So last night I broke up with my girlfriend. A few months ago I posted about asking my girl to move in with me. Well, after a not so direct question, she basically said she wants to buy her own house. Which I get. She's been in a relationship and lived with 2 guys for the last 14 years. She doesn't want to be stuck living in a house thats not hers. But she brought up that I could rent my house and move in with her.
Anyway, after a few more discussions about life, she daid she really wasn't sure about having kids. I'm 38 this month and she is 36. If you don't know by now, its getting a little late. So knowing these things I told her we needed to talk. She called me and I brought up my issues. She basically confirmed I was right and we didn't want the same things, but we loved each other, got along great.
I guess what I'm most frustrated about is I told her what I wanted a long time ago. She knew what I wanted and probably knew she didn't, yet she still stayed in the relationship. Why? I guess the same reason she stayed with a guy for 10 years even after they pretty much stopped having sex after 5. I just don't get it. For me, even 2 weeks of a relationship not going well makes ne want to evaluate the situation.
Oh well. I loved her very much. She was super cool, gorgeous and sexy. But I know what I want in life, and she didn't want the same. And such is life. March 22 would have been our 1 year. What are you gonna do. Lol
Anyway, after a few more discussions about life, she daid she really wasn't sure about having kids. I'm 38 this month and she is 36. If you don't know by now, its getting a little late. So knowing these things I told her we needed to talk. She called me and I brought up my issues. She basically confirmed I was right and we didn't want the same things, but we loved each other, got along great.
I guess what I'm most frustrated about is I told her what I wanted a long time ago. She knew what I wanted and probably knew she didn't, yet she still stayed in the relationship. Why? I guess the same reason she stayed with a guy for 10 years even after they pretty much stopped having sex after 5. I just don't get it. For me, even 2 weeks of a relationship not going well makes ne want to evaluate the situation.
Oh well. I loved her very much. She was super cool, gorgeous and sexy. But I know what I want in life, and she didn't want the same. And such is life. March 22 would have been our 1 year. What are you gonna do. Lol
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