Is she interested (in sex)?

[Picard Member Find all posts View Profile Close Picard]

Hello peeps. So I'll just cut to the chase here. I texted a girl I've known for 4-5 years to asked her if she wanted to do something this weekend (we're just friends, but we've shared a kiss a year or two ago). She said she definitely wanted, and after a while of discussing what we might do, she dropped she was home alone in the weekend.

I'm somewhat confused when it comes to female signals. I'm not sure how to deal with the situation, so any help is welcome.


Cheers!

[Joint-Expansion Senior Member Member of the Month August 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close Joint-Expansion]

Sounds like she was hinting at you coming over to her place for a little 1 on 1 time. But just be straight up and ask her, "Would you like to spend the evening at your place, and if so what can I bring over?"

[HijinkzEnsued Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HijinkzEnsued]

You can always say something along the lines of "Great, we can invite some friends over and have a pyjama party!"

See where the conversation goes after that!

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

Jeez, Give her a Call!

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You will know one way or another real fast!

[jrems Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jrems]

Home alone is never a bad thing...get after it!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Dude just get'chur ass over there! and take your dick with you!

[Replicant Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Replicant]

Dude just get'chur ass over there! and take your dick with you!

This. Dude, the dinner is served. You don't find if she wants it by "asking", you find it by going on!! If she doesn't want it you'll know she is a prudish or very shy girl. You bet.

Less taking, more doing.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

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Texting......Ahh......Technology!

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

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Texting......Ahh......Technology!

Brb, lol

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hiya Picard,

Yes, her enthusiastic "definitely" and the mention of being home alone is most certainly a suggestive hint. Now it may not be a bona fide invite for sexual intercourse but it certainly sounds like she is interested in an interlude. I would go with something like Joint Expansion recommended; ask her if she would like to maybe do takeout and a movie at her place and see what she says.

Good Luck and Have Fun!

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

Don't forget the flowers. I hear girls like flowers! Or fruit!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Don't forget the flowers. I hear girls like flowers! Or fruit!

Bananas

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Don't forget the flowers. I hear girls like flowers! Or fruit!

Yes Cusp...we gals really do enjoy receiving flowers...or fruit.

But don't worry Picard, I don't think it is a necessity for a first "date".

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

Go for Chinese and bring Chop Sticks.

1st clue to see how good her Manual Dexterity is!

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Get in there my son!