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    I was scared. Honest to god, scared to death. I was nervous. It's okay, I was young, I watched too much porn, and I had a body image problem. I was scared to death what women thought of my penis size.

    So scared that I didn't want any woman to see my unit until I reached the legendary 8x6. I look back at those years and I ask myself, "Where'd You Go?" Where did those years go and why? I am turning 27 this year and to think I wasted, yeah, wasted, so much time infatuated with my penis size is upsetting; unnerving; it's annoying. However, I turn those emotions into fuel for my motivational fire. Sometimes, all you need is a spark and that fire is set for the rest of your life. I have successfully got over my penis size problem and I am here to tell you, it is not as important as you think.

    I wanted a larger penis. I said to myself "I am doing it for me." Well, I didn't know at the time but I was lying to myself. I was so caught up in the idea that I wasn't "huge" (whatever the hell that really means) that I didn't want to have sex until the perceived "huge" metrics (8x6) were met. Well, I have been with five different chicks in the last 8 months and I can tell you they all thought I was "big" or "really big" or "are you kidding me, you want it bigger?!"

    Yeah, I talked about it to all of them. I was confident to talk about it. I was pleasing them and it was apparent by how much they would come, multiple times, and wanting me to see them more and more. This is experience was a huge success. I am telling you, if you are near my size 7x5 then you will make the vast majority of women happy sexually. All of them said my size is "perfect." Right, I thought, perfect. Giving me a damn hallmark answer. But, after experiencing it, I think it is true. They are happy with me as a person; I make them come; they can give me head (and every one of them scrape teeth a bit); I have bottomed out in all of them and had to juxtapose their cervix; and I can go "balls deep" which most women love!

    I sent photos to each one of them at some point because we were in the moment of sexting; also, I know that a women won't be able to keep a secret from everyone (hey, guys can't either). Well, FOUR OF THEM showed the photos to their friends and the response was almost unanimous that they have never had one that big. So, four different girls age 21-25 showed 3-4 of their friends and all of them thought it was huge! Again, I am 7x5 (5.4 at the base) guys. If you are near that, you are reaching huge category for most women. Out of all of them, one was really sexually active. She gets a new toy every few weeks. She has had sex with 4-5 guys in the last two months and even she thought it was huge. I sent each girl I was dating two different photos. One is my erect penis next to a shaving can (orientation from above) and the other is me laying down on the bed (orientation from the side). So, AT LEAST 13 women saw my penis up close or from photos and all of them thought I was huge. Furthermore, of the five women I had sex with, all of them required some easing into. I could hurt all of them and all of them talked about the pain, ("It was a good pain)."

    Am I the biggest she has ever had. Maybe, maybe not. Will I encounter a woman that has had bigger, probably. Do I care anymore, HELL NO! She is no longer with that long-dicked god that you think she dated. She generally will talk about her ex in terms of "that a-hole," "d-bag," or some variation of jerk. If he was so good, why isn't she still with him? Get this out of your mind. Even really sexually active women will get off. Do the right thing; I am sure a woman is out there just waiting to meet you!

    I know, you are saying, "Why are you here now?" Well, I won't be logging in here often. I have an amazing life to live and goals to reach. If you are stuck in a rut you should google the book, "Yes Man" by Danny Wallace. Great Book! But, I am here because PE exercises are amazing for EQ and kegels help prevent prostate cancer. So, I am here for health related reasons. I haven't been getting those rock hard erections that I got when I was doing PE. My erections are still high quality, but I want the best EQ I can get. Luckily, that is the first noticeable response from PE. If I gain any length or girth, fine, but maybe we PE'ers should focus on the health benefits instead of reaching a desired goal.

    If you are single and you have been waiting until you get your desired length, girth, or both, then I am here to say get your butt off the chair and enjoy the world. If you have netflix watch "Craiglist Joe." Awesome story about a guy who traveled around the USA not spending a penny and only untilized Craigslist for food, shelter, and travel. Great story about friendliness and adventure.

