Won't be able to satisfy my girlfriend

[warrock9112 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close warrock9112]

Well i dont mean to be that guy but its true. My girlfriend and i just finised talking
about her past sexual encounters and she told be what she considers big and
what she considers small. shes taken 9 inches before and the last guy she slept with was at least 8.
im over here in my corner with 5.5 erect inches. I feel like ive been stripped of my manhood.
I was cheated on in my last relationship because of this same issue.
Trying to make a change , i found p.e. and recently bought myself a bathmate.
im honestly terrified because she is a bit of a size queen and i feel as though im gonna dissapoint her.
right now i feel sick to stomach and kinda down. i really like this girl but i feel insecure and down.
Any advice would be appreciated.


Thanks in advance

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Welcome warrock9112. Nice to meet you.

What guy? The guy that asked about the ex? Lots have done it, with similar result.

Okay, first, women's perceptions on size are even more skewed than us guys. True fact. Unless she whipped out a ruler and verified (highly unlikely), her guess could be way exaggerated.

But, lets say, just for the sake of the topic, that she is right (also, highly unlikely). Well, both are exes. The size alone couldn't keep her. So, what does that mean? That size isn't everything.

Have you had sex yet? If so, she's still there right?

No? So, she's still there, even without sex?

See, either way, it's obviously not as important as you think. And if it is, if she is willing to walk because of size, then let her go. Not the girl you want to try and keep. She can have her own preferences, but if it's worth leaving a relationship for, then it's really not much of a relationship. Same with the last girl.

Look, two things...very, very important. You with me...

Don't ask about past lovers. There is no good answer. Plain and simple. Leave the past in the past.

And, it's not you. I repeat, it's...not...you. Lift that chin up, PE for you, and know you are already enough. More, is just a bonus.

Make sure you read the START HERE! thread. Good info in there. Stick with the manuals for a while before going to the Bathmate. And ask anything you need to.

Good luck, and keep your head up!

[lilbigman Senior Member Member of the Month June 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close lilbigman]

You have no idea how many guys here have your exact same story. I was one of them. My girl had 9 and 10" ex's. And she could take the 9 incher balls deep. Guess what? Bullshit!! Her 9" was 7" and her 10" was around 8. Women are horrible at estimating size. How do I know this? My starting measurement was a shade under 7" and she could take all of me, but just barely. Now today at a shade under 7.5" if I go balls deep, I can feel my cock bend and she pulls away because there just simply isn't any more room for it. We also got a new dildo for her that is a true 8x6. She cannot take the whole thing, she can only take a little under 7" of it. When I asked if her ex's were bigger than that (at 9 and 10 inches they should be) she said "Oh god no! That is the biggest thing I have ever had in me" Women talk shit, and don't know shit when it comes to penis size.

Don't sweat it buddy, 5.5" is plenty enough to please a woman. There is sooooooo much more to it than penis size. Learn how to use it and your fingers and tongue and you can rock that girls world even with a 3" penis.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

You have no idea how many guys here have your exact same story. I was one of them. My girl had 9 and 10" ex's. And she could take the 9 incher balls deep. Guess what? Bullshit!! Her 9" was 7" and her 10" was around 8. Women are horrible at estimating size. How do I know this? My starting measurement was a shade under 7" and she could take all of me, but just barely. Now today at a shade under 7.5" if I go balls deep, I can feel my cock bend and she pulls away because there just simply isn't any more room for it. We also got a new dildo for her that is a true 8x6. She cannot take the whole thing, she can only take a little under 7" of it. When I asked if her ex's were bigger than that (at 9 and 10 inches they should be) she said "Oh god no! That is the biggest thing I have ever had in me" Women talk shit, and don't know shit when it comes to penis size.

Don't sweat it buddy, 5.5" is plenty enough to please a woman. There is sooooooo much more to it than penis size. Learn how to use it and your fingers and tongue and you can rock that girls world even with a 3" penis.

Yep we hear the 10 inch ex thing so regular it is boring . Aside from the just plain clueless reason some girls do it as a head game . In either case it is pointless to argue btw they will just keep insisting they are right no matter how unlikely that is. . If she is playing a head game you should reconsider the relationship.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Great example lilbigman.

Now, to be fair, guys talk and overestimate too. Problem is, when we finally measure, we have set ourselves up for disappointment on our own, just as assuredly as comments from a partner can.

Best thing I could ever suggest, is fully learning and understanding true averages and frequency, before ever picking up a ruler. Doesn't always work like that though.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

I particularly hate when I do the maths on these big ex stories I regularly get odds above 1000000 to 1 and the guy will keep argue that his girl "won the lottery " . I think lilbigmans story is far better ,it seems rare for people to believe in maths.

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome Aboard!

The guys are right, women over estimate size. I asked my wife how big she thought I was before I began PE and she was off by more than 2 inches.

The last thing you want to do is let your insecurities show through, be confident. There is way more to being a great lover than penis size, it's about the passion, making her feel desired, and the showing the attention to every part of her.

The Art of Kissing

Clitoral Stimulation

Best sex positions for a small penis?

