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  • One year no porn !

    Pulled this off my morning posting in the ED thread, but it really is a SUCCESS !

    FEB 1ST 2014 ONE YEAR CLEAN FROM PORN I made it ! One full year not going to sites or looking at pics and video jerking to porn. There it is it can be done. I feel better in many ways, I have been getting wood here and there (still looking for more). I now have control of this and have shown myself I can do this towards anything when required. Now if you don't mind Ill be getting back to stretching my Member ! TAAB

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    Congratulations on a job well done!!!!
    A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_it

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    • #3
      Well done! It's great to hear you've had some improvement.
      “Spirituality is not to be learned by flight from the world. We must learn an inner solitude wherever or with whomsoever we may be. We must learn to penetrate things and find God there.” - Eckhart


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      • #4
        Congrats!

        That's a great accomplishment. I'd say you are stronger than 95% of men out there. Awesome. Bet your gf/wife is pround and turned on! Or if you don't have a girl, go find one! No porn and no woman - that's just cruel.
        "with great EQ, comes great responsibility"

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        • #5
          Im curious did you have porn ED to cause you to do this? Im asking because I believe I do have it and want to know if this really works. If so how long did it take to start having a better sex life without porn being involved?
          Start 01/01/2014 - 03/01/2014
          BPEL - 7"
          MSEG - 5.8"

          02/01/2016 BPEL - 7.25"
          MSEG - 6"

          Current BPEL- 7.5
          MSEG - 5.8"

          Short Goal BPEL 8
          MSEG 6.25

          Long Goal BPEL - 9"
          MSEG - 6.5"

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          • #6
            Does it really work??? Go to yourbrainonporn.com, that site really helped me. I'm 3/12 months in, and yeah it really works.

            So, in 8/12 months I'll be joining you! Oh, and congratulations!!!

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            • #7
              Wow that is impressive, very well done my friend
              PEGym Theme Song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RH76tfDxm7Y

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              • #8
                Originally posted by lamasbla View Post
                Im curious did you have porn ED to cause you to do this? Im asking because I believe I do have it and want to know if this really works. If so how long did it take to start having a better sex life without porn being involved?
                Yes.

                Yes, porn did cause ED. I also had DE from jerkin too much. My penis was pathetic. It was bad. And for years too. The wife hated it, and so did I. I changed my life ... I quit porn, replaced jerkin with mostly girth work, regenerated my foreskin, and have sex frequently. For me those were the steps I that restored my EQ and got rid of my ED and DE. And of all these factors, my money is on porn as the major cause of ED for me.

                Anyway, to answer your question, I noticed my penis getting healthier after 3 months. It took me time to condition my dick, which made it stronger and harder. Also, for me, my penis needed to get it's sensitivity back. That took time too. Plus your mind needs time to learn new "normal" pathways, like seeing things that porn took away from you, things like noticing how sexy an average woman walking down the street actually is.

                Without porn in your life you will be more successful, happy, and productive. But then again, I don't have to tell you ... you will find out for yourself!
                "with great EQ, comes great responsibility"

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                • #9
                  Thanks Guys . I hope my ED Log Soft on's and then this........... Will help others.
                  I'm not rock hard like I once was when I was a teen, but am getting the mid sleep wood now and then. I'm sure with more time Ill be that rock hard I am after sometime down the road. TAAB

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                  • #10
                    I personally have never watched porn. I have many other vices though so I know how hard it can be to make a positive change from a old comfortable habit. I have also seen up close and personal how difficult it can be to battle a porn addiction. Reaching a year is a real mile stone, you are officially a new person!!! You've accomplished something big!!! Congrats dude
                    Draggin Trainer

                    Tikkun Olam

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                    • #11
                      Hey thank you so much.Ive never heard the term DE but I have a feeling it refers to desensitation of the penis?

                      Now to explain some things about My porn ED which is destroying my life.I dont know why its so hard to quit with how much porn is ruining my life it should be the simplest choice that Ive ever made.Im just going to vent my issues here maybe that will help me.A conservitive guess would be I havent masterbated with out some form of pornography for at least 8 or 9 years due to it being so accesible. I would be at work bored and get the urge to go and masterbate in a stall everyday sometime 2 or 3 times in one 8 hour shift. My girlfriend works 7am to 7pm on the weekends and I would find myself missing out on getting tasks accomplished and being on time to important events because I would feel the need to masterbate 3-5 times on the days noone was home. MAking things worse I would edge for a minimum of 30 min sometimes as long as 3 hours before having an orgasm. Before I had known I had porn ED I just assumed I was 16 with a broken dick. Now 10 years later Im 26 and this has escalated out of control. my poor sex life causes me to have low self esteem in relationships, which in return causes me to have trust issues due to low self confidence "the thought of if I cant satisfy her maybe she will go get it elsewere even though I know thats not the case". I remember being young and able to rub one out to a picture of an underwear ad lol. Now if its not something totally crazy like a gangbang video or something I cant even get arroused. Im 195 @12% bodyfat so woman look at me when they see me and expect that Im gonna take them home and fuck there brains out till they pass out from non-stop orgasms, but in all actuality I can hardly get a boner strong enough to finish the job. I have always had to have sex doggy style because it seems like the best positions to have sex with weak erections.