    There are a lot of single ladies that would love to meet you. I didn't really think that until I experienced it. Women want a confident guy. They want a guy that has goals. If you don't have life goals then you need to work on that before you worry about whether you are "huge" in her eyes.

    I am not saying to stop PE; All I am saying is don't put your life on hold while you are trying to improve your package. Life is short; don't waste another minute thinking a woman won't adore you. If she does want a monster cock, then there are 3.5 billion other women on this planet and they are not all looking for the same thing; that, is a virtual guarantee

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    And all the science supports what you are saying. It's just very rare to find women who are honest about it. I think it has to do with the fact that you aren't massive. That's more likely to trigger the "knock him down a peg" response.

    Also, women are freaking weird when it comes to thinking what is huge or attractive and what isn't. They actually change what they think based on what other women think. I'm 99% sure that if you broke up in a rather bad way that she would say you had a tiny dick and show the pics to her friends and they would truly believe it was small and that their BF's with 6x4.5 had bigger ones. Now she shows and says it's huge and they all think it's huge. It's confusing so using SCIENCE! Is the way. You are bigger then like 80% of men statistically speaking so I'd say that's pretty big. Almost 1 SD above mean for girth, nearly 2 SD above mean for length. If you were under SD by the same amount you would be complaining that your penis is tiny and useless.
    Start: 6.5" BPEL/4.8" MSEG
    30 Aug 2012: 6.7" BPEL/4.9" MSEG
    20 Nov 2012: 7.0" BPEL/4.84" MSEG
    30 Jan 2013: 7.3" BPEL/4.84" MSEG

    09 Nov 2014: 7.1" BPEL/4.9" MSEG (1.5 years+ no PE, girth from recent pumping)

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    • #3
      Really down to earth post . 7 x 5.5 is my goal which is similar to what you have, can I ask how much you gained? Also would you say the combo of length and girth enabled the girls to orgasm, if you had to put is percentage wise? Thanks and great post!
      Initial Size 08/09/12 - BPEL: 5.12" , EG: 5"
      08/10/12 - BPEL:5.5" (.38"+) ,EG:5.12" (.12"+)
      08/11/12 - No Gains
      08/12/12 - BPEL:5.75" (.25"+) ,EG:5.25" (.125"+)

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      • #4
        Great post mate. To be honest, I am 7x5.2 (bpel) on a good day but I feel average, despite my height (5'7'). I won't be satisfied until I reach at least 8x5.5. Of course, this doen't mean I am not "enjoying the world" and until today I have been with 6 girls, all of them being happy with my size and me being able to make them cum; even when I was 5.9x4.9.

        Anyways, it is in our nature, we always want more. I am sure when I reach my goal, I will set another one. Until the next one.
        July 2010: 5.9 x 4.9
        January 2013: 6.7 x 5.1
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        Goal for 2013: 7.5 x 5.5
        Long-term Goal: 8.0 x 6.0

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        • #5
          Originally posted by CompensatingForMuscleMass View Post
          And all the science supports what you are saying. It's just very rare to find women who are honest about it. I think it has to do with the fact that you aren't massive. That's more likely to trigger the "knock him down a peg" response.

          I'm 99% sure that if you broke up in a rather bad way that she would say you had a tiny dick and show the pics to her friends and they would truly believe it was small and that their BF's with 6x4.5 had bigger ones. Now she shows and says it's huge and they all think it's huge.
          My only comment is that whether they say I am small after the fact or not doesn't not matter. I made them come, every time we had sex. What they say after that doesn't mean crap. They were clearly satisfied with my size...or at least the confidence I had. We know women respond well to a confident guy. Maybe I could have had a 6x4.5 and she would have gone craze too. I don't know; I don't care.

          The only thing I care about is 5 out 5 women would come every time we had sex. I love the feeling when she has had 3 orgasms and she tells me how great her body feels. Mission accomplished. She felt great and that makes me smile like this
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          • #6
            Originally posted by Jay12345 View Post
            Really down to earth post . 7 x 5.5 is my goal which is similar to what you have, can I ask how much you gained? Also would you say the combo of length and girth enabled the girls to orgasm, if you had to put is percentage wise? Thanks and great post!
            Years ago I was a little over 6 inches. Around age 24 I checked and I was about 6.5 inches. Not sure how really (measurement error?). Did a pretty rigorous routine in the summer of 2011 until the beginning of 2012 and I am at 180mm now (a little over 7 inches). Didn't measure girth.