[lilbigman Senior Member Member of the Month June 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close lilbigman]

Yep, I'm pretty sure I was one of those guys that argued with you about it when I first started Pegasus. I was convinced that it was true and no matter what you or anyone else said to me I was convinced that she knew what she was talking about, and everyone else was wrong. I also thought that my 6 7/8" x 4 3/4" penis was tiny and almost every other guy out there was bigger than me. I had to figure it out for myself. Researching not only average penis size, but average vagina size is what really caused me to open my eyes. If I was small, then how is it every single reputable study suggested that I was actually borderline big. Eventually I accepted that truth. Not only was I fine, but the chances of her being with 3 guys all within the top 5 percentile were slim to none. Once I was thinking rationally about it I realized that yes, as Pegasus says this is a classic head game by women. It takes power away from you and gives it to her. However I'm not so sure you should rush to reconsider the relationship because of it. You tend to say that often on these kind of posts Pegasus. Who hurt you buddy!? Hehehehehe. But seriously though Do the research for yourself OP and you will see the light.

[warrock9112 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close warrock9112]

Thanks for the great advice, and are there a y quick fixes you suggest? i read the ones in the book and just wanted to know about any updates.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

Quick fixes for a bigger penis? NO, but if you try it anyway, you might need an appointment with a urologist quickly! You've only got one Dick, so take care of it. Don't rush PE, that only leads to injury and setbacks!

[lilbigman Senior Member Member of the Month June 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close lilbigman]

Not sure what book you are referring to. And as far as a quick fix, there is nothing quick about penis enlargement. Start a beginner routine and see what happens. Many people make what is called newbie gains. When done right a beginner routine should get your penis working to its full potential and you may actually have an increase in size because of this. Another "easy fix" is a cock ring. Not sure how much it effects length, but I get a 1/8" increase in girth when I wear one. Just remember if you do that, never wear it for more than 20 min. at a time as it will reduce blood flow and oxygen to your penis so be careful. Always remember to err on the side of caution when you do anything with your penis. You only have 1 so don't break it.

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

Yep, I'm pretty sure I was one of those guys that argued with you about it when I first started Pegasus. I was convinced that it was true and no matter what you or anyone else said to me I was convinced that she knew what she was talking about, and everyone else was wrong. I also thought that my 6 7/8" x 4 3/4" penis was tiny and almost every other guy out there was bigger than me. I had to figure it out for myself. Researching not only average penis size, but average vagina size is what really caused me to open my eyes. If I was small, then how is it every single reputable study suggested that I was actually borderline big. Eventually I accepted that truth. Not only was I fine, but the chances of her being with 3 guys all within the top 5 percentile were slim to none. Once I was thinking rationally about it I realized that yes, as Pegasus says this is a classic head game by women. It takes power away from you and gives it to her. However I'm not so sure you should rush to reconsider the relationship because of it. You tend to say that often on these kind of posts Pegasus. Who hurt you buddy!? Hehehehehe. But seriously though Do the research for yourself OP and you will see the light.

Glad you were one of the few to see the light . If a woman is just clueless I think hey it is common and even if they insist on staying clueless when attempts at education are made, it's not such an issue .
However head game stuff is another matter and it will not be the only way she tries to knock you down .
Me when I am in a relationship ;I want someone on my side.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Along with "what weight are you" and "are you angry because you are on your period", no guy should ask his partner about her past partner's penis sizes

[Sincere_effort Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Sincere_effort]

You have no idea how many guys here have your exact same story. I was one of them. My girl had 9 and 10" ex's. And she could take the 9 incher balls deep. Guess what? Bullshit!! Her 9" was 7" and her 10" was around 8. Women are horrible at estimating size. How do I know this? My starting measurement was a shade under 7" and she could take all of me, but just barely. Now today at a shade under 7.5" if I go balls deep, I can feel my cock bend and she pulls away because there just simply isn't any more room for it. We also got a new dildo for her that is a true 8x6. She cannot take the whole thing, she can only take a little under 7" of it. When I asked if her ex's were bigger than that (at 9 and 10 inches they should be) she said "Oh god no! That is the biggest thing I have ever had in me" Women talk shit, and don't know shit when it comes to penis size.

Don't sweat it buddy, 5.5" is plenty enough to please a woman. There is sooooooo much more to it than penis size. Learn how to use it and your fingers and tongue and you can rock that girls world even with a 3" penis.

The man speaks the truth. I'm at about 7.4 bpel and a good 15 or so days out of the month I've been able to hit the cervix with most of the women I've been with. For me, my issue wasn't really size persay, it's been EQ and EC(erection consistency). With that said, I tried to insert a cylindrical(phallic in shape) ice compartment from a spill proof container into a woman who complained about my erections. It was only 6.5 in length but 6.5 also in girth. She couldn't take it, but I digress. Don't even believe your own eyes with regard to size, as your perspective is skewed due to the position from which a man has to measure as well as porn and internet. Do yourself the same favor I did. I walked around my place with a ruler, measuring common household items, to see just what's what. A bottle of old spice body wash looks like 10" Right? Nope, it's a little over 8". A bottle of furniture polish should certainly be 10" right? Nope, Exactly 9". Ok Ok, certainly a standard roll of brawny paper towels is 12" right? Nope, 11". People have a mixed up perspective on just how big 8x6 is. It's all the worse because everyone claims to have such measurements. A lot of guys do, but if you're 8.25 with a 1" fat pad, all she sees is 7.25" further muddying the waters of perceived penis size.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Nice to meet you, your girlfriend may be sweet and all but she's full of shit unless she won some big cock lottery (she did not).

Welcome to the gym.