Guys that have gained into the 7-8+ range: how d women react?

[Mediumtobig Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mediumtobig]

My main motivation for PE is for the reaction of females, not physically but psychologically. I enjoy being dominant sexually and part of that involves being physically imposing including your penis.

At 6.3"ish I am a bit above average but it's generally not going to create any shock and awe.

Guys that started out around the average range but gained 1.5-2" and above and are now 7.5, 8, 8.5 inches and so on, how did you find women reacted differently compared to when you were average?

I ask because I have no idea what sizes you see in porn, those dicks look pretty insane and I can't imagine even 2"+ onto my cock making me look like one of them - so I'm wondering if it really does or if porn sets even higher impossible standards and Hereford women wouldn't be impressed even by 8"?

[ShaneC Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ShaneC]

Porn uses a lot of angles, special lenses, lightning, small girls/big guys, pumping, Viagra and so on to make the dicks look more impressive than they really are.

If you look closer to many of the male pornstars, they arent really that big that one might get the impression of. Some angles/scenes it looks huge, but in the next it looks pretty average. How come?

Of course there are those few guys that are big, but even they look bigger than the really are because of all the "special effects".

Just google pornmeasurements and tumblr or check the link below:

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or look into this thread:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/425...enis-size.html

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Porn uses a lot of angles, special lenses, lightning, small girls/big guys, pumping, Viagra and so on to make the dicks look more impressive than they really are.

If you look closer to many of the male pornstars, they arent really that big that one might get the impression of. Some angles/scenes it looks huge, but in the next it looks pretty average. How come?

Of course there are those few guys that are big, but even they look bigger than the really are because of all the "special effects".

Just google pornmeasurements and tumblr or check the link below:

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or look into this thread:
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/425...enis-size.html

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[ShaneC Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close ShaneC]

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Sorry, didnt think of it that way. Wont happen again

[master-gauge Senior Member Member of the Month May 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close master-gauge]

It's more important that the guy is looking good, in shape 8% BF Abs are seem most times, etc in main stream porn then anything else.. Most porn stars are between 6.5" to 7" BPEL.. Key thing, in shape..

[Mediumtobig Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mediumtobig]

Hey his thanks for the replies, I'm sure you're right hat there is a lot of trickery involved in porn and I really should know better than to use it as any kind of benchmark lol.

But leaving porn aside, has anyone gone from being mister average to mister big in the eyes of women as opposed to just us and our rulers!

[biggerjones Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close biggerjones]

Yeah porn is pretty clever with angles and close-ups. I think most of them are probably around 7 inches aside from the freaks of nature.

Hell even some of my pictures i've taken to track progress make me look like a porn star, and as you can see from my signature i'm very average. A normal size dick next to small hands or a dainty woman can make you look pretty big.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

My main motivation for PE is for the reaction of females, not physically but psychologically. I enjoy being dominant sexually and part of that involves being physically imposing including your penis.

Personally, I think this is the wrong motivation for doing PE. You have set the bar so far out that it can only lead to failure. Your goal will most likely have a de-motivating effect if you do not over time see sufficient gains to get where you want to be. It is better to set smaller short term goals so you have reason to celebrate when you reach a milestone. It will also motivate you to get to the next step in your journey. Those that have gained as much as you desire, I think are few and far between. Realistic goals, in life overall, as opposed to more unrealistic goals will do more to push you where you want to be.

From someone on the larger size, when you get there, you will still feel it is still small and you will want more. Learning to use what you got well is more important than trying to scare the daylights out of girls. Being bigger also sometimes limits what you can do such as no deep throat, no balls deep pounding, more difficult to do anal, etc.

[DDCRLO Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DDCRLO]

Very interesting topic. Keep the thread going

[Mediumtobig Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mediumtobig]

Personally, I think this is the wrong motivation for doing PE. You have set the bar so far out that it can only lead to failure. Your goal will most likely have a de-motivating effect if you do not over time see sufficient gains to get where you want to be. It is better to set smaller short term goals so you have reason to celebrate when you reach a milestone. It will also motivate you to get to the next step in your journey. Those that have gained as much as you desire, I think are few and far between. Realistic goals, in life overall, as opposed to more unrealistic goals will do more to push you where you want to be.

