Big gainers

[Big Al]

I truly believe genetics plays a large role in how much people gain. The other thing you have to understand, and this doesn't apply to Big Al, is that some "big gainers", may have had ED before starting. So if they claim a 2.5-3.5 inch gain, that could be because they initially couldn't even get hard enough to measure fully erect.

There is that. Some recorded gains are (at least partially) a restoration/optimization of functioning. Still, improved EQ should always be considered a part of the equation.

MANY neglect EQ because they have satisfactory sexual functioning, but if one wants to push the enlargement envelope they must keep pushing the EQ barrier further along. As your penis grows, you'll need to- at the very minimum- increase your penis' ability to supply and maintain blood flow in proportion to your increase just to maintain EQ.

[Big Al]

EQ seems to be revolve arounud pelvis floor muscles and mentally. Im a strong believer of changing your EQ just by changing your mindset.

If one is anxious then going from that to neutral, then to confident, and finally to completely unencumbered emotionally should be the goal

[Big Al]

Read the forums. I always say and will continue to say... EQ gains are the best gains. Every single woman I have ever discussed thks with agrees. Good EQ is the bomb.

Gains in size from EQ shouldn't be seen as something separate, either: Types of Gains in penis enlargement

[Undead]

It's like an hourglass from improper jelqing in the beginning. I always use the reverse ok grip with the pointer and thumb pressed against my pubic base.

That almost sounds practical... Most have the cylinder look where the base is biggest. I dont really like it like that so i do jelqs half way and few times from the base.

[Undead]

I did, and I attribute that to having very high EQ at the time and just responding well to the exercises.

Waoh thats amazing

[Undead]

If one is anxious then going from that to neutral, then to confident, and finally to completely unencumbered emotionally should be the goal

That is very hard, sometimes you need a strong sequence of events to become unencumbered emotionally wise and i speak that from experience. Its very possible its all about your drive. Never lose sight of that.

[Big Al]

Waoh thats amazing

Thanks, but my overall gains pale in comparison to some others'. That being said, some have goals of getting extraordinarily huge. I stopped enlargement training due to being satisfied with my progress.

[Undead]

I hear you, P.E is in someway addicting and sometimes we just get absorbed into it. Its great tho.

[Big Al]

That is very hard, sometimes you need a strong sequence of events to become unencumbered emotionally wise and i speak that from experience. Its very possible its all about your drive. Never lose sight of that.

IMO, a good deal of it is voluntary- with some conditioning and influence thrown in. You have to ask yourself if what you're concerned over is worth concerning yourself over- especially if said concern is the very thing limiting your experience. Few experiences are as profound as sexual contact without negative emotional encumbrances. This definitely includes "worry" over performance- which (in an extreme state) is where performance anxiety comes from.

[Undead]

IMO, a good deal of it is voluntary- with some conditioning and influence thrown in. You have to ask yourself if what you're concerned over is worth concerning yourself over- especially if said concern is the very thing limiting your experience. Few experiences are as profound as sexual contact without negative emotional encumbrances. This definitely includes "worry" over performance- which (in an extreme state) is where performance anxiety comes from. .

Its all voluntary even tho we dont mean to or even think about it. Like you said tho, you can be influence by others but only if you voluntarily(thanks spelling check) let yourself.

Regarding sexual performance, that topic is extremely complex and is the base of our instinctive behavior. One thing is having the feeling that your sexually satisfying your partner another thing is "actually" having your partner "fully" satisfy. Thats where P.E comes in. Thats why we are all here. Our instincts tell us we need to whether we truly need or not that is a complete different debate.