Women's and Men's View Virginity

[inquisitiveness Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close inquisitiveness]

To the women of this forum:

Does it matter much about a man's virginity?

Ive been thinking of getting into the dating scene but I have too much pride to give up my first love to a woman.

I always thought it would be a special bond between my first love and me.

To the men:

Am I just being homosexual.

[Drjohn Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Drjohn]

Theres nothing wrong with that, some men care, some do not care.

I did not care, i actually lost My virginity with hard anal sex lol, anal before vaginal

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

You're not being <homosexual>. Lol. How old are you? Why are you holding your virginity? I think most women would respect your virginity.

I will tell you one thing. Once you get the smell and taste of a womans lips, you won't want to stay a virgin very long. You can't be a virgin forever. I guess you could be but having sex is so much more fun.

But either way, nothing wrong with being a virgin. But you can't find your great love if you don't try. Go out with some women, get used to them. Take it slow. Women usually don't jump into sex right away unless you are trying to get their pants off.

Get out their and check it out. You are missing out on one of the most amazing parts of life.

[jockinthebox Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close jockinthebox]

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[Priorititties Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Priorititties]

I lost my virginity to my first love and even though we aren't together anymore, I never regretted the decision that I waited for someone I loved to lose it to. You should lose your virginity when you are ready, because it would be a shame to regret that you gave it away.

[Ravenously Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ravenously]

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I'm I allowed to use HOMO to refer to milk? As in Homogenized Milk.

Or a genus. As in:

Homo Sapien
Or
Homo Erectus ( he he, Homo Erectus)?

[Physdoc Retired Moderator Member of the Month July 2019 Find all posts View Profile Close Physdoc]

I lost my virginity as a teen to a woman 5 years older than me. She was all over me and next thing I knew it was happening. I'm sure I was a bumbling fool in the process, but it was awesome nonetheless. I didn't look at it as "giving up" something, just a great experience. And it didn't have any negative impact on my life, whatsoever. Just a good memory.

[closed251 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close closed251]

If a guy I liked was virgin, it wouldn't bother me. I don't find it appealing but I don't find it off-putting neither. It would just be a fact about him.

It probably would cross my mind if we got into a sexual relationship, that he might want to 'try' other women to see what's out there/ differences.

I don't believe sex changes you as a person. Be careful not to hang to much emphasis' on losing your virginity to the perfect person. The moment may feel not as you expect or the relationship might not last.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Not sure it matters what others think. You do what feels right in your heart and nobody will think any different about what you decide to do. If the girl you find is also saving herself, that would just be a bonus. But, virgin or not, don't let that stop you from dating, it is not a prerequisite for the position.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

I've never lost my virginity either..





...I know exactly who has it!

[dairo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dairo]

I think you are worrying too much about this.

When you start to kiss a woman, and you are alone in a safe place, things just go as God intended them to go.

Just let it happen when it happens. You don't need that perfect someone, and you don't need a barfly either. Just someone you can smile at and she smiles back and there is some connection, and it happens. You make out, your hands and her hands go places, and... that's it. It's over, you will feel the main feeling it is to be a man, and you will be changed. I can't explain the change, it's just there. Like turning 21.

That was my experience.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hX0BsjnZKto

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

I never thought I'd end up being with the same gal at 18 I lost my virginity too but 36 years later here we are. Yes I wonder what it would be like with another lady. Wish I hadn't, ruined a lot of fun she mite have had over the years. My 24 year old daughter is in Semenary. To become a youth minister and saving herself for her future husband. One of her best friends just married and had done the same. As her father, I've advised her to try a few dicks before settling down. If she never will leave him and have kids with him, she better be satisfied with his dick. I know crazy fatherly advise.

[dairo Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dairo]

Deleted out of respect for getting off topic.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Uhh... you may want to rethink your way of thinking on this. I don't think you have any clue on the Bible or how your daughter views sex and marriage in general. Kind of disappointed in you Party. I feel sorry for you in a way.

I mean no disrespect though, just speaking from my point of view.

Oh, well golly jee wizz I'm sorry I disappoint you, not. But you don't understand my relationship with my daughter, we talk about anything. And sorry but I don't need to explain or give a rats ass about your opinion. And yes I understand her relationship with God, but I want her to have a good time in the bedroom too. I think that the two don't have to interfere with Eachother. I disappointed my wife for years, I don't want her to suffer that too.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Gonna have to call a truce on you two before it gets out of hand. Dairo, we need to treat others with respect, and as you started the exchange, I ask that you step back. Party, as you have stated in many other posts - Take the high road... Thank you gentlemen.