            From my experience, I don't know if it is girth or length. My girth just after my glans (where the shaft begins) is 4.4 inches and my base girth is an entire inch larger. So, the further I go into her the bigger the girth and the more length (obviously). I can't so for sure, but I think it is the girth. When the woman has been on top and I fully enter her the look of her face and shake of her body is the most wonderful thing I have experienced. They all say that they can't move and I can feel how tight they are getting around my base. Their vaginal walls start to grip and pulsate and they are in so much pleasure it is amazing. I love it; they love it. We both win

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            • #7
              Originally posted by ByggD View Post
              ...
              Yeah, I talked about it to all of them. I was confident to talk about it. I was pleasing them and it was apparent by how much they would come, multiple times, and wanting me to see them more and more. This is experience was a huge success. I am telling you, if you are near my size 7x5 then you will make the vast majority of women happy sexually. All of them said my size is "perfect." Right, I thought, perfect. Giving me a damn hallmark answer. But, after experiencing it, I think it is true. They are happy with me as a person; I make them come; they can give me head (and every one of them scrape teeth a bit); I have bottomed out in all of them and had to juxtapose their cervix; and I can go "balls deep" which most women love!
              ...
              Thank you for posting.
              I'm at about 8.0 x 5.5 atm. I still want to get bigger, however I don't want to get too big. I don't want to hurt my partner(s).
              I appreciate the comments.
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              • #8
                Maybe not to you, but many guys are scarred because of a such a comment. Some of them well above average. It's also easier to make such a comment when you KNOW you are big (most guys are totally uninformed about what is average) when it probably would've crushed you to hear such a thing while uninformed regardless of how much she liked the sex. She can always say her new BF is bigger and better. And that is what screws up most guys. Not that they can't pleasure their girl, but that another guy can do it better.
                Start: 6.5" BPEL/4.8" MSEG
                30 Aug 2012: 6.7" BPEL/4.9" MSEG
                20 Nov 2012: 7.0" BPEL/4.84" MSEG
                30 Jan 2013: 7.3" BPEL/4.84" MSEG

                09 Nov 2014: 7.1" BPEL/4.9" MSEG (1.5 years+ no PE, girth from recent pumping)

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by CompensatingForMuscleMass View Post
                  Maybe not to you, but many guys are scarred because of a such a comment. Some of them well above average. It's also easier to make such a comment when you KNOW you are big (most guys are totally uninformed about what is average) when it probably would've crushed you to hear such a thing while uninformed regardless of how much she liked the sex. She can always say her new BF is bigger and better. And that is what screws up most guys. Not that they can't pleasure their girl, but that another guy can do it better.
                  I understand what you are saying and where you are coming from. But, it's not that bad. I had one of my ex's talk about how great her new boyfriend is and talked about money. I dont' have a lot of money. Don't want it; don't care. He can be him, I will be me. You see, there is always some taller, someone with better abs, who is smarter, who has more money. I am happy for those people. If that is what they want then that is great!

                  I looked back on the conversation we had and she was trying to make me jealous. Why was she talking to me like that at all? Because, deep down, perhaps nonconsciously, she still cared for me and she had to try to put me down and try to make me jealous. Unfortunately for her, I am a research technician at a neuroscience laboratory. My degree is in psychology. I got my degree because I wanted a degree. I am who I am and I love it.

                  So, my response to those guys who feel like they would get made fun of is, "Who gives a flying F***." Even the hottest chick in the world burps, shits, and wipes her ass. Stop caring. It isn't important. I remember how nervous I was in high school to ask a girl to the prom. Does anyone remember that now? Friends change, environments change, people change. I don't let the past haunt me and I am certainly not going to let an ex girlfriend get in my head. I did that enough myself. This life is too short for me to waste on some other persons perceptions of me.

