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    Is there any specific thing that a woman worries about as much as men worry about their size? I can't really think of something woman obsess over so much, that they actually avoid relationships sometimes because they are so nervous about something or so scared of feeling rejection.

    Obviously, if a girl has some sort of issue going on down there or, somewhere else on her body, that could contribute but, I think most girls don't worry about these things, not as much as guys do.

    So, have any of the girls here ever worried about a specific thing for years and years? Ever liked someone but chickened out because you felt you wouldn't be accepted? And yeah, any specific things common to ladies that you guys worry about as much as guys do their junk.

  • #2
    They worry about curtains; cause much stress!
    The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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    • #3
      You are looking for physical things.

      I got something different - I read one a survey once that the top problem most woman in our current society face is having to manage career & family at the same time.

      Other than that, you could watch some youtube videos about (gorgeous) chubby girls and how they suffer with confidence issues.
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      • #4
        I do believe they are smarter than us in that regard so I don't think they worry all that much.
        The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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        • #5
          Women worry about everything; just ask my GF!

          You never slow down, you never grow old!

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          • #6
            Women don't worry about (obsess) over their genitalia like males do because their girly bits are passive in nature when it comes to the most basic function of sex.
            This is not to say that they are passive during sex by any means, only that in the most basic physics of sex, they receive. Whereas us guys have to be able to perform. We have to physically be able to get an erection, maintain it long enough to penetrate and plant our seed within them to carry on our genetic line.
            While I'm certain that women want to be able to enjoy sex and orgasms, they do not physically have to be able to have them to engage in sex.
            Us males have to be able to perform and it is well understood that the better a male is able to perform, the more opportunities there will be to plant our seed.
            Many women may think we obsess over our junk excessively but they do not understand that our desire (both conscious and subconscious) to spread our seed is incredibly strong and is at its essence what it means to be a male.
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            • #7
              Women’s 10 Biggest Worries About Sex


              1. I can’t orgasm from intercourse.
              2. I don’t look good naked.
              3. I don’t have a “normal” vagina.
              4. I’m bad at sex.
              5. Sex with my partner will eventually get boring/routine.
              6. My sex drive is too low.
              7. I’ve had too many (or not enough) sexual partners.
              8. My STD is going to ruin my sex life.
              9. I’m not having sex right now.
              10. I get turned on by things I don’t actually want to do in real life.

              http://http://www.huffingtonpost.com...n_2777019.html


              I think #2 is a Biggie for the ladies. I learned early on to ALWAYS complement the lady on her looks/body and how much she turns me on!

              As to Number 1, my Wife learned otherwise.
              “The world will not be destroyed by those who do evil, but by those who watch them without doing anything” Albert Einstein

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              • #8
                Originally posted by cusp82 View Post
                they worry about curtains; cause much stress!
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                “The world will not be destroyed by those who do evil, but by those who watch them without doing anything” Albert Einstein

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by akaTrex View Post
                  Women’s 10 Biggest Worries About Sex


                  1. I can’t orgasm from intercourse.
                  2. I don’t look good naked.
                  3. I don’t have a “normal” vagina.
                  4. I’m bad at sex.
                  5. Sex with my partner will eventually get boring/routine.
                  6. My sex drive is too low.
                  7. I’ve had too many (or not enough) sexual partners.
                  8. My STD is going to ruin my sex life.
                  9. I’m not having sex right now.
                  10. I get turned on by things I don’t actually want to do in real life.

                  http://http://www.huffingtonpost.com...n_2777019.html


                  I think #2 is a Biggie for the ladies. I learned early on to ALWAYS complement the lady on her looks/body and how much she turns me on!

                  As to Number 1, my Wife learned otherwise.
                  I've got to say I don't think I've ever worried about any of those. Although I have worried when I was younger if I would catch him with my teeth or snap his penis if I was having sex too rigorously.

                  When we decided to have a child I did worry I wouldn't fall pregnant. That was a major stress and made me feel like failure each month until it happened.

                  I do worry now tho, if do leave him, actually having sex with another man after being with the same man for ten years is scary. And of course after having a child.
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Tara123 View Post
                    I've got to say I don't think I've ever worried about any of those. Although I have worried when I was younger if I would catch him with my teeth or snap his penis if I was having sex too rigorously.

                    When we decided to have a child I did worry I wouldn't fall pregnant. That was a major stress and made me feel like failure each month until it happened.

                    I do worry now tho, if do leave him, actually having sex with another man after being with the same man for ten years is scary. And of course after having a child.
                    If I ever find a lady who wants to have my child (lol), I should get a vasectomy first and then constantly heckle her about not being able to bear me any children. Thanks also for the only post from a girl. I keep forgetting there aren't many of them here (and there shouldn't be, this is a PE website).

