First time gave a girl orgasems from sex..

[winnerByDefault Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close winnerByDefault]

Its about time to publish my first success story..

I am going to focus this thread not about size but about stamina..

I started kegeling & start and stop in june this year.. I was able to hit the plateau,

However meeting with new girl, that is hot, was hard to me not to cum fast..

Especailly if she become wet or excited.. I usually finished 10 seconds after things become really hot for me, but for the girls it was just the start..

So I sometimes could last 5-10 min, but again when the real game started I couldn't handle it..

I got better errection from kegel but in the bed I didn't felt it really helped me..

My temporary solution was to musterbrate 2-3 times before the sex.. yea 1 time didn't really helped.. also I ordered online priligy.. a pile that should help with that..

The temp solution has it down sides, like I felt less passion in sex & less errection quality..
But it worked I could last much longer in bed.. sometimes I couldn't finish, sometimes I had issue to bring it up..

Then 3 weeks ago I decided to try BigAl service.. mostly for increase size..

He gave me detailed plan that was both for lenght and girth but also for stamina and EQ..

Apparently I was doing kegel and start and stop wrong!

For kegel I did it not erect.. and start & stop I did it while watching porn..

I followed this two suggestion.. and it was crazy.. after 1 week I started last much longer

Even after the girl become wet, not matter how crazy the sex become I suddenly was able to last it..

Thats was a changing point for me.. which I can 100% attribute it to BigAl

Then I started watching porn in different eyes, trying to look on the girls reactions, try to understand when they really feel pleasure and when then feel uncomftable pressure..

and I tried it on my girl...

AND..

BOOM orgasem.. the crazy thing I was able to last the orgasem, her body was jumping.. getting out of control..

And I was able to continue fuck her! orgasem from sex, I didn't got down her and something like that.. it never happend to me.. I wasn't able to get the girls wet everytime.. now I can get them wet few times in sex.. (I was able to get the girls, but in sex I was missing something..)

The great thing is that now I got priligy in the mail, but I didn't went to take it because I don't need that poision anymore.. (I never used it.. and probably will never..)

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I am also working on my gains.. I think I have small ones (only 3 weeks doing the new routine..), but not sure.. I need to find old picture and to compare with new one..

I hope soon to upload new success story with my gains... but to be honest I am still not there..

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The moral of the story is that:

In practical level:
1. Kegel while erect is much more effective
2. Start stop don't use porn, focus on feeling instead

I want to say big Thank to Big Al, without his advices & support I would still spinning in circles working on stamina with minor success..

I learned in life sometime you find great source of knowledge, when you do, you need to make sure you need to suck as much as knowledge as you can.. this is the real case of bigAl,
I feel that I need to learn from him as much as I can..

Best to you all

[mulkey Banned Find all posts View Profile Close mulkey]

Nice!!!

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

[winnerByDefault Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close winnerByDefault]

I was able to reproduce it to another girl,

Althought the orgazem was weaker I felt few times her pussy squessing my dick quite hard and her body streached..

Also she kept telling me my dick is big.. she said "such a big dick for small man"..

I am keep working on PE with bigAl, I was probably too much masturbate which delayed my PE progress,

I will try to reduce it to minimum and see how it goes.. Current abit less than 6.9 BEPL x 5.5 MSEG..

I am getting frequent reaction that my size is big, although the golden size here in the forum is around 8 x 6, I think being 8 x 6 is huge but not too huge so I am working to get there..

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I will try to reduce it to minimum and see how it goes.. Current abit less than 6.9 BEPL x 5.5 MSEG..

I am getting frequent reaction that my size is big, although the golden size here in the forum is around 8 x 6, I think being 8 x 6 is huge but not too huge so I am working to get there..

What's your non-bone pressed length?

[mistercrowley Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mistercrowley]

Congratulations! That's excellent news! Your next goal, getting a girl to squirt. Only happened to me a couple times but it's a religious experience.

[mikecares Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close mikecares]

I find the easiest way to make a girl cum is talking to her...dirty yet sensual. This is by far the best technique in making a girl cum then just pounding hard and fast. Fucking her mind instead of her physical vagina. Find out what really makes your girl go crazy and start talking to her about it. This friday I took it the whole next level and made her cum through P in V 3 times in a row without much rest in between for her. All from going at a moderate speed from penetration and really talking dirty to her and telling her what makes me want her and what makes her so hot. Its quite amazing!

[winnerByDefault Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close winnerByDefault]

@mikecares, yea!

It sit well with my view as well, I also felt that sometimes just fuck hard its like full gas in neutral..

Before she is wet, fuck hard with the dick will not do the trick..

What I found is strong thouch with hand on her ass or back make the pussy very wet,

It worked to me many times after many things didn't worked so I knows it has strong correlation..

I think its because it make them more relaxed, focusing on the moments.. remove her mental barriers.. so she can enjoy and lose control..

Two weeks ago, I made abused that and the girl become too wet, so I couldn't felt her pussy anymore, I felt like I am fucking a pool of water which is not nice..