                      I just want to be able to strip my womans cloths off and get a rock hard erection just because of the thought of how much Im turning my gf on. I want to be able to lay on my back and just watch my beutiful gf ride my dick like any "normal" guy can.I have a pretty good size dick (7x6) but whats the point? I would rather have a penis half the size then I have now as long as I knew I could have a normal sex life.

                      So from what I caught in your reply is that you gave up porn and masterbation completley during your reboot but you did allow yourself to have sex with woman? Im just wondering because I would go crazy thinking that my gf would leave me If I didnt have sex with her for a year.

                      Thank you so much for listening to my sob story lol. But I think that some of your constructive criticism may help me make the commitment to change.
                      lamasbla
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                      Last edited by lamasbla; 02-02-2014, 04:46 AM.
                      Start 01/01/2014 - 03/01/2014
                      BPEL - 7"
                      MSEG - 5.8"

                      02/01/2016 BPEL - 7.25"
                      MSEG - 6"

                      Current BPEL- 7.5
                      MSEG - 5.8"

                      Short Goal BPEL 8
                      MSEG 6.25

                      Long Goal BPEL - 9"
                      MSEG - 6.5"

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                      • #12
                        Really happy that you have been 1 year without porn!

                        I'm personally almost done with 3 week of No porn but having hardest time to not look at google images porn searches

                        I'm not anymore dependant on porn.

                        1 year in an accomplisment since it is a really long time.

                        I was thinking maybe you could greate a guide or give some tips on how to be without porn for so long?
                        Start: 8/2013: BPEL: 6.3" EG: 5.1"
                        Current: 9/2020 BPEL: (8.3 inches BPFSL: 8.9 "* MEG: 5.9
                        The Goal: BPEL: 9 inches EG: 6.5"

                        My journal: PurpleOnes Journal

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                        • #13
                          To clear something up for "lamasbla" and everyone else. In the year I did 107 days of the no touch , no masturbation that started in July 2013. So along the way in the year I did get together with my GF, but not in the 107 day stretch. Life, work and her kids just gets in the way sometimes.
                          Also as far as a guide or constructive criticism "lasmasbla", its all there in my thread. Just stay away from the sites, and spend that time here on the forum reading and stretching your member. I still crave porn some days, but then I just start building my dick instead. TAAB

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by TAAB View Post
                            To clear something up for "lamasbla" and everyone else. In the year I did 107 days of the no touch , no masturbation that started in July 2013. So along the way in the year I did get together with my GF, but not in the 107 day stretch. Life, work and her kids just gets in the way sometimes.
                            Also as far as a guide or constructive criticism "lasmasbla", its all there in my thread. Just stay away from the sites, and spend that time here on the forum reading and stretching your member. I still crave porn some days, but then I just start building my dick instead. TAAB
                            I have deleted all the porn I had from my computer and all the pictures. I also installed addon that blocks the porn websites and if I try to relapese and search for a certain porn site the addon redirects me back to pegym

                            I usually watched porn when I had a moment alone due to lack of privacy but now I try to read as much as I can on PE and bodybuilding
                            Start: 8/2013: BPEL: 6.3" EG: 5.1"
                            Current: 9/2020 BPEL: (8.3 inches BPFSL: 8.9 "* MEG: 5.9
                            The Goal: BPEL: 9 inches EG: 6.5"

                            My journal: PurpleOnes Journal

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by TAAB View Post
                              Pulled this off my morning posting in the ED thread, but it really is a SUCCESS !

                              FEB 1ST 2014 ONE YEAR CLEAN FROM PORN I made it ! One full year not going to sites or looking at pics and video jerking to porn. There it is it can be done. I feel better in many ways, I have been getting wood here and there (still looking for more). I now have control of this and have shown myself I can do this towards anything when required. Now if you don't mind Ill be getting back to stretching my Member ! TAAB
                              Congratulations on this achievement!
                              ​Mrs. L4M
                              BDSM Safe, Sane & Consensual
                              Hubby's Routine

                              BPEL 6.5 +1.5 ~>8.0 02/2013
                              MEG. 4.7 +1.3 ~>6.0 03/2013

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