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  • I am unstoppable - reach master degree of control ejaculation

    Hi Guys,

    I just was with new blond girl,

    After 1 min I had urge to cum, then I did my trick,

    Long story short - we did hot sex for 40 min,

    She had multiple orgasem and I really enjoyed it and my penis was sensitive but still was able to control my body..


    One of the best parts was her body didn't stopped jumping without control while I am inside her

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    How I did it?

    I used to cum 1-2 min if the girl was new,

    Even if I could last longer while things become super hot I was cumming in few seconds,

    So for me its a game changer,

    What I did is quite simple,

    I contract my higher abs muscles so it press my heart every time I was close to cum - as long as I still had super sensitive penis (3-5 sec did the trick)

    I did contract those higher abs to medium to hard level but deffently not to maximum..

    Plus while I did it I tried to consentract on that feeling,

    Plus everytime I had option to concentrat on my body feeling I also did it..

    Thats what made for me the trick


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    Now that I know how to control my body + how to control the female body

    I am unstoppable

    -------------------------

    I tried this technique on different girl and also had great result,

    Its great because 100% natural, you can still continue focus on pleasure and still continue to fuck HARD as long as you want..

  • #2
    Only reason it worked is because she was blond.

    Just kidding, congrats.
    Well-endowed is a state of mind.

    Sequoia's Wood Log!
    Pre PE
    BPEL: 6.75"
    MEG: 5.125"
    Current
    BPEL: 7.75"
    MEG: 5.3"

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    • #3
      The great part of it today,

      Is that I felt the urge to cum just after 1 min after getting into bed, even before my penis was in her vagina,

      But with this thecnique I was able to perfome like a pro

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      • #4
        It sounds to me like you are describing what is called the "Valsalva Maneuver." Which is often used to slow the heart rate in people with certain types of tachycardia (fast heart rate). This drop in heart rate is what contributes to many old people passing out while on the toilet...

        Congrats on your success though! It's amazing to find something that works and keeps you in the game and feeling like a man!
        33 years old

        Current; 7.5" BPEL, 6.25" BEG, 5.75" MEG
        GOAL; 8" BPEL, 6.5-7" EG

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        • #5
          This seems a basic kegel stop to me . Members who have done any reading in the pre e forum should be well conversant with it . There are also a host of other techniques onsite .

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          • #6
            For those who want Few clarifications:

            1. The problem I had was not relate to being with an actuall girl, even when I saw porn when things become very exciting for me I was not able to control it

            2. Kegel never worked for me to reduce my urge to cum, I was always had to stop in order to do it

            3. The logic behind that solution is while I have urge to cum I have strong feeling that draw my attention to focus on that feeling too much, so I had to find other powerfull feeling to balance it, means its still remain me sensitive, but in more balanced way

            4. If I want to increase erection quality/be more aroused/cum I focus my mind on how my penis is feeling,
            If I am aroused enough I just focus on how my other parts feeling
            If I want to reduce arousal I do the thecnique describe above of contract my higher abs

            5. Focus on how other parts of my body feel can help to a certain point, but this thecnique is mure powerfull

            6. There are few free parameters how to use this thecnique,
            a. When to do it, after you feel very aroused, or before in case you are going to do a killer pumping
            b. How stong to contract your higher abs
            c. How long to contract your higher abs

            7. After you combine 6 + 4 you know what to use

            8. I know for sure that this was the one thing that helped me,
            Because I had strong urge to cum super fast, even before I penetrate the girl,
            and I just did it, and this urge was gone,
            I had this urge few times and each time it worked, and I was able to do 40 min of hot strong sex
            let me reapet it
            From 1 min man to 40 min of strong passion sex, just because of it

            9. I didn't had to many exercise to make it work, however it become better in my second time,

            10. The key thing is not just contract the abs, is to focus how does it feel

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            To be continue.. I also had few major milestones regarding controling female body.. makeing girls orgasem is someting common for me, but still there are few basic things that I am not sure about it..
            winnerByDefault
            Senior Member
            Last edited by winnerByDefault; 07-04-2016, 03:29 AM.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by SexAndTheSea View Post
              It sounds to me like you are describing what is called the "Valsalva Maneuver." Which is often used to slow the heart rate in people with certain types of tachycardia (fast heart rate). This drop in heart rate is what contributes to many old people passing out while on the toilet...

              Congrats on your success though! It's amazing to find something that works and keeps you in the game and feeling like a man!
              Yep, sound like exaclty this!

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                This seems a basic kegel stop to me . Members who have done any reading in the pre e forum should be well conversant with it . There are also a host of other techniques onsite .
                Kegel never worked for me, I gave it tons of tries, It prologed my orgasem, and made it stronger,
                But still didn't allowed me to last longer if I was excited

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                • #9
                  I found another description of what I did:

                  The pushing feeling you're describing is pressure from the valsalva maneuver (holding your breath and contracting your diaphragm). The pressure build-up presses down on the internal organs resulting in an expansion of those muscles. The process of doing this without hoding your breath is called anal-breathing (don't ask me why). You can develop this ability by starting a RK by holding your breath then, careful not to release the RK, begin to breath. You should find that you can feel RK movement as your diaphragm rises and falls. As you develop better body awareness in this area you can initiate the RK without holding your breath and making funny faces during sex.

