conscious issue arose out of me while talking to my girlfriend.
She was talking about how she wants to do some dominating activities like tying me up and then playing with herself in front of me. She had always expressed before that she just wants me and just wants my size. But she has mentioned she wanted to use a dildo and a vibrator. I thought we were playing around the sizes of the dildos but when I really asked her what she'd prefer she said she would want an 8 inch dildo to masturbate with when she feels in the bossy mood. 8 inches?! I'm just hovering around 5 inches. This is when I started seriously doubting myself.
I did bring it up to her stating I'm feeling a little uneasy about it and what not. But she explicitly stated she just wants me and my size and only wants to use the big dildo to get me jealous during her dominant time. We finished talking about but I still felt so extremely uncomfortable and self conscious. It was the first time she told me she wants something that big. She's never had any type of relationship before this and neither have I. I have brought up penis enlargement with her before but she gets annoyed and explicitly tells me not to and that I just want you. And here she is wanting to use an 8 inch dildo but only for when shes in the dominating mood and forces me to look.
Am I overreacting at her desire of this dildo that's almost exactly 3 inches longer than I am? Is this normal to feel this uncomfortable and self conscious? We've never been in any type of relationships before. How do I maintain confidence with my size and if so what are some good girth and length increasing tips? Could I ever reach the size of an 8 inch dildo at around 5 inches?
She was talking about how she wants to do some dominating activities like tying me up and then playing with herself in front of me. She had always expressed before that she just wants me and just wants my size. But she has mentioned she wanted to use a dildo and a vibrator. I thought we were playing around the sizes of the dildos but when I really asked her what she'd prefer she said she would want an 8 inch dildo to masturbate with when she feels in the bossy mood. 8 inches?! I'm just hovering around 5 inches. This is when I started seriously doubting myself.
I did bring it up to her stating I'm feeling a little uneasy about it and what not. But she explicitly stated she just wants me and my size and only wants to use the big dildo to get me jealous during her dominant time. We finished talking about but I still felt so extremely uncomfortable and self conscious. It was the first time she told me she wants something that big. She's never had any type of relationship before this and neither have I. I have brought up penis enlargement with her before but she gets annoyed and explicitly tells me not to and that I just want you. And here she is wanting to use an 8 inch dildo but only for when shes in the dominating mood and forces me to look.
Am I overreacting at her desire of this dildo that's almost exactly 3 inches longer than I am? Is this normal to feel this uncomfortable and self conscious? We've never been in any type of relationships before. How do I maintain confidence with my size and if so what are some good girth and length increasing tips? Could I ever reach the size of an 8 inch dildo at around 5 inches?
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