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by akaTrex View Post
                      Women’s 10 Biggest Worries About Sex


                      1. I can’t orgasm from intercourse.
                      2. I don’t look good naked.
                      3. I don’t have a “normal” vagina.
                      4. I’m bad at sex.
                      5. Sex with my partner will eventually get boring/routine.
                      6. My sex drive is too low.
                      7. I’ve had too many (or not enough) sexual partners.
                      8. My STD is going to ruin my sex life.
                      9. I’m not having sex right now.
                      10. I get turned on by things I don’t actually want to do in real life.

                      http://http://www.huffingtonpost.com...n_2777019.html


                      I think #2 is a Biggie for the ladies. I learned early on to ALWAYS complement the lady on her looks/body and how much she turns me on!

                      As to Number 1, my Wife learned otherwise.
                      Yep, those sound pretty accurate to me.

                      #1 has never been a *worry* for me, even though it's not something that I do. It's been more of an annoyance than anything. There are some guys that seem to expect that women can just orgasm on demand. It's a little weird being with someone who keeps saying "Oh yeah, cum for me baby, come on..." when you know that's just not going to happen. THEN it becomes a worry -- okay so what am I supposed to do now? Do I fake it and make him happy? If I don't then he's going to feel frustrated... why is he putting this pressure on me? Does he think I can just snap my fingers and it's going to happen?

                      #2 is something I think many women worry about. I know I certainly do. Even when you're secure and confident in your looks there's always *something* about yourself that you don't like. And god forbid you should be having sex by a mirror or something you can see your reflection in and be at just the wrong angle because then suddenly you're thinking OMG my ass looks huge, or my thighs look huge, or whatever body area the unflattering angle has happened to highlight, because then you're obsessing over that and hoping that your partner isn't.

                      #3 - I don't know that I'd necessarily say "normal" but I think sometimes women worry about if that area is attractive. Particularly when it comes to things like should I shave, trim etc.

                      #5 - of course women worry about sex becoming boring or routine. I don't read magazines like Cosmo etc but looking at the covers you'd think that things like that, and how to be better at sex, are primary concerns of women. They always seem to be pushing articles about how to make your love life spicier, how to keep things interesting, how to keep your man from straying because he's bored, how to be better in bed, how to be more attractive to your partner, etc etc.

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                      • #12
                        #1, being up front with your partner to make this a non issue. My girl told me don't even try, then recently she had her first PIV orgasm. Go figure.

                        #2, women worry so much about their bodies but yet eat like shit and don't work out. What do you expect? Its the same idea as guys complaining they can't get laid when all they do sit behind a computer.

                        #3, unless your vagina is seriously deformed, just make sure its clean and well manicured. Simple.

                        #4, the only time women are bad at aex is when they just lay there. Get involved and make noise. Women have it so easy.

                        #5, it only gets as boring as you let it. Give your man a BJ on the drive home from a party and fuck as soon as you get in the door. Send flirty text messages. A million things you can do.

                        #6, this is a difficult one. However, you need to make the effort. If you are not down for sex, give your man a back rub and suck his dick. You might get turned on you might not, but at least you put in the effort and show you are trying. My ex was like this due to depression and meds. I told her she at least needs to try. Make an effort. I didn't see effort so I dumped her.

                        #7, complete non issue

                        #8, well, this is your fault and you need to find someone willing to accept it.

                        #9, women can have sex with just about any guy they want at any time. Why do so few women actually realize this.

                        #10, its cool. Keep them in your fantasies unless you know your partner is into them.

                        We are all in control over our lives. If you don't like something, you have the power to change it. Sitting around complaining and worrying while you do nothing will keep people unhappy in life.
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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Qandisa View Post
                          #2 is something I think many women worry about. I know I certainly do. Even when you're secure and confident in your looks there's always *something* about yourself that you don't like. And god forbid you should be having sex by a mirror or something you can see your reflection in and be at just the wrong angle because then suddenly you're thinking OMG my ass looks huge, or my thighs look huge, or whatever body area the unflattering angle has happened to highlight, because then you're obsessing over that and hoping that your partner isn't.
                          I specifically put a mirror on the wall next to my bed. So we both can see how amazing it looks. I like to bend them over facing the mirror, then pull their hair to lift their head so they can watch. Women seem to dig it, but maybe not as much as I do. Lol
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                          • #14
                            I would hazard a guess that most women worry about how their bodies look, one way or another. And the other thing is unrealistic expectations set forth from porn can also cause a damper, for both women and men and their behaviors. One thing I realized belatedly from my previous marriage is that I, without realizing it, sometimes tried to emulate the porn stars that I'd seen in the past even though it wasn't really authentic to me. I realized I'd done it because I subconsciously thought I wouldn't be sexy enough if I didn't.

