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I've pretty much always have been disappointed by my size. Sometimes I can go awhile without thinking about it much, but then BOOM, back to all the anxiety and obsession. I guess a lot of guys feel the same way so I'm not alone there. It's just frustrating and it really digs at your self worth when you have this belief that you won't be able to satisfy someone you love.
Now, I don't really have much experience in relationships. I guess I could say I had a girlfriend for a few weeks in high school, had a few flings in college, but nothing really noteworthy. I used to be pretty shy and everyone thought I was crazy that I was because "I'm just so good looking". I've gotten better through the years and have become more confident with socializing with people. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't a total mute and recluse when I was younger, just not really the popular guy I guess.
That being said, I guess with this penis size anxiety and lack of experience I'm really in a state of worry that I won't be able to please the woman I love. I know that sounds ridiculous and that there's many ways to please a woman other than a guy's penis, but it's really at the back of my mind...constantly.
So you all are probably wondering what my size is and if I really have any justification in all these feelings. Well, length-wise I'm not too bad. At my hardest and digging that ruler to the bone I'm about 6.5 inches (I thank at least like .7 to PE). However, it's the dreaded girth that worries me the most, I'm only like 4.2 inch girth wise. This used to not worry me. In fact, I used to be all about the length before I started doing some research online. Finding out that I'm a bit below average and that girth is important for most women...that really stings inside and kills my confidence every time I think about it.
I try to think about it logically, but the worry still comes back up. For example, the last girl I hooked up with (which was awhile ago) really enjoyed sex with me and it continued. I was also able to make her cum through PIV quickly after giving oral (definitely not faking, you can't fake the body to tremble in ecstasy like that). So yeah, that gives me hope that maybe my size isn't so inadequate?
Still, though, the insecurity is deep and most likely the culprit of my long years of depression and low self esteem. I don't really know why I'm talking about it here, online. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. Well, maybe my dad (we had discussions on it once before and he assured me it doesn't matter), but I feel i guess embarrassed to bring it up with family. So yeah, I don't know just venting and came here for some opinions. Maybe some wise experienced people here can help steer me to a better mind set.
Wow I wrote way more than I thought I would.
TDLR: Inexperienced and worried about not being able to satisfy my future love with smallish girth. Need some motivation and wise words.
I've pretty much always have been disappointed by my size. Sometimes I can go awhile without thinking about it much, but then BOOM, back to all the anxiety and obsession. I guess a lot of guys feel the same way so I'm not alone there. It's just frustrating and it really digs at your self worth when you have this belief that you won't be able to satisfy someone you love.
Now, I don't really have much experience in relationships. I guess I could say I had a girlfriend for a few weeks in high school, had a few flings in college, but nothing really noteworthy. I used to be pretty shy and everyone thought I was crazy that I was because "I'm just so good looking". I've gotten better through the years and have become more confident with socializing with people. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't a total mute and recluse when I was younger, just not really the popular guy I guess.
That being said, I guess with this penis size anxiety and lack of experience I'm really in a state of worry that I won't be able to please the woman I love. I know that sounds ridiculous and that there's many ways to please a woman other than a guy's penis, but it's really at the back of my mind...constantly.
So you all are probably wondering what my size is and if I really have any justification in all these feelings. Well, length-wise I'm not too bad. At my hardest and digging that ruler to the bone I'm about 6.5 inches (I thank at least like .7 to PE). However, it's the dreaded girth that worries me the most, I'm only like 4.2 inch girth wise. This used to not worry me. In fact, I used to be all about the length before I started doing some research online. Finding out that I'm a bit below average and that girth is important for most women...that really stings inside and kills my confidence every time I think about it.
I try to think about it logically, but the worry still comes back up. For example, the last girl I hooked up with (which was awhile ago) really enjoyed sex with me and it continued. I was also able to make her cum through PIV quickly after giving oral (definitely not faking, you can't fake the body to tremble in ecstasy like that). So yeah, that gives me hope that maybe my size isn't so inadequate?
Still, though, the insecurity is deep and most likely the culprit of my long years of depression and low self esteem. I don't really know why I'm talking about it here, online. I don't really have anyone to talk to about it. Well, maybe my dad (we had discussions on it once before and he assured me it doesn't matter), but I feel i guess embarrassed to bring it up with family. So yeah, I don't know just venting and came here for some opinions. Maybe some wise experienced people here can help steer me to a better mind set.
Wow I wrote way more than I thought I would.
TDLR: Inexperienced and worried about not being able to satisfy my future love with smallish girth. Need some motivation and wise words.
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