telling my girlfriend i PE

[ben91 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben91]

sooner or later my girlfriend is going to find out about me doing stretches and using my bathmate (its a factor of life, they always find out). anyway, I'm just wondering what some of you guys have said to the other half when they find out.

me and my girlfriend struggle to have sex as it is without using some sort of lube so i can hardly pull off the...i just want to satisfy you or something along those lines.

any ideas?

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

"What do you think of a dick that is (your goal)?"
"Probably too huge."
"Okay well don't get too attached to me."
"um, why?"
"because I yank on my dong and use this vacuum to enlarge it."
"umm...?"
"And I'm just going to keep doing this until I'm (your goal)."
"Do you think you're small or something?"
"No. I just love a big dick."
"And I thought I was bad."

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

sooner or later my girlfriend is going to find out about me doing stretches and using my bathmate (its a factor of life, they always find out). anyway, I'm just wondering what some of you guys have said to the other half when they find out.

me and my girlfriend struggle to have sex as it is without using some sort of lube so i can hardly pull off the...i just want to satisfy you or something along those lines.

any ideas?

There are probably some questions you should consider: How serious are you with this woman? Is this a long term relationship? Do you think you will marry her? Or, is this just a fling and you really don't care if the relationship ends? What are your current size goals?

If she finds out I would be truthful. But you have to consider that if you are getting too big for her to handle, and you keep going, you are being pretty selfish. I'm in a similar situation. Part of me really wants to hit my dream goal (see my signature below), but that size would be way to big for my wife. So, right now I'm just working on reshaping and keeping my 10+ EQ. I just can't justify trying to reach that goal purely to satisfy my ego when it can cause physical pain for my wife.

[heyhey Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close heyhey]

Just tell her the truth, you wan't a big schlong.

[NCGUY1972 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close NCGUY1972]

I wouldnt worry about it unless you guys are considering living together.

[ben91 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben91]

There are probably some questions you should consider: How serious are you with this woman? Is this a long term relationship? Do you think you will marry her? Or, is this just a fling and you really don't care if the relationship ends? What are your current size goals?

If she finds out I would be truthful. But you have to consider that if you are getting too big for her to handle, and you keep going, you are being pretty selfish. I'm in a similar situation. Part of me really wants to hit my dream goal (see my signature below), but that size would be way to big for my wife. So, right now I'm just working on reshaping and keeping my 10+ EQ. I just can't justify trying to reach that goal purely to satisfy my ego when it can cause physical pain for my wife.

hopefully the "i just want a bigger dick" will work. I'm sure the bigger i can get we can work around it with positions and such, like theres guys on here that I'm sure are a lot bigger than me. I'm just getting into this PE stuff, its so addictive.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

It's better to just be honest with her. I'm sure she will appreciate that you are doing it for her satisfaction as well as for yourself. Not only that but, if she knows, she can help you with your routine.

I like to give visual stimulation to my hubby when he is jelqing and giving him either visual or physical stimulation while he is edging.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

It's better to just be honest with her. I'm sure she will appreciate that you are doing it for her satisfaction as well as for yourself. Not only that but, if she knows, she can help you with your routine.

I like to give visual stimulation to my hubby when he is jelqing and giving him either visual or physical stimulation while he is edging.

+1 I love watching my man do his routine and I love to jelq him whenever I can. I tell you that gets me to tiger status in a sec. GRRRRR!

[ben91 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben91]

+1 I love watching my man do his routine and I love to jelq him whenever I can. I tell you that gets me to tiger status in a sec. GRRRRR!

this would be the best outcome....EVER

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

If you decide to tell her focus on the fact that is for your penis health, better circulation and erection quality (EQ), don't focus so much on the size. We love the EQ but the size only view can get you cock blocked. I tell you what PEGym did for my husband's EQ is amazing and I totally love that, is my favorite gain and flaccid gain. It just looks amazing!

[Looking4more Retired Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Looking4more]

Yeah, she kinda likes it. Can you tell?

[ben91 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ben91]

Yeah, she kinda likes it. Can you tell?

No wonder she likes it, if I had your gains I'd be running down the street high fiving people.

I think the only reason I'd want a bigger flaccid length is so I could drag it round the gym changing rooms after a gym session

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

No wonder she likes it, if I had your gains I'd be running down the street high fiving people.

I think the only reason I'd want a bigger flaccid length is so I could drag it round the gym changing rooms after a gym session

It's not the gains, for the most part.

[MrsLooking4more Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2013PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrsLooking4more]

No wonder she likes it, if I had your gains I'd be running down the street high fiving people.

I think the only reason I'd want a bigger flaccid length is so I could drag it round the gym changing rooms after a gym session

The gains were a side effect for us, he came to the site due to ED and we were working on getting EQ and then consistent EQ. Needless to say MY favorite gain is his fabulous working penis, followed by his awesome flaccid. The other gains I deal with because they are there but they took away some of the more fun parts of our sexual play due to size

We have adjusted to what we can do and are happy that the ED is gone, thanks to PEGym.

[DreadMan Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DreadMan]

Ive always been open with my lady about it. Its important to be open in a relationship id rather her know then feel like im sneaking