Twenty-eight in six days. Nailed a 41 year old MILF last Friday. She wants more!

[kelthuzad1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kelthuzad1986]

Well, it looks like the cash I dropped on Adult Friend Finder finally paid off. I was contacted by a swinger couple and asked if I wanted to join them during their play time. I had never been with a couple before so it was a bit awkward at first, but I had a lot of fun. It started off with just me and her. Her boyfriend was in and out of the room a few times. At one point he tried to join in by having her suck his dick while I did her doggy style. That was my second go around so I ended up becoming too soft to stay inside her so that didn't last too long. Next time he'll have to join in before I get off the first time.

She has a few extra pounds on her but isn't horribly overweight. She's reasonably attractive with nice big breasts, and of course she's had lots of experience so she was good at pleasing. They both want me to come and do her on a regular basis.

[Dontrike Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dontrike]

Congrats on all the sex.

[kelthuzad1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kelthuzad1986]

lol, thanks.

[Bigdaddy55 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigdaddy55]

Congrats. When I tried AdultFriendFinder back when I was single, I had no luck. Waste of money, and then I ended up meeting a string of freaky women, so it was all good.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Hiya Kelt,

In light of your previous experience...please tell me you are practicing safe sex.

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

This reminds me of the milf that I had a threesome with except she was 50 and I'm 23. She waa incredibly fit and had the best of the best, face, natural tits, and great ass. I'm always one to puah safe sex though. Seemed you enjoyed yourself, have fun in the future with the couple.

[kelthuzad1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kelthuzad1986]

I'm swearing off casual sex. Yup. I'm tired of it. I get horny, I have sex, it's fun while it's happening, and then each time it's done, I have to deal with the same feeling of emptiness and pointlessness. I've had sex and for now that's enough. Even if I for some reason never find that one girl right for me, it no longer has to be a mystery. From now on I only want it again if it's with someone I love.

[Qarzan Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Qarzan]

Wow. Mind sharing what happened?

[kelthuzad1986 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close kelthuzad1986]

Nothing really. Like I said, it's fun while it's happening, and then immediately after I just feel empty. No amount of sex can replace the longing for that special woman I want to meet and share my life with.

[HueGHawk Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close HueGHawk]

I can imagine the emptiness feeling like after you masturbate to porn for an hour or so. I'm sorry man but if it helps, having sex with someone you love is one of the most rewarding things there is. Don't give up you'll find someone bro.

[Bigdaddy55 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Bigdaddy55]

Then when you're in love after the honeymoon period is over you're wondering why the sex has faded. People have this romantic vision of relationships. Relationships require work after a while to keep them going. In and out of the bedroom. The longer they last the more you have to work at keeping the sex interesting. Sure you can do more things in a relationship as somethings like tying someone up or being tied up requires a certain level of trust you can't get from casual sex but you learn a lot from yourself by experimenting when you are young. I didn't get married til I was 30, but I was fine with that too. I probably enjoyed the chase more than anything and balancing multiple women.
My point is stop being unhappy. Go out, enjoy life and stop trying to force things. The more you try to force it, the less likely it will happen. You're young, enjoy it. Stop stressing over what you don't have and enjoy what you do. It will come in due time.