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                  • #10
                    valsalva have 4 phase, learned it today

                    here it is:

                    The Valsalva maneuver provides a measure of sympathetic, vagal, and baroreceptor function. This maneuver has the following 4 phases:

                    Phase 1 - Transient rise in arterial pressure and an associated decrease in heart rate
                    Phase 2 - Gradual fall in blood pressure, followed by recovery (An increase in heart rate accompanies this phase [during the expiratory phase of the maneuver].)
                    Phase 3 - Brief fall in blood pressure with an accompanying increase in heart rate occurring with the cessation of straining
                    Phase 4 - Increase in blood pressure above the resting value (the "overshoot") and bradycardia


                    Phases 1 and 3 most likely reflect mechanical factors (eg, intrathoracic pressure changes), whereas phases 2 and 4 are a consequence of sympathetic, vagal, and baroreflex interactions

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by winnerByDefault View Post
                      valsalva have 4 phase, learned it today

                      here it is:

                      The Valsalva maneuver provides a measure of sympathetic, vagal, and baroreceptor function. This maneuver has the following 4 phases:

                      Phase 1 - Transient rise in arterial pressure and an associated decrease in heart rate
                      Phase 2 - Gradual fall in blood pressure, followed by recovery (An increase in heart rate accompanies this phase [during the expiratory phase of the maneuver].)
                      Phase 3 - Brief fall in blood pressure with an accompanying increase in heart rate occurring with the cessation of straining
                      Phase 4 - Increase in blood pressure above the resting value (the "overshoot") and bradycardia


                      Phases 1 and 3 most likely reflect mechanical factors (eg, intrathoracic pressure changes), whereas phases 2 and 4 are a consequence of sympathetic, vagal, and baroreflex interactions
                      Which will not stop ejaculation in and of itself.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by winnerByDefault View Post
                        For those who want Few clarifications:

                        1. The problem I had was not relate to being with an actuall girl, even when I saw porn when things become very exciting for me I was not able to control it

                        2. Kegel never worked for me to reduce my urge to cum, I was always had to stop in order to do it

                        3. The logic behind that solution is while I have urge to cum I have strong feeling that draw my attention to focus on that feeling too much, so I had to find other powerfull feeling to balance it, means its still remain me sensitive, but in more balanced way

                        4. If I want to increase erection quality/be more aroused/cum I focus my mind on how my penis is feeling,
                        If I am aroused enough I just focus on how my other parts feeling
                        If I want to reduce arousal I do the thecnique describe above of contract my higher abs

                        5. Focus on how other parts of my body feel can help to a certain point, but this thecnique is mure powerfull

                        6. There are few free parameters how to use this thecnique,
                        a. When to do it, after you feel very aroused, or before in case you are going to do a killer pumping
                        b. How stong to contract your higher abs
                        c. How long to contract your higher abs

                        7. After you combine 6 + 4 you know what to use

                        8. I know for sure that this was the one thing that helped me,
                        Because I had strong urge to cum super fast, even before I penetrate the girl,
                        and I just did it, and this urge was gone,
                        I had this urge few times and each time it worked, and I was able to do 40 min of hot strong sex
                        let me reapet it
                        From 1 min man to 40 min of strong passion sex, just because of it

                        9. I didn't had to many exercise to make it work, however it become better in my second time,

                        10. The key thing is not just contract the abs, is to focus how does it feel

                        --------

                        To be continue.. I also had few major milestones regarding controling female body.. makeing girls orgasem is someting common for me, but still there are few basic things that I am not sure about it..
                        Uh huh you are using a valsalva maneuver (and abs) to reinforce a kegel which is what actually makes it work . Pretty basic really. The fact you don't understand what is actually going on is a worry .

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                          Uh huh you are using a valsalva maneuver (and abs) to reinforce a kegel which is what actually makes it work . Pretty basic really. The fact you don't understand what is actually going on is a worry .
                          What made you think I don't understand whats going on? (you might be right, I am not here to attack..)

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                          • #14
                            A valsalva will not stop orgasm nor will an ab flex . A kegel will but requires strength . Those lacking strength reinforce the kegel by bringing in other muscles commonly legs bum and abs and by doing a valsalva . You have understood the ab and valsalva but not that it is actually the kegel that is doing the work.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Pegasus View Post
                              A valsalva will not stop orgasm nor will an ab flex . A kegel will but requires strength . Those lacking strength reinforce the kegel by bringing in other muscles commonly legs bum and abs and by doing a valsalva . You have understood the ab and valsalva but not that it is actually the kegel that is doing the work.
                              What I did is just reduce excitment and urge to cum, but it was before the orgasm process began,
                              So actually I didn't stopped orgasm, so thats why kegel was not involved..

                              Thanks for bringing that to my attention,

                              For now I want to master control my excitment level, and also few things that effect the women body as well,

                              In the future I would love to be able to do be able do dry orgasm so I might even enjoy sex more..

                              In the end I will be sex guru

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