From someone on the larger size, when you get there, you will still feel it is still small and you will want more. Learning to use what you got well is more important than trying to scare the daylights out of girls. Being bigger also sometimes limits what you can do such as no deep throat, no balls deep pounding, more difficult to do anal, etc.

I know much of this is true and it must be very easy to fall into that trap, but, there is a bell curve of pensis sizes and when you're on the high end of it, presumably when people see it, they react different to if you were average.

Bring a dom I'm looking to create that wow/shock/slight fear factor with my penis, it's what I know a lot of sub women enjoy.

Presumably someone going from 6 to 8" though PE who is sexually active would have seen how their partner/s changed in their reaction to the size of their penis, considering they went from slightly above average to the top 98% percentile.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I just want to be able to reach bottom on 99% of girls out there, if possible. Also at that size I'd probably be able to give them something they might not have experienced before (or rarely), and if anyone where to call me small I'd know they are just playing mindgames with me.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

I'm kind of a different duck, er, ah, DICK! (LOL!) AS a natural-born "shower", women I've been with have usually had a positive reaction to my flaccid size even before I'm erect. I think that has proven to be an asset for me, simply because most guys aren't "showers". The anticipation of penetration from women during foreplay for a larger than normal flaccid (visually), increases their excitement and hastens their arousal, IMO.

Having said that, uninhibited foreplay and good sexual skills outweigh any size variable for most women, I think. MOST women are not as visually stimulated as guys; thus PORN is more of a guy's addiction problem, for instance. Some women are more visually stimulated than others for sure, but a guy's skill level, relaxed playfulness during sex, and overall physique will generally outweigh his penis size, IMO. Being a "shower" (flaccid) though, certainly doesn't hurt! Regular PE generally helps build flaccid size for most guys too, and that's a VERY GOOD THING!

[Little Stanley Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Little Stanley]

Her reaction isn't much different. Of course the growth was gradual. If I gained my inch in one night I'm sure she would have reacted more. I did notice when I made my first 1/4" her eyes opened real wide and she said positive comments. Now she's used to it.

Overall I made it to 7.5" bpel and .3 more in girth. I'm just touching bottom some of the times in the best positions. I have to say it has not made that big of a difference to her. She don't mind having her cervix hit unlike some women, but it don't make her orgasm any better than before. Fingers and tongues works best and the shallow g spot is way more sensitive than the deeper a spot for her at least. Yea, she likes to be penetrated too. However; my 7.5" does the same job that my 6.5" did. I always thought the size don't matter line was bullshit to make us feel better. Now through PE I learned it's true, at least to some women.

[finlandia Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close finlandia]

Personally, I think this is the wrong motivation for doing PE. You have set the bar so far out that it can only lead to failure. Your goal will most likely have a de-motivating effect if you do not over time see sufficient gains to get where you want to be

Spot on!

The health and function should be the at the top of your goals. A penis that can be ready to go and go for a long time at moments notice should be the main motivation for most and the change in size is just a bonus that comes with any PE Routine.

My wife certainly not complaining but there are some drawbacks at my current size. Quickies are almost out of the question as proper foreplay is a must every time. We both kinda miss those 5-6 min spontaneous quick and go sessions. She enjoys giving Oral and my girth has given her issues at one point where I had to stop working on it till she adjusted which took almost 6 months.

Also if we had a marathon session the day before the following day has to be nice and slow sex or she gets sore. I don't mean to sound like a downer but there are drawbacks and like I said my wife certainly not complaining as her orgasms can be extremely powerful at times compared to before. Also as Jock pointed out the bigger Flaccid has certainly played a role where many times it can get her going in the mood pretty quickly.

But our sex life has improved not because of the gain in my size but the function of my unit. So as long as you have right motivation and treat PE as a lifestyle/marathon then all the bonuses that come along with doing PE will feel that much more rewarding.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

REPS to YOU, finlandia! I can relate to your post above^^^, item by item. A great motivational post for newbies to follow! Congratz!