Hey Gang,
I received the following email from one of my blog readers asking for my advice. Although I have offered her suggestions, I think she would benefit greatly from a man's point of view on this rather touchy subject. I have encouraged her to join the forum and have sent her the link to this discussion. Whether she joins or simply reads what is written, I know she will appreciate your insight and honesty. Here is her dilemma in her own words...
I love my husband dearly and we have been together for over a decade and working on our second. Throughout our years we have gotten comfortable and gained weight, but after baby number 2, I became very depressed and so started working out at the gym. I lost the weight and began to feel much better about myself, however, my husband has not done anything about his weight and it is has really started to concern me. His belly hangs over his waistline. It's not all about vanity; I am worried about his health based on his age and his own parents’ health since they are also both overweight. I have tried talking with him about it but to no avail. Sadly, it is now affecting our sex life and I do not know to do. I love my husband very much and want to help him so how can I motivate him to take better care of himself?
I received the following email from one of my blog readers asking for my advice. Although I have offered her suggestions, I think she would benefit greatly from a man's point of view on this rather touchy subject. I have encouraged her to join the forum and have sent her the link to this discussion. Whether she joins or simply reads what is written, I know she will appreciate your insight and honesty. Here is her dilemma in her own words...
I love my husband dearly and we have been together for over a decade and working on our second. Throughout our years we have gotten comfortable and gained weight, but after baby number 2, I became very depressed and so started working out at the gym. I lost the weight and began to feel much better about myself, however, my husband has not done anything about his weight and it is has really started to concern me. His belly hangs over his waistline. It's not all about vanity; I am worried about his health based on his age and his own parents’ health since they are also both overweight. I have tried talking with him about it but to no avail. Sadly, it is now affecting our sex life and I do not know to do. I love my husband very much and want to help him so how can I motivate him to take better care of himself?
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