                  The other thing is, there are 3.5 billion women on this planet. In my direct vicinity there are 250,000 people in this town. I walk downtown and every day I see flocks of people I have never seen before. If one situation goes bad, I turn the block and there is another attractive woman that I can talk to and each interaction is unlikely to be the exact same. I can't control the stimuli in my environment, only the way I perceive said stimuli.

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                  • #10
                    Well said, ByggD!
                    Start: 12/23/12
                    BPEL: 6.75, MEG 5.25
                    FL: 4, FG 4.187

                    Current: 05/21/13
                    BPEL: 7.25, NBPEL 6.5, MEG 5.25

                    Goal:
                    BPEL 8.75, NPBEL 8, MEG 6.25
                    FL: 6.5, FG 5.25

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                    • #11
                      Well ByggD, looks like you grew in more ways than one. I hope other guys read this and feel inspired to take on your attitude.

                      The thing that gets to me is when people say "You know you're big when you're above stats average." To me, that's no different than saying "I won't be satisfied until I'm 8x6." They both come from the same limiting belief: That you feel small.
                      Would a guy who loves himself and is fully confident in himself ever "feel" small? Not in my eyes. If you're feeling small, then the problem is likely the way you view yourself on some level.

                      Do what ByggD said: Go out and live
                      "Know the rules well, so that you may properly break them" - The Dalai Lama
                      Do not criticize the seed for not yet being a tree.
                      Character is destiny - Sigmund Freud
                      As long as I have breath in my lungs, I will make this happen

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                      • #12
                        Great write up dude!

                        At this point, after bouncing around and reading various forums, I am here to be more of a "shower" as they say. Mostly out of sheer curiosity than anything. Can you really grow it bigger? Since you told from day one. You'll get what you get and be grateful you got that much!

                        But what you said about health benifits. That alone is worth. I go love going on about the EQ. EQ! holy cow EQ! Feel like I'm a teenager again down there.

                        Confidence booster. Helps prevent prostate cancer? Really? That is definitely good to know. Where did you read that BTW? That should another ready reference for this site.

                        I don't know about you. My energy level has gone through the roof. I think PE actually causes your body to boost your testosterone level.

                        Again, nice write up!
                        Start: 9/2012 6.5x4.5
                        Progress: 8/3/2016 7.375x5.1
                        Goal: 7/16/2015 7.75x5.5


                        LND

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                        • #13
                          ByggD,
                          great story.
                          Can you post the photo you showed the ladies? Or do you know your NBPEL?
                          FL: 10"

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Raffa View Post
                            ByggD,
                            great story.
                            Can you post the photo you showed the ladies? Or do you know your NBPEL?
                            Thanks, these are the kind of stories that I needed when I was 21 years old. I was so obsessed with getting a bigger cock that I put my sex life on hold until I reached my goals; because my career got in the way I have never reached those lofty goals. Maybe this thread won't help a single person, then again, maybe this thread will help many people get over their penis size. Is penis size important, sure. But penis size is not likely going to be the deal breaker. It's time we as men get over our penis size problem. It's 2013 and women want more than a guy with a big dick. Read that last sentence again; now imagine if I said that "[heterosexual] women want a man." Because they do; they want a man first. Let's start acting like one.

                            As for the photos, if I can figure out how to get them off of my phone I will post them. I have never tried getting photos transferred to my cpu before.

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                            • #15
                              I think that worked...we'll see in a moment I guess. Also, I must have deleted the photo of LittleD next to my shaving can. Damn, that is disappointing. Oh well, I can always take another one.

                              edit: you can reduce the size of the screen to the size of your cell phone and you will get the same type of visual as the chicks would see. That would be far more accurate if you are trying to compare what the women would see.

                              P.S. for those of you who are interested in getting women's reactions by cell phone photos. DON'T JUST RANDOMLY SEND THEM. I would be texting them and told them how turned on they make me and then I would say, "Do you want to see it?" Unanimously they said yes. In short, don't send a dick pick without asking them. This should be common sense...but I felt the disclaimer was needed.

                              photos placed in a zip file.
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