Not necessarily looking for advice as much as I'm trying to just talk out loud here. It's the best place to talk about this for me I feel.
Preface is that my relationship with my girlfriend is actually going incredible now in comparison to my last thread. My relationship is not the issue, I have an issue.
She has a kink got getting sexual attention. She used to dress suggestive for example to get that type of attention (this was years before me coming around). She used to dance to get sexual attention, but stopped for me. Basically, she likes getting sexual attention, from anywhere. It's just a general thing she loves, is that sexual attention. Yes I know I said it a million times...
My issue, is it makes me feel extremely insecure and uncomfortable.
She said I fulfill 99% of that desire for attention. But I wonder about that 1%... I know some things that are apart of the 1% that I can actually be a part of, but it involves others still.
I'm just curious of how you guys in general would feel about this kind of thing? She wants to dress up very sexual when we go out, to get that type of attention, for example. Would you guys be OK with your significant other dressing sexual to get attention from others? Even though she won't do anything with them I guess, which would be my scenario.
It just eats me up on the inside, that she wants this intimate attention from people other than me.
Preface is that my relationship with my girlfriend is actually going incredible now in comparison to my last thread. My relationship is not the issue, I have an issue.
She has a kink got getting sexual attention. She used to dress suggestive for example to get that type of attention (this was years before me coming around). She used to dance to get sexual attention, but stopped for me. Basically, she likes getting sexual attention, from anywhere. It's just a general thing she loves, is that sexual attention. Yes I know I said it a million times...
My issue, is it makes me feel extremely insecure and uncomfortable.
She said I fulfill 99% of that desire for attention. But I wonder about that 1%... I know some things that are apart of the 1% that I can actually be a part of, but it involves others still.
I'm just curious of how you guys in general would feel about this kind of thing? She wants to dress up very sexual when we go out, to get that type of attention, for example. Would you guys be OK with your significant other dressing sexual to get attention from others? Even though she won't do anything with them I guess, which would be my scenario.
It just eats me up on the inside, that she wants this intimate attention from people other than me.
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