                            In regular life, other things. Women tend to judge each other, a lot, and that causes massive amounts of stress. I've had to distance myself from some women because of this, particularly since my off grid lifestyle involves some compromises that seem weird to many people, especially women.

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Qandisa View Post
                              Yep, those sound pretty accurate to me.

                              #1 has never been a *worry* for me, even though it's not something that I do. It's been more of an annoyance than anything. There are some guys that seem to expect that women can just orgasm on demand. It's a little weird being with someone who keeps saying "Oh yeah, cum for me baby, come on..." when you know that's just not going to happen. THEN it becomes a worry -- okay so what am I supposed to do now? Do I fake it and make him happy? If I don't then he's going to feel frustrated... why is he putting this pressure on me? Does he think I can just snap my fingers and it's going to happen?

                              #2 is something I think many women worry about. I know I certainly do. Even when you're secure and confident in your looks there's always *something* about yourself that you don't like. And god forbid you should be having sex by a mirror or something you can see your reflection in and be at just the wrong angle because then suddenly you're thinking OMG my ass looks huge, or my thighs look huge, or whatever body area the unflattering angle has happened to highlight, because then you're obsessing over that and hoping that your partner isn't.

                              #3 - I don't know that I'd necessarily say "normal" but I think sometimes women worry about if that area is attractive. Particularly when it comes to things like should I shave, trim etc.

                              #5 - of course women worry about sex becoming boring or routine. I don't read magazines like Cosmo etc but looking at the covers you'd think that things like that, and how to be better at sex, are primary concerns of women. They always seem to be pushing articles about how to make your love life spicier, how to keep things interesting, how to keep your man from straying because he's bored, how to be better in bed, how to be more attractive to your partner, etc etc.
                              1- I don't really understand how a woman can't orgasm during sex... Like, if she rubs herself while your inside of her and she cums, I still think that counts. I mean, I could stick my dick in a fruit and if I fucked it hard enough eventually I'd orgasm, doesn't take away form the fact the vagina feels amazing. Maybe you just haven't found someone your comfortable with, or you just aren't comfortable enough with yourself to orgasm around someone else.

                              Not that there is anything wrong with you, but, I'm usually so negative but this is one of the few things I have a positive view on. I don't expect I can get every girl off, especially if its just a one night stand (only had one anyways) or she isn't into me. But, if she IS into me, knows me and loves me, but STILL can't orgasm, I look at that as her fault and her issue, not mine. I can't fix w/e mental issue she has that she can orgasm by herself but not with me, I'm not a doctor. Granted this has never happened, I'm just giving my opinion. As a guy though, its pretty disheartening at the same time. Imagine how you would feel if no matter what you did you couldn't make your man orgasm, see that feeling where the orgasm is so good they almost pass out its so overwhelming. Not being able to see that does suck and if it persisted I would not ever stay with that girl. Just my 2 cents.

                              2 - I think almost every girl looks good naked. I mean, unless you have a really ugly face or some nasty looking scars or colors all over, your pretty set. My ex was a bigger girl and I still found her sexy, she did eventually get too big for my tastes and I admit I wasn't very attracted to her anymore, but, that's just my taste. I'd love it if I could look in the mirror and think "damn my dick looks TOO big", most guys like big asses, or at least, if you have an unmissable big ass, then the guy who's sleeping with you is probably into it so, I'd say that should give you a bit of a confidence boost like "i bet he's loving that".

                              But everyone I think wants to look good naked... At least, most normal people who like sex.

                              3 - You already know my opinion here but, I find dirty talk and stuff like that can really help you be comfortable with someone and ease some tension. I had insecurities about my dick but my ex while she would be giving me oral or having sex would describe its shape color how it looked and felt and how much she loved it etc. Helped a lot with both our confidence, and saying it out loud and thinking about it got us excited. But yeah if its gross its hard to be excited about it. I am insecure of course about my foreskin thing but I've had it since around grade 9, its never ever been mentioned, I've always had girls give me head, and my ex was practically in love with it.

                              5 - Eh, usually I've never got sick of the sex, just the person themselves. I'm extremely dominant so, I'm always finding ways to try and transform w/e girl I'm with into my own well... Slave? That sounds awful but I'm sure you get what I mean. Like, texting your lady and telling her to be bent over and ready for the moment you get home, or being out in public and needing a little something and she obeys without question. I donno, I can't imagine getting bored of that. I think some people are just BORING people themselves.

                              I did a cam thing with this girl I know for awhile, she would giggle and laugh when I'd moan or make a noise, she was impossible to talk dirty with, and even when she would start feeling good/being close to orgasm, DEAD quiet, she wouldn't make any noise. Boring in bed, no imagination, actually stupid (like, actually), and just in general basic as hell. She would complain that guys never wanted to stay with her, I'm her friend so of course, I'm not gonna put her down, but, I definitely know why and I don't blame the guys.

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