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Actually its combination of: ("Single strategy never works"..)
1. Push/ drop them to the bed with mild power (always)
2. Slap them / pull the hair (if she is not complaining do it harder, but start slow..)
3. Spank them (if she is not complaining, do it more and increase power)
4. Talk dirty (like you said talk about her wet pussy, which is so good.. her lips.. her ass.. )
5. strong thouch/grab/squeeze with hands in back/ass during medium fuck (that works like magic for me)
6. Make her smile and laugh in the bed before enter her pussy.. tickel with hands toung and funny joke..
7. Aww, I love stop inside her after the first 30 seconds of the sex, and tell a joke..
8. Before going hard, ask her if she is ready to fuck hard.. I like this also..
9. Shower togther before and clean her body also help to open her..
10. Enjoy and be relax.. it has some mirror effects also..
11. Before sex attract her with your eyes get close with confidence & smile, that look with the eyes can bring fire in her mind.. (just look on her eyes and try to grab her, smile so you will not look like a freak..)

don't need doing all of those, only few can do the job..

All of these are just to make her relax to open her mind, to move her brain from defence mode to open mode so she will be able to enjoy.. then your dick can grab the glory he deserve

^^^ this is also more important if there is something that keep bother her mind like insecurities or some tasks she need to do.. its remove those annoying thoghts that prevent from her to relax & enjoy..

Only after her pussy is suddenly very wet then bring the big guns, before that slow and shallow..

I think before her pussy is wet even when using lube its too hurt and she is not relaxed means she is not fully ready to enjoy..

There is a saying that the brain is the biggest sex organ..
I was able to make girl orgasem with dry fuck, means without even put my dick in her pussy, and she has very strong orgasem like body jump without control.. we are all here obssed with dick size.. but apperently even without dick at all you can have much better success ..

I think the biggest plus of having big dick is the self confidence it give you.. and when you have big confidence in sex some magic start to happen.. really you don't need to learn that new position or that new trick, its seams that by somehow you already know it and by self confidence it will show up..

I fucked some very beautifull girls when I was afraid of them and my self confidence wasn't at the best.. so it let me think that you don't just need her to make relax, but first you need to be relaxed..

How to be relaxed with super hot girls ?
How not to even think of cumming too fast?

I think first you need to cum with energy, sex its like sport you don't go running when you are tierd or after you eat & heavy..

Second you need to set the terms not her, insist on several things, like if you want to dance naked before, and she don't insist and convince her.. while you able to convice it can bring you extra boost..

I also like to guide them, like take her hands put on my ass / back during the sex, and tell them you are doing good, like giving them grades..

Acutally I wasn't focused on that enough, how to set the enviorment to me have super confidence..

About the talking dirty need to see its not breaking her flow, but help with that..

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Writing that made me want to have sex..

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

I absolutely love your English. Its so fun to read. Not making fun of you. But your terminology is fantastic

[murad1 Member Find all posts View Profile Close murad1]

OK but someone can explain why edging with porn is useless, I think opposite, if you achieve edging with intensify stimulation would last more than without stimulation bare hand?

for me now something goes wrong so that sometimes lasting long some not by watching porn, especially if doing dry edging with pulling skin to base trigger spasm quickly, with lube lasting long...

Anyone knows link to solution for sensitive frenulum issue hence pulling skin to base?

[winnerByDefault Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close winnerByDefault]

someone can explain why edging with porn is useless,

I am far from being the expert, but.. for me its more focused expirence..because:

When you don't focused on the screen and more focused on yourself.. its become self explanatory expirence

When you don't focused on the screen you need to imgine everything.. it will develop your imgination

When your vision is not highly simulated - you will feel other sences more.. (expecailly the touch incase you will touch yourself with the extra hand.. I love it..)

-------READ THIS--------
In sex try to remember what caused/helped you cum, how you felt when it happened.. and when you edge try to focus on that feeling, it will increase your sex duration much better than just watch random porn..
-------READ THIS--------

I now last much longer.. and.. I noticed that my orgasem its much longer.. after I pass the trigger of cum, usually it took 1-3 seconds to seamen to comeout.. now its can take up to 15-20 secodns which is alot.. which is great because in that time you will be extra sensitive for longer time.. better feeling..

The first time it happend to me was strange, I know I finished, but nothing happen, few seconds went by and still nothing happen, I was still extra senstive I know I finished.. and then it happen..

I think it happen because I edge correctly (no porn) + do kegel correclty (while errect)

It should be hard in the start, the first 2-3 times was quite hard to imigine.. I needed to break some barrier, but after that it improved..

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

You could try doing kegels with a stretchy cock ring.

I have tried while being fully erect you feel the actual blood rush inside your penis.

[winnerByDefault Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close winnerByDefault]

Hi PurpleOnes

I am a fan of yo

How is the stretchy cock ring vs just hold your dick base with your hand ?

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Hi PurpleOnes

I am a fan of yo

How is the stretchy cock ring vs just hold your dick base with your hand ?

Thanks I guess.

Well you will not have to so much force and it is just better in my opinnion I mean if it's better to do kegels while being erect you should give it a try.

I guess you feel them better that way on top of that I myself see it being veiny and again feeling how the blood rushes inside my penis.

[winnerByDefault Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close winnerByDefault]

Yea, I am using it erect.. and also see my dick more full and more viens

I will buy a cock ring to give it a try..

Thanks bro!